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ARE YOU????? Or AREN'T YOU???? ... ..... ...... ...... ....... ...... *Gail*

  Author:  30229  Category:(USM Events) Created:(7/11/2003 3:31:00 PM)
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Tolerate!!!



TOLERANCE!!!!

tol·er·ance ( P ) Pronunciation Key (tlr-ns) n. definiation: The capacity for or the practice of recognizing and respecting the beliefs or practices of others.



TOLERANCE!!!

Isnt it a beautiful word???? Do you practice Tolerance??? If someone says something that it totally different than what you believe, do you recognize and respect their belief for being THEIR BELIEF, or do you disrespect it and try to change their minds... Are you rude to people who dont have the same ideas and ideals that you have???



Next time you see someone who is different than you, or believes something different than YOU see it, why not take a step back and say, OKAY, we are different, and that makes the world go around.

I think doing this is the FIRST step to ALL of us here at USM becoming closer and amassing a great deal of respect for each other!!!!



Thanks for Reading this :)

Hugggggs,

Gail

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Date: 7/11/2003 3:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 36704    I try to be tolerant  
Date: 7/11/2003 3:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 59214    I try to practice tolerance. But when other people don't respect me, I stop caring. After a while the vision of 'the perfect world' fades, and survival kicks in. You learn to live with the jerks and fight back when you must.  
Date: 7/11/2003 3:42:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Base, I know you are tolerant :) I also know that you are smart enough to NOT be lured into behaving intolerant.. :) I like your style :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 3:43:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Somebody Save Me... you raise some good points.. but what if ALL of us were to go the extra mile, to SEE that someone that may be disrespecting us just may have had the worse day in thier lives.. and just hang tough with tolerance... could it make a difference then? Would we not worry as much about self-survival if we recognized and respected others "MOODS".. ???  
Date: 7/11/2003 3:47:00 PM  From Authorid: 32070    I think I am very tolerant...now patience? thats something I could work on...:P :P <-> hey gail can you do that with a mouth full of stitches :P hehehe...;)...  
Date: 7/11/2003 3:52:00 PM  From Authorid: 35720    I try to be as tolerant as I can.. :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 3:53:00 PM  From Authorid: 44960    I try to be very tolerant of others. It takes patience to practice tolerance and at times my patience runs a little thin!  
Date: 7/11/2003 3:56:00 PM  From Authorid: 46530    Tolerance is a good thing, but has been turned into one of those "buzz words" that every one uses and everyone thinks will solve all the worlds problems. There is one MAJOR hitch in all that though. Human nature makes people strive to be better than both themselves and every one else. this means that tolerance goes out the window  
Date: 7/11/2003 3:56:00 PM  From Authorid: 33925    EXCELLENT post Sis!! I try to be tolerant of others and their beliefs..Sometimes I fail..I admit it..Im human afterall..but I try to live by the motto, "treat others as you, yourself, would wish to be treated"..  
Date: 7/11/2003 3:56:00 PM  From Authorid: 22852    OK, OK, I will be more tolerant, I promise :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 3:57:00 PM  From Authorid: 19092    I try to be but sometimes I fail. Here at USM, for me, it all depends on the "delivery" of the reply. The words used and the way they are used at times, raises my emotions. This is when my "tolerance" is tested and sometimes fails. Good to see you Gail!!!!  
Date: 7/11/2003 3:59:00 PM  From Authorid: 19092    Are we expected to "tolerate" rudeness...?  
Date: 7/11/2003 3:59:00 PM  From Authorid: 54968    Ya, I guess I'm pretty tolerant. :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 3:59:00 PM  From Authorid: 22852    OMG...LMAO @ PrivateLady..LOL  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:00:00 PM  From Authorid: 33925    ROFLMAO!! PL..lets see if she can laugh out loud and not break any stitches!!  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:00:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    PL Sis!!!! You nuts, you know that? (is that tolerant enough?) hehe.. I can do this :P:P:P but it is more like this: :P~~ :P~~ :P~~ right now!!! And besides, it is in type, in real life I cant do none of that without groannnnnning.. it hurts!!! I am NOT tolerant to pain!!! hehe  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:01:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Hiya Rika.. :) I see your tolerance.. :) Isnt it a good feeling to walk away from a post KNOWING that it was respectful and tolerant :):)  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:01:00 PM  From Authorid: 53909    I try to be tolerant too. :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:02:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    MsPriss, Sis..... you are right (and you too PL!!) Patience is much more difficult to achieve.. but imagine if EVERYONE on USM developed skills for TOLERANCE AND