Date: 7/12/2003 8:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i think your friend does need to know this.. you say this is her SPOUSE.. she should know what her SPOUSE is up to...and you should tell your BF that way he KNOWS and he doesn't think your cheating on him if this guy keeps calling and shows up looking for you... it could cause a serious heartache later on  |
Date: 7/12/2003 9:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 36766
I would tell the friend what's going on  |
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Date: 7/12/2003 9:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 62086
Even if it hurts your friend, tell her what is going on. Plus your boyfriend will be hurt, if you wait much longer to tell him about this. Trust is about not holding back, you cant hold back something that will/could effect the both of you. |
Date: 7/12/2003 9:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 36994
I think your doing the right thing, tell this guy that is bugging you that if he continues doing what he is doing that you will call the cops on him, it happened to me, I had to tell my parents about it because I grew worried and scared, they called him and told him to lay off or they're gonna call the cops and haven't heard from him since! I wish you the best of luck!  |
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Date: 7/12/2003 9:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 36994
take cares |
Date: 7/12/2003 9:32:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 24845
thank you all for responding. I don't think my boyfriend will be hurt I haven't done anything to hurt him. He'll be mad, but not hurt.  |
Date: 7/13/2003 4:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 27583
fill in the wife with all the details and then maby he will get the point. if you try to spare all feelings you will end up being on the outside for not trusting your friendship enough to bring anything into the open. wooden nickel  |
Date: 7/13/2003 5:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 39887
Sorry, but I think you and the spouse are cheating...YOU should tell your friend what her husband is doing, she needs to know and being her friend, you should tell her. You should have shown her the e-mails for vidence if needed. She is living with a liar and a cheat and you are helping him do it! Don't pass the off to your boyfriend to take care of. Get a recorder if necessary and tape the conversations and if he comes to your house, call the cops!You may have a stalking case against him. You need to get aggressive and take charge of this situation. Your friend might be hurt too but eventually she will be hurt by him, why not give her the chance to know now. The tapes could also back you up with him. I would never take this kind of behavior this long but I am aggressive, maybe you're not but do somethng!!!!  |
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Date: 7/13/2003 7:48:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 24845
Thank you all for responding. I really do appreciate your comments. BUT...I am not cheating!! I really resent that. Cheating is doing something or having feelings for someone other than your partner or husband or wife. I have done nothing to be ashamed or feel guilty about. I have NEVER cheated and though I do understand where your coming from I have to strongly disagree with your thought that He and I ARE cheating. I've done nothing to hurt anyone. UPDATE: I told my boyfriend this morning about EVERYTHING. The calls and emails. He wasn't as mad as I thought. I told him that if this person calls me again that then I will let him confront him. Which is laughable really. Me, "letting" him. LOL. I just told him to give the person the benefit of the doubt to leave me alone. I think my friend knows she knows things aren't right and I've tried to tell her but it's really hard and ya know what busy bee. Maybe your right, maybe I'm not as aggressive as I should be but, there are somethings that are best stayed out of. I don't want anything to do with this person and I can't stress that enough. I Have not cheated. I've not done anything wrong. |
