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Date: 8/23/2003 1:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 22852
The test could have been a false positive. Please next time use protection, for you health if nothing else.  |
Date: 8/23/2003 1:09:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55297
we did, but it ripped... ok, so i may not have been pregnant?  |
Date: 8/23/2003 1:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i agree with storm the test could have easily been a false positive those happen VERY often.. it is very common to not get your period on time... many things could have caused it to be late  |
Date: 8/23/2003 1:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 49689
Yes it's a possibility that you may not have been..those tests are not always foolproof,and only a doctor can say 100% for sure if you were...Alot of things could have caused you to be late..and I better shush....  |
Date: 8/23/2003 1:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 48809
I guess I don't understand why you would want to publicize something so personal about yourself... I am sorry this happened to you, but you did not seem at all distressed about it yourself....what I would like to know is why you think the whole world should know about this? I think it is shameful!  |
Date: 8/23/2003 1:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
If I remember right you've had alot of pregnancy scares......Now this is just a suggestion so please don't take it wrong....why not go on the pill??? would give you piece of mind at least...remember stress can throw your period off as well...and false positives are common thats why they suggest you take multiple hpts of different brands when you get a positive..  |
Date: 8/23/2003 1:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 49172
The first thing you did wrong was have a one night stand! How can a 16 year old have a one night stand?!?! And it ripped? Seems like a pretty lame excuse to me... There's the morning after pill, and for complete correct use of a condom there's spermacide... *shakes head* Sad is all I can say.. very sad..  |
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Date: 8/23/2003 1:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 49172
I agree completely with Posey... and with Becky.. Go on the pill if you're going to be that careless.. |
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Date: 8/23/2003 1:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
while I don't necessarily agree with a near 16 year old having sexual relations...I do need to say go easy on her about it breaking....it happens from time to time nothing is 100%....I'm willing to bet if you ask everyone who's used condoms (with or without another form of BC) most if not all will tell you they've had one break atleast once... |
Date: 8/23/2003 2:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 57404
If you miscarried, you would have known I am sure, the pain would have been pretty bad. I would think.. for ever person it is differnt.. for me it was really painful. It is possible like someone else said that the test was false possitive. You may want to see a doctor to make sure everything is okay. And if you did miscarry what could have possibly caused it. God Bless  |
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Date: 8/23/2003 2:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 62135
Oh my gosh.I'm so sorry for you losing your child. But it wasn't meant to be I guess. So maybe it happened for a reason: you weren't meant to be a mother yet. But I'm sorry for your loss. CrazyKat  |
Date: 8/23/2003 2:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 48989
it could have just been that the test came out wrong. those pregnancy tests arent always accurate. you should have gone 2 ur doctors 2 be sure. my aunt was pregnant with twins and like 3 months into the pregnancy she got her period so she was told she had a miscarriage. well, what do u know, 6 months after that, she gave birth 2 one of the twins. the other didnt make it. but no one knew that she was still pregnant with one of the twins. who now is quite healthy and a beautiful young girl  |
Date: 8/23/2003 3:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 15228
Lucky for you, you have plenty of choices. You can go on birth control pills (as you have found out, condomns aren't reliable, though they should still be used with the pill), you can stop having sex or you can keep playing russian roulette with your life and get pregnant which will lead to more choices, abortion, adoption or having a young child when you aren't more than a child yourself. Quit being irresponsible and go talk to someone about why you put yourself into these situations..what do you plan on doing at 25 if you are doing this at your age now?  |
Date: 8/23/2003 4:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 31765
Good advice about going on the pill BUT...the pill doesn't protect against STD's and AIDS. Yes, the test could have been a false positive. And miscarriages at very early term can mimic a heavy period. Been there, done that. Ya need to be careful, girlfriend. We're living in a time that sex can kill. Take care.  |
Date: 8/23/2003 4:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 44321
My advice to you is...get yourself on some type of birth control and still use the condoms to protect yourself from std's.  |
Date: 8/23/2003 4:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 49037
I know that accidents can happen, but if it happens again (a condom tearing or breaking) go to a clinic or your doctor the next day, and get the morning after pill. I think you actually have 72 hours to take it. I think it's possible that you had a miscarriage, if it was really heavy. But, you could have not been pregnant in the first place, if the test was wrong, and you were late for other reasons. I think you should go to a doc in case you did miscarry, and consider going on the Pill.  |
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Date: 8/23/2003 5:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 49037
I know that accidents can happen, but if it happens again (a condom tearing or breaking) go to a clinic or your doctor the next day, and get the morning after pill. I think you actually have 72 hours to take it. I think it's possible that you had a miscarriage, if it was really heavy. But, you could have not been pregnant in the first place, if the test was wrong, and you were late for other reasons. I think you should go to a doc in case you did miscarry, and consider going on the Pill. |
