Date: 7/12/2003 9:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 36994
Hold back, fighting her won't solve anything but make things worse.  |
Date: 7/12/2003 9:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 3648
Carina is right hun.....fighting with her will solved nothing...I would say ignore her , I know it's hard to do. But giving he less attention will do wonders and hopefully she'll get the point...  |
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Date: 7/12/2003 10:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 3648
opps her sorry..... |
Date: 7/12/2003 10:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 24845
Wow, that's a good question. I can see how your confused of what to do. It would be hard to keep my mouth shut. LOL. I would say just ignore it. More likely than not people like that get what they deserve in the end. She'll either be fired for being stupid and inconsiderate or someone will pop her in the kisser. It happens.  |
Date: 7/12/2003 10:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 53689
The others are right, there is no reason getting yourself fired because of her ignorance. If she does anything really bad, talk to your boss...If enough people complain, they will do something about it.  |
Date: 7/12/2003 10:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 49976
I hate people like that, there were these two girls at school last yr lol it was everything I could do not to knock there heads together. I wouldn't fight her though it would make it worse on you because you might loose your job or something.
Hugs&Cookies  |
Date: 7/12/2003 11:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 13609
lol, she sounds like such a looser. You should tell her where to stand!  |
Date: 7/13/2003 12:59:00 AM
From Authorid: 53909
Reminds me of a co-worker that I couldn't stand. She was extremely annoying and always acted so childish. She was around her 30's also. She did everything to get attention and if she didn't get her way, she would cry. Like one time, one of my co-workers ask her if she wanted help and she said no. So she started to help me and she cried because she was helping me! Most of the time I tried to ignore her but it was so hard. I was so happy that she transfeered to another store. She got fired recently because of how she acted over there which I find funny. I would just keep ignoring her or even try talking to her.  |
Date: 7/13/2003 4:12:00 AM
From Authorid: 42945
dont come down to her level Kari, I know it must be very hard for you hun, but just ignore her, if she got sent home, she has obviously been noticed by your boss...so give her enough rope and she will hang herself...as to say....hugs hun  |
Date: 7/13/2003 4:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 52746
It's so hard telling some rude, annoying person how their behaviour is affecting people. Usually they're the ones who moan about people almost ignoring them but we know people are doing this because of their behaviour. The thing is, if you brought her behaviour to her attention, she'd very likely be awful towards you and you'd end up looking like the bad guy. It's a no-win situation.  |
Date: 7/13/2003 9:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 33925
You know Hyper..If anyone has any suggestions I would like to hear them..I am dealing with a real doozy of a co-worker right now myself. I have to try to figure out how to deal with her too without losing my job..LOL  |
Date: 7/13/2003 9:48:00 AM
From Authorid: 15394
fight isn't the answer, as I can tell you know... hmmm ideas... I guess I would have to keep my comments to myself even tho it is hard... depends tho, on what or how she interacted with me!!... if you can confuse them, it often helps you a bit... like when she is being so mean or rude, try saying "I'm so sorry you are having a rough time"... maybe she will be confused enough to shut up and think for a minute... Good luck ! sheesh people!!  |
Date: 7/13/2003 12:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
Don't get into a fight with her and risk losing your job, from the looks of it she won't be there much longer. You don't normally get sent home from a job and get to keep your job. Just suck it up and wait it out. I think the problem will take care of its self.  |
Date: 7/13/2003 9:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 34487
Usually the quite, nice people are targeted by bullies and frustrated people. Why? Because they are secure that you won't strike back. I've been where you are and it stinks. The best thing to TRY and do is ignore. I know that's hard but when they try and include you in on something that's gossip or nasty just walk away. When they get on your nerves, change the subject or tell them... I don't want a part of this. You may just get them thinking but then again, you may also start looking for a different position? Good luck. :)  |
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