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Date: 8/26/2003 5:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
I have bipolar and I don't do anything like that.. maybe she has spontaneous disorder or something, I forget what it's called. My friend Mike has it..  |
Date: 8/26/2003 5:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 45630
There's not much you can do. Except maybe stick by her!  |
Date: 8/26/2003 5:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 40979
Wow that is sad. I will not stick up for her because She is not retarded, she knows what she is doing, buit maybe she cannot judge right from wrong. Talking ot her would only make her mad, maybe you should stay away from her until she settles.  |
Date: 8/26/2003 5:48:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31048
Thanks guys  Rika, do you take medicine? I think the difference between you and her may be either that she has VERY severe bipolar and yours is acute, or that you know how to control yourself and she doesn't! I work with a guy that has bipolar and he doesn't act like that either...I guess it just affects everyone differently. Anyway, thanks again guys  |
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Date: 8/26/2003 5:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 60992
I think you need to stick by her, so she knwos your still there and that you'll always be there.Maybe she needs to talk to a counsellor or something.She should talk about it and how she's feeling and stuff. *Canuck Hugs* -desiree  |
Date: 8/26/2003 6:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 16705
have you talked to her parents? if she is of age then you have a problem but you need to talk to someone, can you talk to the counseler at school? i hope you talk to someone to get her some help or she may end up dead and if she is your friend then do all you can to save her please. tell her you are going to talk to somebody, she will get mad at you and say she'll never speak to you again but that is just anger coming out once she gets her head on straight she will love you forever. please, please do what you can. Hamb918  |
Date: 8/26/2003 6:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
Blondie I knew this had to be you the second you said quiktrip! LOL how sad is that? I'm with the others just stick with her....has she been taking her meds??...or had them changed recently?? She's living a VERY dangerous lifestyle if she's going off with strange men and having multiple partners....express your worries about it with her..  |
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Date: 8/26/2003 6:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Blondie, I used to take medicine, but I stopped. My bipolar is not severe, but it sounds like hers might be!! |
Date: 8/26/2003 6:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 49091
She should be taking med from her doctor. He/She shoulda perscribed itto her as soon as she was diagnosed. She needs to stop smoking, and drinking and start taking her meds. Talk to her biut it...she'll get better.  |
Date: 8/26/2003 6:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 55386
Hmm. Usually people with that take meds when they find out. I have heard Prozac works, but I ain't no doctor or anything, so yeah. Hope I helped a bit!  |
Date: 8/26/2003 7:08:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31048
Thanks so much for your advice everybody! Becky, LOL...is Quiktrip just a Wichita thing?? OMG! I thought everyone had those! LOL. Anyways, I don't even know if she's taking medication. I haven't asked her because I know she doesn't like to talk about it. But if she's not take anything, she needs to START taking something ASAP! If she keeps acting like this she's going to end up with an STD, or pregnant, or in jail, or DEAD!  |
Date: 8/26/2003 7:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 29532
Des, no, that never worked for me. The more you try to "be there" for me, the more I push you away. Rika, I am level 3 bi polar, the worst you can get, and this sounds exactly like what I did before my meds. Meds are a NECESSITY for me. OG, your right, people like me can judge right from wrong, but we really just don't care. We are gonna do whatever it is we want, when we want. No matter how self distructive. GA, with alot of people (like me) I have tried almost EVERY drug they make for bi polar and manic episodes. Nothing has worked as of yet. Not even Lithium. Lithium did nothing. And that is some HEAVY DUTY stuff.  |
Date: 8/26/2003 7:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 38601
You need to sit her down and have a long talk with her about this...horrible things could happen to her if she keeps this up...if she doesn't stop, tell her family...no matter how angry she is at first...one day she'll thank you...  |
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Date: 8/26/2003 7:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 60992
Pinky, will I guess you'd know best since you've experienced.But still I guess me I'd still let them I'm there.I could never not tell my friends that.Keith my best friend was going through hard times but she's better. *Canuck Hugs* -desiree(des) |
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Date: 8/26/2003 7:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
LOL @ blondie I don't know if it's just kansas or if like minnisota and nebraska might have them too lol |