PATIENCE? Wow, how awesome would THAT be?? hehe.. Thanks for the reply Sis :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:03:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    ROFLMAO JOAN!!! How did you know this post was about YOU!!!!!! hehe.. just kidding... you are one of the MOST tolerant people I know.. I can take lessons from you :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:03:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    LL SIS, that is a GREAT Motto to live by... I know I fall wayyyyyyyy short of the mark sometimes, but I, like yourself, DO TRY to be tolerant.. :) Hugggs,  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:04:00 PM  From Authorid: 22852    oh runs over and gives Gail a great big kiss.. oh I'm sorry, did I hurt your stitches...LOL  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:05:00 PM  From Authorid: 22852    well running to kitchen to make hot dogs, me is very hungry.. hey Gail.. want a hot dog?.. Open wide..ROFLMAO  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:05:00 PM  From Authorid: 33925    King Caspian...Im not Gail, but I would say that NO you shouldnt have to tolerate rudeness..  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:06:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Adam, great points there, my friend.. :) You are right of course... Thing I would like to see here on USM though is that people realize that tolerance is a HUGE KEY here. We dont have the benefit of seeing people eye-to-eye on conversations so we need to use patience and tolerance with each other even more than real life.. .. or that is my opinion :) Thank you for the reply :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:07:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    KC!!! HEY there Bro-in-law!!! I am so happy to see ya on the post.. and you are right, I have gotten irate at 'delivery' before myself, but I am really trying to NOT do that anymore.. :) I want to walk away from USM every day with a GOOD feeling, not an angry one, lol... Thanks for your reply and it is great seeing you!!! :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:08:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    KC, we can tolerate rudeness.. but it isnt 'expected'... or do I have that backwards :P~~:P~~:P~~ hehe  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:09:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    LL SIS... with over THIRTY stitches, I am not very tolerant of jokes about it!!!!! hehehehehe.. just kidding.. if not for joking today, I would just cry! lol  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:10:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    *GLARES AT JOAN*!!!!! Hot dog.. OUCH!!! Got any ice cream??? hehe  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:10:00 PM  From Authorid: 22852    uuummmm Can you smell the hot dogs cooking?.. yum yum, think I will make some mac & cheese to go with them. Hey Gail.. still need that nerve pill..hehehe. Are you loosing tolerance yet :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 22852    Pulling out my sunglasses, that glare is hurting my eyes.. You know I love ya!  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:12:00 PM  From Authorid: 30747    Well *thinking* yeah I think I am tolerant. There are things I don't tolerate but I'm pretty sure I'm not rude about it. I can't tolerate intentional rudness. I try to see both sides. Yes, I am tolerant. I think. *smiles*
  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:13:00 PM  From Authorid: 33925    Awww come on Sis...Want some chicken livers??? (gross..)..Here..take a HUGE *gags* bite!! heehee  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:14:00 PM  From Authorid: 46527    The debate section would be very boring if we were all completely tolerant of the thoughts of others...LOL! I do agree though that it is an important part of the rest of USM.  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:15:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Well Said SD Sis.. :) I am not tolerant of rudeness either.. but since this IS a website, I am really trying to see if they are being rude, or if I am falling into the trap of not looking at the WRITTEN WORD, which can be deceiving, ya know? Did that make sense? If it didnt, i will take another pain pill then maybe it will, lol.. Good seeing ya!!  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:15:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Good for you Punk Chic :) Trying is all any of us can really do, :) Thank you :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:16:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    LL SISSSSS .. What a MEANIE you are today... I would LOVE to have Chicken livers, but cant!!! WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA.... now I want some... WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA... LOL :P~~:P~~:P~~ *giggggggles*  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 46530    2 points. 