Date: 5/24/2003 7:23:00 AM
From Authorid: 13119
You aren't being selfish you are being manipulated. Would you ever treat your friends in the manner he is treating you? He is using you and you should expect better.  |
Date: 5/24/2003 7:27:00 AM
From Authorid: 33925
I agree EXACTLY with what Magoo just said.  |
Date: 5/24/2003 7:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 62136
Personally, if it were me, I would lose him! If he were interested enough in you, he would call you regularly and see you regularly. Is it possible that he has another girlfriend? that would be my first impression. There are too many fishy things about what you say about him. There should be no good reason he cant come to your home or vice versa! It doesnt sound like he is very interested in you at all. I dont mean that in a bad way like there is something wrong with you, its just that new loves usually are inseperable and its not like he travels and its keeping him away! RUN! Just my opinion :)
((((hugs))))
~ZooKeeper~  |
Date: 5/24/2003 7:31:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 42522
Thanx you guys. :(  |
Date: 5/24/2003 7:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 35720
You're missing out on a real relationship Barbie.. break up with this guy.  |
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Date: 5/24/2003 7:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 35720
"He told me that I was the best thing in his life right now, and that if he lost me, he would go into depression." Every guy says that and I hate to say it, but only a few mean it. |
Date: 5/24/2003 7:56:00 AM
From Authorid: 34794
Okay, first of all, I have had the same problem. If you love him enoigh to want to work through this dilemma, talk to him personally about it. Tell him you want to meet his family, and you want him to meet yours, and you want to hang out with him at your house or his. Ask him why he doesn't ever call. Just be sure you don't sound pushy or clingy when you say things like this, because he may just have a commitment problem. But if you feel the relationship is going nowhere even after you discuss it with him, break it off. Nobody wants to stay with someone who doesn't respect them enough to call. :) Hope I helped :)  |
Date: 5/24/2003 8:07:00 AM
From Authorid: 6915
so you see him once every 2 monthes? so you've seen him about twice total? i say break it off, it doesnt sound like he cares  |
Date: 5/24/2003 9:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 37449
I think I would end it..my reason? Magoo said it all.  |
Date: 5/24/2003 9:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 49037
I say loose him. You deserve better. What you described doesn't sound like a real relationship to me. He needs to either get a clue or just stop being such a jerk. Don't let him get away with it.  |
Date: 5/24/2003 9:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 31255
That doesn't really sound like a relationship. Maybe you should just tell him this once a month deal at the mall isnt working for you... if he really cares he will change his ways quickly...  |
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Date: 5/24/2003 9:57:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 42522
Thank you so much guys. :) |
Date: 5/24/2003 12:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 62095
I am sure you would find someone else you could see all of the time, and if not at least you wouldnt feel so bad. *cass*  |
Date: 5/24/2003 1:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 42515
I have been telling you to get rid of him since the first day you starting going out!! He's not worth it!!  |
Date: 5/24/2003 7:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 21912
no you're not being selfish and a lot of guys use the excuse of saying they're going to go in depression if u break it off, that's blackmailing u. i kinda know how it feels not to see the person for such a long time, and you're putting all the effort into it. i say break it off and then wait later for when u actually have time for each other, unless u meet someone way better and someone u can actually see and phones. i was also told by many guys that during the summer guys want to be single and don't want the responsibility of having a gf, they just want to have fun first...i dunno try that maybe  |
Date: 5/24/2003 9:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
walk away now... tell him that the relationship isn't going anywhere and you feel like your hiding it in the closet and you don't want to have a long distance relationship with someone who is only a few minutes away.... tell him it isn't going to work how it's going and move on.. atleast you haven't wasted a good portion of time on this... you've given it a good amount of time  |
Date: 5/25/2003 4:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 60685
I may not be the one to talk, I'm kinda in the same situation but the guy lives over an hour away and we talk on the phone all the time. We call each other and he knows my number. I understand that you love him but ask yourself this, if he loves you as much as he says then why does he act the way he does? You shouldn't be asking him to call you and he lives 10 minutes away and can't walk to your house? That seems fishy. If you were to drop him you wouldn't be being selfish at all, looks to me like he's the selfish one here. Now I dunno if he can't see you simply because he might be a player or maybe he has some family problems in which case you could always offer help as a friend. Either way, this is not a healthy situation for you. There's a reason why you wrote this post, I think you will know what to do. *hugs*
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Date: 5/30/2003 11:30:00 AM
From Authorid: 46139
Dump him,he's hidding something.  |
