Date: 7/13/2003 8:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 8905
My father.... though I come him something a bit more vulgar, but cant here due to the G-rating... Has done the same to my mother.... different in some ways, but still the same pain.... IM sorry for her....  |
Date: 7/13/2003 8:26:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 8278
i feel sorry for any child who has to go through life thinking that their parents don't love them. it is so sad to think about it.  |
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Date: 7/13/2003 8:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 8905
See, my saving grace is the fact that the rest of my family, more than made up for the mistakes of that man. They showed me love, they gave me strength, and they taught me to live. I thank them for that, and I know I am a better person because of it. |
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Date: 7/13/2003 8:34:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 8278
i am so happy to hear that phantom :) that is what i tried to tell my sister from the beginning. my neice has enough family to love her more than her "father" ever can! she doesn't need him! let him sign over paternal rights and never have to deal with him again! |
Date: 7/13/2003 8:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
some people don't think about thier own actions...  |
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Date: 7/13/2003 8:42:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 8278
that is very true midnightly. thanks for your reply (hugs) |
Date: 7/13/2003 9:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 53900
I agree it would tick me off too...she is better off without him if that is how he is going to be. I mean if he were with your sister every penny would pretty much go towards raising his daughter and he wants to whine cause he loses a few dollars an hour when he owes over 10000 dollars? Goddd see this is what I meant in my other post abut how people make me mad...I cannot deal with people like this and it seems there are more and more of tehm in this world everyday  |
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Date: 7/13/2003 9:05:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 8278
i totally agree jessica! what really gets me is my husband and i were separated for a while. he ended up going to jail for a little bit and when he got out, they were going to arrest him again because he owed 400 dollars! they'll do THAT but they won't bother with someone who owes over 10,000 dollars. not to mention, that my husband has always helped me out with our son. when he was in jail, obviously, he couldn't. but he has always been a father. but they let my sisters ex go without so much as a warning. |
Date: 7/13/2003 9:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 16705
he may think he's a man but in my opinion he doesn't know the meaning of being a man, he needs to give up his parental rights for he isn't a father nor daddy and she needs to fight for her children. make him pay for the support he owes and then get him out of those childres lives. i'll pray for them all. Hamb918  |
Date: 7/14/2003 12:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 13897
WOW! ten THOUSAND dollars?!?! grrr this guy seems like he has no sense of responsibility or respect! i think he should definately have to pay the money back then get out of their lives... they don't need a dead-beat guy like that in their lives. i'm sure they have other things to worry about.  |
Date: 7/14/2003 1:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 10110
He should of thought about this before he did anything with your sister, I just hate guys that are like that, I hope I never meet one cause if I do, uh oh! Grrr, I'm sorry for your sister and niece. Hopefully some day he will get his!  |
Date: 7/14/2003 2:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 28946
Vent away Hon. There are alot of deadbeat parents that shirk their responsibility to their children. They are the ones who need to get their priorities straight.  |
Date: 7/14/2003 5:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 10245
that's sad... but he can't give up his parental rights until there is someone to take them over (i.e. your sister needs to be married to someone, usually for at least a year, not just living with them). My brother is one of those buttheads.... he DID manage to write his kids off and escape child support.  |
Date: 7/14/2003 3:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 42945
it does us all good to let off steam hun!!! for sure they are better off without him...he sounds so irresponsible...they dont mind making the kids but dont want to help raise or keep them....  |
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Date: 7/14/2003 5:49:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 8278
thank you so much for the replies everyone. i had just heard this news when i posted it, so i was very angry! it seems like some guys just try to forget they even have kids. as a mother, i just don't understand how they can do it! believe me, he does not know what he is missing. my neice is a beautiful and outgoing little girl who deserves better than that. i just hate to think of what this does to the kids. they are innocent in it. |