1> I hate being called adam, thats why I put Ad on my tag :) 2> Because we dont have face to face here at USM if we were all truthful to ourselves and each other it would be much easier to get along. The main thing here is that people are either intolerant or suspicious of each other. Neither is good, both at once can be very bad  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 53284    I looked up the definition and this is what I got. a : sympathy or indulgence for beliefs or practices differing from or conflicting with one's own b : the act of allowing something . In my definition, I don't have to respect their belief, I just have to allow it. According to the definition that I just looked up, I am tolerent. According to your definiton that includes respect, I may or may not be depending upon what I am confronted with.  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:17:00 PM  From Authorid: 46527    Ad...you are not being tolerant of others choice to call you Adam...LOL!  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:18:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Great point LSR Sis.. I didnt think about 'debates' when I wrote this though.. maybe I should have, lol. I am really glad you did though... I should put a disclaimor up there that this does NOT apply to debates.. :) Thanks for your reply and good seeing ya :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:19:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    AD, I agree with LSR here.. Hrrmmmmph.. Maybe I need to actually read the tags before calling someone a name, soooooo sorry :) Wont do it again... forgive me? :):):)  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 32070    I think if ALL of usm was tolerant AND patient, it would be a pretty boring place to come too...:P....lol...and yeah, you dont know HOW MANY times I have backed out of a post instead of saying what was really on my mind, but wouldnt matter anyway cause it would just be deleted :P :P :P ..lol....Gail, ya know I'm just trying to cheer you up with the funnies :) and I still say amanda should take advantage of this since you cant holler at her...hehehehe...  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:21:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Wild Bob.. I looked the definitation up too and this is what I got.. I think I like mine better, lol.. :) Thing is.. Your definitation would work better in the real world out there.. in here, on a website, we desparately need respect too! It is too hard to distinguish the typed word from the spoken word and we need to remember that.. :) Thanks for your reply and your other definitaion of tolerance.. :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 46530    Of course Gil. I have no problem with you calling me whatever you wish (within G rating of course). You could always call your self iGla or somat.  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:23:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    SHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH PL Sis.. dont you DARE tell Amanda that!!! haha!!! You HAVE to respect me more than that.. You HAVE to be tolerant of my wishes for you to SHHHHHHHH about that to Amanda!!! haha.. Boring with tolerance and respect???? Probably, but least no one would be at each others throat.. :) Be careful though, I may just HUG yas :P~~~~ :P~~~~ :P~~~~~  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:24:00 PM  From Authorid: 30747    Excellent point Gailsie sis. And good advice as well. You're alright. *smiles*  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:25:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    LOL @ AD.... point taken, my friend!!! And like you, I dont mind being called anything.. :) Been called a little of everything I guess... :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:26:00 PM  From Authorid: 32070    LMAO @ Gail...guess you missed that e-mail I sent I told EVERYBODY to tell Amanda that!!! :P..lol..hey what happened to that tolerance your talking about here??? hehehe and Belinda is about as tolerant or patient as a mosqiuto :P lol....  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:30:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Well PL Sis... Belinda is being much much nicer to me than you are :P~~~~~ hahaha... I missed that email, since my email is so messed up right now.. but I will search for it on one of them and get back to ya ;) YOU PL, HAVE TO BE TOLERANT OF US OLD, SICK, HURTING PEOPLE!! GOT IT???? hahahahahahahahaahaha  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:31:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    *SIGH* Leave it to my wonderful Email crew to trash a very serious post!!!! hehehehehe.. What would I do without them????? Wouldnt even want to!!! :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:33:00 PM  From Authorid: 32070    LMAO @ U! Like you've never trashed a serious post before! :P :P lol and I think every other e-mail has a different addy on it for you.. and about that OLD thing...hey you said it NOT ME!!! :P :P :P ...hehehe....  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:35:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    ME?????????????????? Trash a Post????????????????? me????? no never!!!!!! hehehehehe.. but I can and will if you wanna post one.. *gigggggggggggles*...  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:39:00 PM  From Authorid: 21867    Hi Bud,
Yeah...I'm pretty tolerant...have to be in my line of work (and with some of the family and friends I find myself with...hehehe). But hey, everyone has a breaking point...guess its just a case of trying not to break too much (literally) when we reach it...and trying our hardest to fix that which we broke. Peace,
