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Has He Lost Interest Or Just Being Normal?? ~*Got Bubbles?*~

  Author:  49091  Category:(General Advice) Created:(7/10/2003 3:53:00 PM)
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I rather not inclose the persons name. So I would like to call him Aaron. Before I get started, I would like to say Aaron and I have loved eachother for about 4-5 months. We really want to be together, but there are certian things holding us back. So just and FYI for when I mention the "I love you's" and all On the afternoon of July 4th I was talking to Aaron about each others plans for the night. And he said he was upset about his gf and I know when he says that he may need someone to talk to. So I tlaked to him about it just a bit, nothing big or nothing like that. So anyways, when the time came that we had to go we said our goody byes abd I love you's, like normal. Saturday came and I wasn't able to get on because of family reasons. So when Sunday rolled around I got on and he was on. We talked a little,but not as much as normal, like we didn't know what to talk about or we just weren't talking. So when it came time for him or I to go again we said our goodbyes and I'love's again, like always. Monday came quick and a lot of family problems were all around. So I talked to him a lot about my brother and all and he made me feel so much better and confident and able to deal with what my brother's doing to this family. So Tuesday came and boy was it a shocker!!! My brother was told "If you can't follow te house rules and live by them, you have the option of moving out. If you are going to live here you have to follow the rules or the house, if you don't want to follow them, there's the door!" So here I was watching my 15 yr old brother packing his thiings up to live out of the house. And just the night before Aaron and I were talking about how if he never was home his parents would ask him to move out and I had said my dad would never let my brother move out. So I wanted to tell him what had happened. So after my swim meet on Tuesday night I logged on and told him what was going on and he was like I am glad your brother isn't there anymore. You don't need to live around that. That type of conversation. Awakwardly (sp?) he sounded really upset. So I talked to him about what was going on and tried to be there as much as I could. but when it was time for me to sogn off, I knew he probley didn't want to type out our normal huge long good bye. So I just said bye,I love you and goodnight babe. He said the same and I left. Yesterday I got and it was awarkward at first because he wasn't on. Hmm I thought. So I waited and he finally signed on, so I waited for him to IM me first to see if he was still upset or not. So He IMed me and we said the normal how are yous? and all, but then we just stopped talking. It was really weird. All we did for most of the night was put smileiy face after smiliey face. Then he said he had to go. So I thouht maybe since he was in a better mood he may want to say our normal long good bye, like we always do, so I typed it all out and he was like srry,gotta go.I love you so much too. Goodnight. And I said I love you Aaron(name chage) and he was like goodnight. He sorta made it sound like he had to go right then so, I blew it off at first, then he stayed on for another 5-10 min. My friends and I don't know whats go on. Do you think he's starting to lose interest? Or is he just being a normal guy? I am starting to think its time for me to move on. I will always love him no matter what but this not talking is killing me!!! What do you guys think??

~*Got Bubbles?*~

I am SOOOOOOOOO sorry for having it so long!!!

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Date: 7/10/2003 4:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    i'm guessing this is an internet only based relationship... they are very hard expecially for younger people... he may be upset becuase your not divoting all your time to him and he wants all your time... it's up to you if you want to continue this or leave...and go your seperate ways... he could be losing interst.. he could just be upset that your real life comes first over the internet based relationship....  
Date: 7/10/2003 4:28:00 PM  From Authorid: 11341    Could one of the things holding him back be his gf? This doesnt sound like a relationship I would want to be in. As far as why hes not answering you I have no idea. Good luck  
Date: 7/10/2003 4:43:00 PM  From Authorid: 30986    Never ever trust a man/boy who would say he loves you while he is still envolved with someone else. This is why I've never understood women chasing married men, or the whole mistress thing. If he will cheat on someone else to be with you, he will cheat on you to be with someone else. I think it's best he's pulling away now.  
Date: 7/10/2003 5:05:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49091    Thanx so much guys!! I really appreciate you all reading and replyin. I will private msg the answer to questions. Thanx so much for reading!!  
Date: 7/10/2003 5:19:00 PM  From Authorid: 8278    i agree. i was kind of confused when you said "gf". my advice is never get involved with someone who is already involved with someone. in my experience i have learned that if a guy will cheat on someone with you, then he will cheat on you with someone. it is very possible that he has no intention of leaving the person he is with. my advice would be to move on. i hope everything works out for you.  
Date: 7/10/2003 7:13:00 PM  From Authorid: 35720    I don't know if I believe it's true love on either of your parts, sis, sorry. I'm not going to judge, but it just doesn't sound like it to me. You shouldn't go for someone who cheats.. chances are, he'll also cheat on you!  
Date: 7/10/2003 8:19:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49091    Thanx guys!! xoxo **sarah**  
Date: 7/10/2003 9:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 51587    i would say sis is that i wouldn't worry about....go w/what you think may be going on w/the guy...I dont want to see you hurt like you have before...and go for an other guy that lives around where you do...if you know who i'mtalking about lol *huggs*  
Date: 7/10/2003 9:29:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49091    LOL Oh baby!! you want me to hit on oh baby?!?! LOL thanx sis!  
Date: 7/11/2003 7:09:00 PM  From Authorid: 51587    lol ya talk to oh baby! lol bwahaha *huggs*  
Date: 7/11/2003 8:20:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 49091    lol Aight sis. I will :-p **Oh baby!!**  

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