Date: 7/28/2003 4:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 23796
Oh hon, It is easier for me to say when HAVEN'T I felt lonely. So it is easy for me to relate to this one. I try to keep myself busy and I am big into penpaling right now. I whip out the long letters I get and re-read them when I feel down. Housework, for some reason, makes me feel more alone then ever. I think it's because I"m the only one doing it and it reminds me of being alone...etc. I also Love to watch comedies when I feel lonely. A good laugh lifts the spirits. I also listen to "Up beat" Dance music...not lonely malencholy or Ticked off Alternative. Bright, lively music. It tends to help.  |
Date: 7/28/2003 4:09:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33517
Lady S...Thanks for all these things...I will start doing some of them...It is such an awful feeling..And lately all I have been doing is house work...I have just moved and the unpacking seems to be endless...hopefully, each day will get better...I guess I am just not use to being alone....Thanks...**Big Canadian Hugs**  |
Date: 7/28/2003 4:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
Tina, believe it or not, I sometimes feel lonely in this madhouse..I dont know how to explain it either..It usually passes fairly quickly though..Why not try finding a hobby?? Get out of the house, meet people..I know that is hard for you being so shy, but you CAN do it..*hugs*..You also know my number. Call me!  |
Date: 7/28/2003 4:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 56293
I don't know how much this will help you feel better since I'm only 18 but yeah, I feel lonely..ALOT. I can be with a group of friends and I still have this feeling of lonliness. . I wish I knew how not to feel this way. Well, Hopefully you will be back in good spirits again soon!   |
Date: 7/28/2003 4:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 28848
Ahh TL..I'm exactly the same way. It's because you are seeking that certain kind of companionship that you can't get from a mom or dad or your kids. You probably miss having someone there with you just like I do. In a way, I feel like my situation that I told you about has gotten worse. I slipped up and let my guard down, and now here I sit waiting around from him to come home. I don't know where he is or what he's doing, but he's been gone for almost six hours..and he said he would be right back. So it's the same old crap and since I let my guard down with him, now I feel the hurt and dissapointment all over again. I don't know what it's going to take for me to finally realize that I have to get out of this relationship. I'm just not happy, even if I will be lonely, at least I won't be continueously let down...  |
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Date: 7/28/2003 4:23:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33517
Hey Kel..I have not been out of the house since I moved up here...I didn't even get dressed the last two days..I just change from one pair of jammies to another...I haven't even told dad that I am up here..even though he probably already knows...mom has been in a couple times...I hate being a shy person...I don't even want to meet new people...or make any new friends right now...I don't even remember how to talk to anyone and I don't want to go through losing a friendship again..I have lost to many in the last week...I hate it when I just get to feel relaxed around someone...and boom!!...There gone...and they don't even care that I do exsite...Anyways...I am rambling...**Big Canadian Hugs LadyLuck** |
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Date: 7/28/2003 4:25:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33517
Thanks Social Slacker..I have not been around a group of people since I started feeling this way...I know I will get over this soon...I just have to keep my Chin Up..**Big Canadian Hugs** |
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Date: 7/28/2003 4:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
But Tina you know I will ALWAYS be here for you..Dont dwell on those fairweather friends hon..focus on those REAL friends. Let them be your example. |
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Date: 7/28/2003 4:29:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33517
ReleaseMe...It is so easy to let your guard down...believe me I almost done it a dozen times before I left...But, I just had to say enough is enough...And it was hard at a few points to do this...I am so glad that I done this...but, the only thing I am not glad about is the time I need to heel..And I have a funny feeling it is going to take me some time...And I will be happy to have this "lonely" time...Good Luck to you in what you decide to do...You know where I am if you want to chit chat...**Big Canadian Hugs** |
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Date: 7/28/2003 4:36:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33517
LadyLuck...Yes, I know that you are always here for me...You are about the only person in my life that has always been here even though some decissions I have made were not the right ones...and I did it anyways...Even if I didn't take the advice that you have given me...You were still there...Thanks Kel..**Big Canadian Hugs** |
Date: 7/29/2003 12:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
I have no brothers and sisters and can't mix with people that well so I am pretty use to loneliness (keep in mind a have friends) Well I don't know what to do cus I am use to it and yeah I get left out and picked on qwuite alot at school and it is then I just go off with a disc man. Well sorry I can't help you because I am just use to it But yeah sometimes it just dose get to you. try giving hugs more or maybe you need to be with friend who more in common with you. Here have hug *hugs* this dose point to a type of depression actuly so you might have to get cheaked up on that.
*Cosmic Freak*  |
Date: 7/29/2003 5:10:00 AM
From Authorid: 22852
Oh Tina.. been here my dear and it is hard. Thankfully I kept telling myself that it was hormones and that I was really not lonely and can you believe I actually brainwashed myself into believing it..LOL.. I think we all go through this and no matter how many people are around us the feeling is still there. Tina, when you convince yourself that you are a great person then that lonely feeling does subside. Big Hugs  |
Date: 7/29/2003 10:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 62181
awww *big hugs* sorry you feel this way. I feel this way all the time, and I am always surrounded by people. It's cause I don't have anyone to share my deepest thoughts with, my happiest moments, etc...so it makes you feel a little lonely. It will pass, it's just something we all have to go through at times. Keep your chin up. And get out of those jammies and get some sunshine while it's still shining. Staying indoors in your jammies will do nothing for you but make you depressed and feel more lonely.  Peace  |
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Date: 7/29/2003 6:58:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33517
Thanks Cosmic Freak I really needed them hugs...**Big Canadian Hugs** right back at ya!! |
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Date: 7/29/2003 7:02:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33517
Thanks Storm...I do feel better today...I am just taking it one day at a time...I know that everything is going to get better...I just have to keep myself busy...**Big Canadian Hugs** |
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Date: 7/29/2003 7:06:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 33517
Michelle, I did get out of those jammies today...I actually took my shower and put "real" clothes on...I actually went down the street and went out to visit my father...I might not of had the time of my life...but, Bradley did...And that made me feel good...And to actually breath in the fresh air...and enjoy the sun...to bad I didn't shave my legs..I could of put on a pair of shorts...LOL!!...**Big Canadian Hugs** |