  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:45:00 PM  From Authorid: 22852    Ahhhhh that was the bestiest hot dog I ever ate..Hehehe, and hey PL since you know who doesn't really come on much tell me his game name...PLEASE....  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:50:00 PM  From Authorid: 32070    LMAO @ Storm!!! you know I cant do that!!! lol...  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:54:00 PM  From Authorid: 22852    Oh come on Patti.. Are you chicken or something...LOL  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:58:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    AS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! OMG, long time no see :) I sure have missed yacking with you!!! Yes, you are one of the most tolerant people I know, and that, my little bro, is an asset! huggggs,  
Date: 7/11/2003 4:59:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Patti is chicken??? hmmmmmmmmm...... lol. Joan, I hope..... errrrrr, ummmmmmm.. I mean I am glad you had a good hot dog and so so so so glad you didnt choke on it :P~~~ :P~~~~ hehehehehe  
Date: 7/11/2003 5:03:00 PM  From Authorid: 5061    I think i've learned to be tolerent.I have walked away from things that could have gotten out of hand had i not been tolerent.  
Date: 7/11/2003 5:56:00 PM  From Authorid: 24924    Personally speaking, I do not care what anyone's personal beliefs are; as we all are certainly entitled and protected by the Constitution to do so; and I would not ever have any complaints or anything IF everyone would know and accept these basic rights. HOWEVER, I am morally bound by my love of truth and personal Liberty to stand up and speak out when those who wish to deny ME MY rights as well. When I am told that I am un-patriotic and advised to leave the country because I do not wish to pledge allegience to a god; when I am told that I don't matter; that I am not considered a citizen IF I don't believe or advocate "Under God" stamped upon everything. The Goverment, be it the President or be it a school principal, is breaking the law when they advocate one religion over another or no religion. When theists believe and assert in so many ways that there can be no morality, justice or honesty WITHOUT belief in a Divine power.....yeah, I'm sorry...I will take a stand. MY tolerance ends when your beliefs intrudes, demands and forces and insists upon ME, and denies ME the same tolerance. Let me tell you, I am positively incensed at much of what is going on with the very INTOLERANT Religious Right and the "Moral Majority" types, who are well organized, well financed, and consider themselves as a part of a "Army of God" . Jerry Falwell says things like "What we have to do is take control of our society, and Jesus will prevail!" They see themselves as leading the fulfillment of the Biblically prophesied "Army of God" which will be brought together to destroy sinners and unbelievers in the period preceding Armageddon. They believe tolerance of other views is "un-christian". There are many organizations that have large membership, organized, and financed, who are working 24/7 to integrate their brand and rule by the Majority. The Promise Keepers is one, and Jerry Falwell is a firm supporter and memeber. There is The Coalition on Rival (COR), religious reconstructionists. Here is a quote from a leader with the COR: "It is up to us, as protectors and providers of our families, to rescue our children from a culture that would down them in tolerance. Just let a wave of intolernace wash over you; I want you to let a wave of hatred wash over you. Yes, hate is good....our goal is a Christian nation! We have a Biblical DUTY! We are called by God, to conquer this country. We don't want equal time. We don't want pluralism".  
Date: 7/11/2003 6:00:00 PM  From Authorid: 24924    "Coalition on REVIVAL" that should read.  
Date: 7/11/2003 6:20:00 PM  From Authorid: 53052    i practice it... i respect peoples choices in life  
Date: 7/11/2003 6:32:00 PM  From Authorid: 10110    I practice it. But I make sure that I get my opinion out there so that other people see other ways of looking at things. I never try to change their minds though.  
Date: 7/11/2003 6:59:00 PM  From Authorid: 27046    For me it always depends on the situation. I can be tolerant in some areas and not have tolerance in others. As far as beliefs as in religiously, I don't care what you believe in as long as you aren't trying to force it on me.  
Date: 7/11/2003 8:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 12341    I just do the best I can Gail.  
Date: 7/11/2003 8:50:00 PM  From Authorid: 16845    I try...just kinda depends on the situation :D  
