Date: 8/23/2003 9:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
you can't call his place of work? what about one of his co workers? I'd be a tad worried....  |
Date: 8/23/2003 9:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 31255
I would probably feel a bit worried... I would be upset that he hasn't called to let you know what is going on... but perhaps he has a good reason.  |
Date: 8/23/2003 9:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 53013
I would give him the benifit of doubt and be worried. But if it turns out that he isn't at work then let him have it!  |
Date: 8/23/2003 9:46:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 11341
No Becky I cant call his work. We dont have long distance and he could get into some major trouble if I called. I am worried   |
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Date: 8/23/2003 9:47:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 11341
He better Toooooooodles. Oh I will Gentel Breeze hehe. |
Date: 8/23/2003 9:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 42519
I agree... he's gonna have a heak of a time removing foot from bumm. you are a woman, you can multi-task.. you are worried until he gets home, and unless he is carrying 2 dozen long stem roses and a monster paycheck, then you kick the snot outta him.. Love ya tonz.  |
Date: 8/23/2003 9:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 31255
Wow... and I didn't even know this was Dinkers post! Of all the luck I run into  |
Date: 8/23/2003 9:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 13969
I would be mad.  |
Date: 8/23/2003 9:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
could something have come up after work?? does he work fairly far away?? i think you should tall to him before you jump to anything and get all angry  |
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Date: 8/23/2003 9:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 13969
Another thing, assuming there wasn't the long distance problem. If your husband hasn't showed up, I think you have every right to call his work place and find out what's going on. I have a job and if someone is worried because they don't know where i'm at, they can call and find out if i'm working. What kind of employer does he have that would have such a strict rule? Even if you don't get to talk to him, you could make sure he's OK. |
Date: 8/23/2003 10:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 29532
Both, worried as well as mad. After he gets home ok, I'd make him sleep on the porch.  |
Date: 8/23/2003 10:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 16671
I'd be ALMOST calm until I found out if he was working or not, then I would KILL HIM>  |
Date: 8/23/2003 10:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 53427
My husband has done that to me before. Turns out, he went to his buddies house after work, got drunk and passed out on the couch. I ended up calling his mom and dad at 3am and they went out looking for him and found him. We had already called the cops and all the hospitals. I was so mad!!  |
Date: 8/23/2003 10:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 56359
I would be a little worried right now DMK. He should've called you. I really hope everyting is all right.-screen_writer-  |
Date: 8/23/2003 10:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 6915
Worried, then mad. Dont just to the conclusion that he's out doing 'no good' There's always a reason.  |
Date: 8/23/2003 10:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 36766
I'd be suspicious about it......  |
Date: 8/23/2003 10:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 3998
what time does he normally get off work? and has this happened often? i am so sorry i guess i would look at the normality of his routine and then gauge it from there. its offly crappy of him not to let you know whats going on many hugs and good thoughts coming your way!  |
Date: 8/23/2003 11:59:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 11341
Thank you everyone for your replies. Hubby made it home around 1:30. He had a very busy day and night at work and still isnt finished doing what needed to be done. Its hard to be mad at him, he worked for 18 hours and wasnt even able to finish his lunch. I did raise my voice a bit about him not finding SOME way to let me know he was going to be 7 hours late! Thanks again all  |
Date: 8/24/2003 4:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 62104
Wow, that is a really long time to be gone with no phone call to let you know what's going on. I think I would be initially worried but if he doesn't come injured in some way, then yeah I'd be really mad. He deffinetly should have let you know what's going on.  |
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Date: 8/24/2003 4:14:00 AM
From Authorid: 62104
Just wondering..how is it he could get into trouble if you called him at his work? I understand bosses not liking their employees taking personal calls but obviously this is a ligit reason. |
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Date: 8/24/2003 4:18:00 AM
From Authorid: 62104
Oops, guess i'm a tad bit late with these replies...Sorry, I wrote before I read. LOL |
Date: 8/24/2003 6:16:00 AM
From Authorid: 28363
uh, the foot in bumm does not sound very comfortable. I hope he returns unharmed and is unharmed when he returns ;p  |
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Date: 8/24/2003 8:03:00 AM
From Authorid: 13969
Well, I'm glad he made it home OK; however, it is still my opinion that you should be able to call and make sure that you husband is at work. |
Date: 8/24/2003 8:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 56293
Woah! That's a longgg day! Glad your hubby made it home okay!  |
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Date: 8/24/2003 8:50:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 11341
Thanks everyone for the replies. Yes, I agree that I should be able to call, but I cant. The worst thing about this is hubby has worked 8 days in a row, he has another 5 days to go before he has a day off, he left at 5 am yesterday and got back around 130 am then had to leave at 6 am to be at work. I think they are trying to kill him! |
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Date: 8/24/2003 12:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 53427
I'm glad he made it home ok. Tell him next time he better call so you don't worry yourself to death. |
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Date: 8/24/2003 12:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
the hours he is working are NOT LEGAL... you need a 12 hour turn around... go complain to the labour board!!!!! AND may i suggest going and picking up a calling card(if you look at the rates you can get some GREAT DEALS) that way you can call if you want or need to call |
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Date: 8/25/2003 7:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 29532
an 18 hour day! MY GOD! He better get paid some REAL good overtime. |
