Date: 5/24/2003 10:56:00 AM
From Authorid: 11341
My opinion is a 14 year old shouldnt be in a "relationship" anyway. The only other advice I can give is to follow your heart, no what ifs, no i dont want to be alone, follow your heart.  |
Date: 5/24/2003 11:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 62095
I used to go through the same things at that age. This will not be the only time when you will have to make this decision. When I was younger and it happened to me I would usually go for the new guy because it was fun and new. I had many boyfriends and over time I started realizing that I had hurt a lot of people. Just look in your heart for the answer, but know that if you stay with this guy you have to be strong for when these things happened because I am sure it will happen again. I dont know if this even helps but to let you know I am 22 and remember the days. *cass*  |
Date: 5/24/2003 1:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 49037
I'm 25, and things like that were still happening to me up until last year when I met my husband. I was always afraid to take a chance because if it didn't work out with the new guy, I would have lost them both. I don't know what to tell you, because these kinds of things are so personal, but maybe spend more time with the 2nd guy, not a date or anything, just hanging out as friends, and see if your feelings get stronger. Maybe it's just a little crush (i've had enough of those over the years!). or maybe it's not. Just follow your heart.  |
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Date: 5/24/2003 2:42:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49959
Thanks everyone, I've been Thinking over this issue for about a week or so. I've decided, if i was meant to be with one or the other, i'll be with them some how. Since I just meant the other guy, I think i'll get to know him better as a friend. I thought to myself, how could i stand losing. I couldn't lose my boyfriend and I realized how much he really does mean to me. Thank you for all the advice. Love Always~~~~Sokie |
Date: 5/24/2003 3:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 37150
hmm well a friend of mine loves her boyfriend very much and they went on break for a few months. She dated this other guy but her boyfriend decided he wanted her back so she took him back. So i guess that shows that if u love something so much and u let it go & it comes back 2 u then it's "meant 2 be". It's hard to say dear, u know what's in ur heart; no one can make this decision 4 u. I think the boyfriend ur w/ can be just as fun as this other guy. Ur young and this situation could happen several times during ur life, personally i haven't been in a serious relationship.The one i was in, well he started falling 4 me real strong and was very committed & i just wasn't ready 4 something serious. Course, i'm single now. Good luck and which ever decision u make is ur own and is the right 1. Don't worry, be happy. Take care,  |
Date: 5/24/2003 8:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 21912
i've been there a million times in the end after 4 years i realized that i'm young and i took the chance of breaking it off to be with someone else. i figured if it was meant to be i'd be back with him. if not i'll learn from my mistakes and it won't screw up ur life, it'll just help you through other relationships. and especially for you, you're very young and most relationships that start that young won't last, it's not very often u hear someone marry their high school sweetheart and are still in love after the marriage. just ask what feels right and what would u get out of going with the other guy, look at his defaults and good things, can he meet ur needs, does he have stuff in common...cause i've made the mistake of just thinking i like this guy and that's that, i didn't actually think what he could bring me, it was obviously just lust..anyways just think of that  |
Date: 5/24/2003 9:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
you can't have your cake(or guy) and eat it too....if you don't want to lose your current don't give him up... a good compatible guy is VERY VERY hard to find some people spend a good portion of thier life looking for one  |