Date: 7/11/2003 9:00:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Cath, you got my post!! You should be allowed YOUR beliefs, or lack thereof, just like everyone should!! If you believe something and decide to write about it, then NO ONE should be rude to you simply because they disagree with you! :) You and I have talked about our differences of beliefs and never once have we stepped on each other's toes, :) THAT is the way I wish it all was here... you and I are on different ends of the spectrum but yet we both respect each other, we respect each others beliefs and we deeply care about each other... HOW MUCH BETTER CAN IT BE THAN THAT??? :):) My case in point is that no matter WHAT we disagree or agree with, this is a website and we should be kind and tolerant of others opinions and behaviors. I am sure that all of you out there has seen ADULTS attack CHILDREN here because of disagreeing, sad huh? They never took the time to see that replies come from young ones, just ready to POUNCE.. now to me that just isnt right, ya know? If any of us post something, we should be willing to read the entire comments, and maybe even check out profiles to SEE who is disagreeing with us... that way it has to improve things.. :) I am not talking about ANY ONE Person with this post, just about LIFE in general in USMland.. Everyone knows that I care... :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 9:05:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Yep, we all know that "situations" can change the mood of a post dramatically.. NO ONE should be abused for going on a post or making a post, but we all have seen that happen. NO ONE has the right to be MEAN On here and that is what I am trying to get at. I read a post where there were people attacking others because of disagreeing and it just didnt make either side right because both sides got ANGRY, and when the ANGER sets in the EARS tend to close as well as the MIND. I KNOW for a fact that I have been GUILTY of doing this too, but the last time I decided not to come on here, I learned a lot. Sitting OFFLINE reading stuff really is a great teacher to me!!! Yall would be surprised at some of the things I saw, yet unable to reply to but saw anyway, and some people on this site is just down-right MEAN... lol...  
Date: 7/11/2003 9:08:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    I think that by and large that USM is a tolerant place... for the most part, and sometimes when tempers flare .. (on the outside looking in) they wouldnt flare so much if the SAME people were saying the SAME Things to each others face... it is the lack of eye contact and facial expressions that make people MISUNDERSTAND the way things are said anyway... and then of course, there are some who LOVE pouncing anyway, they lay in WAIT for someone they dont like to come in and say something so it gives them an EXCUSE to pounce... I could name names, but I wont.. lol... I will just say that it is NO ONE who is on this post :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 9:09:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Brenda, I think you do a GREAT job :) You are one of the most patient and tolerant people I know :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 9:13:00 PM  From Authorid: 47296    I try to practice tolerance at all times. What I cannot tolerate though is someone who tries to force their beliefs onto me. When that happens, I do get very defensive. I do not believe that any belief holds credence over another, and that it is wrong for people to hold a set of standards based on their belief over others. I was told once that everyone has their own beleifs, and that is what makes each person who they are. To try to change another's beleifs to suit our own belief is to try and change the person to be more like us. If this is done, then you no longer have an individual person.  
Date: 7/11/2003 9:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 12341    Every so often, I do have times when I look back and wish I would have thought more though Gail, but sometimes, sometimes the rules of every day life and common sense must be said. I try as much as possible for tolerance, and know that usually I'm doing the best I can. I love my job for instance, I really do! And I do the best I can to help EVERYONE and I mean everyone, I have every color, every culture and people who confide all kinds of life experiences with me. I believe that, all those people deserve my care, my understanding, my compassion. But it isn't fake. I do care, very much and so many have different lifestles, different beliefs that I do, I don't judge them. I can honestly feel the pain and hurt, but I can also "sense" when someone is dishonest, being deceptive, and "just plain mean". Mostly I let it go, "letting go" is easier than raising my blood pressure, and at my age, I have to remember that! LOL. But sometimes, I can and will speak out, I try to be sensitive to others, their thoughts and opinions, same as I would "on the job", but again, sometimes I have to just say something! Good, very good post!  
Date: 7/11/2003 9:27:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Brenda ... I have noticed that about you.. you DO have a knack for knowing when someone is being dishonest!!! I have seen that for myself. Of course, being HUMAN we all have bad days... but on the whole, if I stop, think and try to understand what someone is saying to me, I do much much better in my replies to them.. lol, Of course, I think everyone here has seen me go over the top myself.. but I sincerely DO try, like you, to be patient and tolerant of other USMers, and I do try so hard to NOT be ugly, but sometimes I am a complete failure!!! This post was spawned by some actions I witnessed being unfolded on a post while I was offline on USM.. Although I didnt reply to the post, I SAW the actions and was APPALLED at how it was handled and I applauded when it finally went *POOF*... The one post that started this post had such a major impact on me that I am looking at things in a different light, and hopefully I will be a better person because of this other persons total lack of caring, patience, and tolerance of others.  