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Date: 8/23/2003 6:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 48809
A girl your age doesn't have a clue about how hard it is to raise a child and especially if your boyfriend decides to "take a walk" on you! And even if he stays, what kind of decent job can a 16 year old boy who has no education get to support a family? What about your own education ? Many say that they will return to school when they are married and settled down... in the majority of cases... this never happens. Do you think that everything will be wonderful and just automatically fall in place for you? I wish that were so, but unfortunately most of the time this is far from true. I totally disagree with 16 year old girls or boys having a sex life and it's usual consequences, I would very much advise you to give up this way of life while you still can! |
Date: 8/23/2003 6:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 12966
Posey, I agree that 16 is too young to have sex (i am 16 and i made a promise to myself and my future husband to wait until I am married) but you are being a bit harsh. My mother was 17 and my daddy was only 18 when I was born. It doesn't always have a happy ending like my parents relationship had, but sometime it works out. I agree she should be careful and fully protect herself (pill and condom) and one night stands are wrong, but people share things on USM to get advice and support, many people tell personal things here b/c they dont feel comfortable telling other people and they just need to talk.  |
Date: 8/23/2003 7:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 13979
i got a false reading also...once that caused alot of bad heartache... causing my mother in law to think i was trying to trap her son when we were dating. so yes readings can be wrong, now i take precautions and buy 3 EPT's... 2 outta 3 wins what can i say  |
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Date: 8/23/2003 7:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 48809
No, LC, I am not being harsh enough! I don't want to hurt anyone's feelings ... but we are talking about a 16 year old girl here and you are also only 16 . I am a great grandmother and I am old enough to have seen many such cases of boy meets girl and boy takes a "hike " while girl is left "holding the bag" to raise an innocent child alone!I am not trying to chastise this child, but am rather trying to help her see that she is headed down the wrong road and instead of worrying about being pregnant at 16 years old , she should instead be worrying about whether or not she is going to be able to attend college.It is not easy to have a fussy baby and trying to stretch $50.00 or less a week to feed 3 people. You have no idea how much it will cost to set up housekeeping and to get all the equipment the baby will need if one is born. And what about a car and it's maintenance. Would a young couple of this age be prepared to pay a $500/$600 or more security deposit on an apartment plus the rent itself? Around here it can cost nearly $100.00 just to have a telephone installed .... not to mention other essentials such as utilities and food etc. Love flies out the window pretty fast when you are 16 years old and you want to go out on saturday night and you have a screaming baby on your hands and the only one to take care of it is YOU! I think it is being very irresponsible to encourage any young girl to use birth control instead of telling her that this is something that she is very likely to regret for sometime to come if she goes through with her intentions! |
Date: 8/25/2003 5:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 40979
Oh don't blame your self. Please don't ;-( It was not your fault. Things happen for a reason. Thats all I can say. You would be better off with out it and maybe oyur baby would be better off in heaven.  Really it is ok..these things happen. No one means to do it, and no one can stop it.  |
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Date: 8/25/2003 5:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 40979
Oh wait, your 16 ? I did not know that part. I still think it is sad, but common...if what bdd said is true about your pregnancy scares, then maybe you should go on the pill or shut your legs. Cuz one day you will get preg. and you would be able to do any thing about it. |
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Date: 8/26/2003 3:08:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 55297
well... i am on the pill now, and i know sex so young is dumb, but i dont know. its hard to know when its right and not. im stupid, i know it. so... thanks for all ya'all's comments. |
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Date: 8/26/2003 4:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 48809
No Heaven, you are NOT stupid! I won't go into any great detail here except to say that I think you are basically a good girl who has been lead to believe that it is ok. to have sex at such a young age ! Our government promotes this all the time by furnishing condoms to young girls without their parents knowledge and allowing sex all over the TV screen! Even some high schools are known to furnish these things to girls! Just remember that many young guys will tell you they love you and then dump you later... not all , but a good percentage. I did not in any way want to embarass you ... but when I see a young girl about to ruin her life, I cannot keep quiet! Morality has all but gone from the world today and many think it is fine to "live on the edge" and just hope they do not become pregnant. We must all create our own standards of morality in these days and do what WE believe is best for ourselves rather than listening to others! I hope you will take seriously though what I wrote to you, because it is true. You do not have to do anything that anyone tells you to do... but I hope you will stop and think and count the cost of your lifestyle before it is too late. Take care! |
Date: 8/27/2003 2:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 62184
Alright, well, not to be totally mean and heartless.. but you sound helpless and sorta whiny when you say "i'm stupid, i know it". Sex at that young of an age is very dumb cuz that is one thing that can ruin your life. You're 16 years old, why are you even thinking about things like that? Plus, at your age, guys aren't going to stick around.. they do what they do and then their gone. I suggest you watch what your doing and again, i don't advise you continuing your habit .. at least till your older. There's a lot of consequences you don't know about. ~Silent Existence~  |
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