Date: 7/28/2003 3:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 41127
OMG! misty, i have the exact same problem. No matter wut i try not flirt, but it all bundles up inside of me and burst out. and my boyfriend notices too, and thats why we've been having so many problems lately. and remember flirting is a politeful kinda play, but if u start liking that person your flirting with more, then your gonna have to try to find a way to make yourself stop. otherwise i dont no wut to say... ive got the same problem   |
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Date: 7/28/2003 3:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 41127
oh Yeah also... just remember u like your boyfriend alot.... and u dont want to loose him ( works for me and then i stop flirting) |
Date: 7/28/2003 3:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 33517
I am sorry that I can help you...but, if you have some pointers on how to flirt...I am here to listen...That is one thing I don't know how to do...**Big Canadian Hugs**  |
Date: 7/28/2003 3:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 48689
STOP FLIRTING? Why would you want to do that??? Actually, yeah, I understand your pain. It's not that big of a problem when your single, but when you really really like a guy...yeah. I understand. I have all my friends tell me when I start flirting...hit me or shoot me a glance. It usually works.  *hugs*  |
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Date: 7/28/2003 3:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 48689
Tina Luck, flirting comes naturally to me. If you want any pointers, just ask! *hugs* |
Date: 7/28/2003 3:31:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57579
well what I guess is pretty sad is that I dont like the guys I flirt with I only like one guy and that's my boyfriend. But jeez I wish they had a pill or something. I dont really have any pointers but like UC it comes naturally to me  |
Date: 7/28/2003 3:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 15904
just put some tape over your mouth  |
Date: 7/28/2003 3:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
I would suggest a 12-step program...hehe..   |
Date: 7/28/2003 4:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 11348
I'm not exactly sure how to stop but maybe if you could be consciously aware when you are with other guys that you will flirt, you can try to catch yourself ahead of time. Try putting your hands in your pockets so that you don't accidentally touch the guy and stand a fair distance away when you talk. If you remember these things, maybe the way you talk and flirt will be easier to change as well. My boyfriend has the same problem as you, but he solves it badly. When I'm around him and so is another girl, rather than flirt he becomes short tempered angry and rude. When I'm not around, I know he becomes mr. nice smooth talker. His way is probably not the smartest way to stop tho. Anyway I hope I helped.  |
Date: 7/28/2003 4:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 19625
AHHH, I have the same problem, There's only 2 guys that I know that I don't flirt with, and those guys are like my brothers, and I've gone out with them before... ugh, it makes my boyfriend soooo mad, I hate it, but I just can't help it, if you find out anything tell me, lol. Erin-  |
Date: 7/28/2003 4:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 36757
lol i too have the same problem. i've led guys on so then they stalked me O__O  |
Date: 7/28/2003 4:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
You know, I dont think there is anything wrong with flirting..Its a NATURAL thing..Most people just do it naturally without even realising it because it is a part of who they are. Dont try to change who you are to please anyone honey. If your boyfriend truly loves and trusts you he will love you for who you are, and he will know that you love him and only him.  |
Date: 7/28/2003 4:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 56293
I have this same exact problem. I never really knew I was flirting until someone was like "OMG Jenn, your such a flirt!" I was like "Ugh ok...This is just me being me." I don't think there is anything wrong with flirting.  |
Date: 7/28/2003 4:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 60685
You're a woman, women flirt, we are born that way, it's our secret weapon   |
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Date: 7/28/2003 6:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 62212
Any ideas on how to get females to flirt with me |
Date: 7/29/2003 12:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
Well people tell me I am a flirt but I never mean to. Well you have got to think why are people thinking your flirting. If you are talking to a guy and some one is being all like oh stop flirting then maybe they just misunderstod you were talking but I don't know just think back each time you flirt with a guy and think were it could have seemed like flirting.
*Cosmic Freak*  |