Date: 7/11/2003 9:36:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Warrior Spirit, my brother.. I agree with you. I get defensive when people try to spoon feed me with their opinions too! I am nearly 50 years old and I dont need anyone feeding me THEIR life experience ideas, buttttt I always try to keep an open mind to see if I can learn something from someone else's opinions. Doesnt mean they change my mind, but it DOES mean that if they are learned enough and know more than I do, I listen. But when someone wants to JUDGE me, or my friends because of their closed-minded mean ways, then yes, I get angry and I get defensive too... I am just trying to form a tolerance with people who are receptive.. With SOME people, there will NEVER be a happy medium, they are prone to force feed the world.. and with those, this post isnt for them.. :) Thanks for your reply... I always like seeing you on my posts :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 9:44:00 PM  From Authorid: 12341    I am not positive of which one, but I too saw more than one that caused me to "take some time" and I did respond to one, just to let it be known that I had seen and knew what was said. BUT USM is and has been, for me, a place I stay put, mainly because DISRESPECT is not tolerated here. And we all know, we know, those who constantly bend and try to change the rules. I don't frequent many forums, not because I'm afraid or lack the understanding to make reasonable comments of give an educated opinion, but because I will not be drawn into that hard lined behavior and thinking that I'm always right. Name calling, bashing, total intolerance just isn't for me. It isn't necessary FOR me.  
Date: 7/11/2003 9:57:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Brenda I sooooooo agree with you!!! That is why I take up for the Admins the way I do.. because they DO keep our little community clean, they keep the abuse down here much better than any Cop Shop of any City in USA... if ya know what I mean. I do NOT mind deletions if it saves peoples feelings and if it keeps the site G-Rated. I do not mind them paving the way for us to have this Grand Land to be in while on the internet. I have spent literally thousands of hours here on USM, safe from the outside world... connected with people I LOVE and a place where my kids/grandkids can come to and be "SAFE" because of the way G and G run it and the way the Admins run it.. . So what something gets deleted that maybe could have stayed, but bottom line is at least we are safe.. :)  
Date: 7/11/2003 10:07:00 PM  From Authorid: 36704    Tolerance is usually one sided, one person tolerates the others beliefs and ideas and the other demands tolerance but doesn't reciprocate. Very rarely do you ever find two people on opposite sides that both tolerate the other's ideas and opinions.  
Date: 7/11/2003 10:17:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Base, that is a VERY wise statement!!! And very true.. it is one sided, but I guess all I am trying to do or to say is that if all of us tries tolerance, then maybe it will make USM better... or maybe I am on Mars right now? hehe..  
Date: 7/11/2003 11:46:00 PM  From Authorid: 29532    I will go on happy and pretend I did not read this post.  
Date: 7/11/2003 11:47:00 PM  From Authorid: 29532    HAHAHA! Gotcha! Eneywho, ummmm yes n no. I have to go with AZ on this one.  
Date: 7/12/2003  From Authorid: 28193    I try to be, but when people keep doing the same thing over and over again...then I guess I get to the point where I ignore them.  
Date: 7/12/2003 1:23:00 AM  From Authorid: 42945    I am a very tolerant person Sis...and have a lot of patience also...lol!!!great post...hugs  
Date: 7/12/2003 4:20:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    LOL PB!!! Oh and when is your "Bunny" gonna get a flat tummy again? hehehehe.. Just teasing, I think it is adorable!!!! :)  
Date: 7/12/2003 4:21:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Golden Taxi... I do so agree... I stated WAYYY above that there ARE mean people on here, and eventually, everyone SEES that they are just mean and stops trying to talk sense in to them, lol... Great point :)  
Date: 7/12/2003 4:22:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 30229    Oh My Gosh, Zema Sis!!! You have the MOST patience of anyone that I know either here on USM or in Real life... you rank up there with Ginger and Penny in my book! :) Love ya!!!  
Date: 7/12/2003 11:36:00 AM  From Authorid: 44321    I would have to say think I am a pretty tolerant person.I may be grouchy at times and I do irk PL but she knows she loves it LOL  
Date: 7/12/2003 11:48:00 AM  From Authorid: 32070    See that Gail I HAVE to be tolerant with your bratty daughters on here...hmmph....lol..  
Date: 7/12/2003 11:54:00 AM  From Authorid: 44321    PL just ate some sour raspberries pay her no mind,..see how tolerant I can be :P ((PL)) < I can hug you today but don't expect it too often LOL :D  
Date: 7/14/2003 10:16:00 PM  From Authorid: 56489    I'm with KC on this, lol, it depends the way the comment is worded, i'm pretty tolerant I think, but I lose my tolerance when someone becomes rude, & ignorant.  
Date: 11/6/2006 10:49:00 AM  From Authorid: 23075    I am probably one of the most tolerant people you would ever meet. I probably don't seem like it but I am.  

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