| Date: 8/26/2003 7:35:00 PM From Authorid: 62328 i can relate with your friend there . when i was that age i was completely out of control in person cause inside my mind i was a train about to seriously wreck . I couldnt tell the difference between right and wrong and i was just looking for someone to stick by my side . Drinking while having bi-polar is a way of self medicating your self its away of being able to escape from the craziness inside your brain for one night . and yes everyone knows the problems will be back in the morning but for just that one night while intoxicated you can be beautiful and free and not have any cares . Being Bi-polar or just having any type of mental handicapped is a pain and its extremely hard to deal with especiaLly when your young . What you can do is do something that in this girls life not many people are going to do . you can stick by her side and waite it out with her and make sure she knows your there . This doesnt mean you have to hang around her all the time but just dont give up on her . We all gotta think about our lowest moments , did we want people to give up on us at that time ? regardless how long it lasts ? It is difficult to deal with someone with bi-polar and it always will . but one thing us bi-polar people are always striving for is stabilty and beacause of our minds we dont get much of that . so give your friend that one true gift and be there for her threw thick and thin . you will be blessed in life for it . |
Date: 8/26/2003 10:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 19625
I know people like that, generally people like that have very low self-esteem, and haveing guys be interested in sleeping with them boosts it, so they go searching for it, just for that quick confidence kick. As for going off with guys she just met, well that's plain stupid, especially going to HIS house. I know some girls who went off with some guys they'd just met at the mall at about 9:00 pm, (they all claimed to be GD [Gangsta Deciples]) to make a long story short, they got picked up in the ghetto at 1:30 am by the cops... they were by themselves, they guys had took off without saying a word, and one of them ended up haveing her CD player and all her CD's stolen, and the other ended up with Clamydiah (sp?) But it gives me chills thinking what COULD have happend to them, and to think they tried to get me to go with them... uh-uh, I don't think so. Hopefully your friend figures out that what she's doing can put her in REAL danger, cuz really if someone wants to do that, there's no way to stop them, but you should talk to her about it and tell her your worried about her. And, I know this is gonna sound like a bad idea, but if she keeps doing this, you might have to tell her parents... she might get mad at you, but it's better to have an angry friend than a dead friend. Erin-  |
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Date: 8/27/2003 2:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
Well people with bipolar do have these sort of habbits. Ok I will amit your are right this is kinda discusting but she has bipolar she has an exsuce. Anyway she could get herself into alot of trobble with this bad habbit I mean when you said she hooked up with som guy she only knew for 5 minutes I mean who knows who that could of been she could get herself in danger. Well I don't know what to do exsept tell you to make sure she is taking her medication. In your reply to this post you said she dose not want to talk about it but she could be not taking her meds cause she is embarrassed that she needs medication. Ok it sounds like she is not but try and talk to her about it ok. *Cosmic Freak*  |
Date: 8/27/2003 12:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 48279
ok here is the deal. it is discusting, but she also has a problem that she doesnt see. my really good friend and my aunt are manic depressant. the thing is, most people who have this think very low of themselves, and they do anything to think otherwise ... like sleeping with as many people who walk their way. Remember, being bipolar is serious. My good friend attacked his best friend when he had an attack. now would he do that normally? No, but its cause people who dont have the disease and who stick by them need to make sure they take their meds. its very very important. i just hope you wont drop her in the ditch because of this. i could never do that to my friends or my aunt because sometimes i dont agree with what their doing. the thing you need to do, is find other ways to show her she is beautiful, and nice and just higher her spirits so she wont need to be intamate with so many people. good luck ok hun... just dont abondon her =) but i dont think you would do that  |
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Date: 8/27/2003 4:07:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31048
Thanks so much for you comments guys . Everyone had some good points. I talked to my friends today that are also friends with Kelly and they agreed that we need to do something before she totally spirals out of control. The only thing stopping us right now is the fact that she's going to get mad if we try to help her. But one thing we know we're going to do is stick by her . We were even thinking of asking her to share an apartment with us this summer after we graduate. And if she moved in with us, it would be easy to make sure she took her medication. |
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Date: 8/29/2003 7:35:00 AM
From Authorid: 29532
Ooooooooooooo Blondie, moving in with a severe bi polar person is HARD HARD HARD to do. Meds or no meds, It can be very dangerous and Highly stressfull. I'd re think that one. |
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Date: 8/29/2003 9:38:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31048
Uh oh! Yeah, I was thinking about that today actually...I was thinking, "If Kelly gets on our nerves during the short time that we see her at school, what's it gonna be like to live with her??" |
| Date: 9/17/2003 9:52:00 PM From Authorid: 62328 yeah thats the truth cause i am bi-polar and its hard to live with myself let alone other peopel bein around ya . so yeah that probally wouldnt work unless you gto nerves of steal lol |
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Date: 9/22/2003 8:13:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 31048
Yeah, lol...I don't know if I could handle living with her! I don't know what I'm going to do...I guess I'll just have to cross that bridge when I come to it. |
Date: 2/24/2004 9:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 62275
Not only would getting on your nerves be a problem, but at the same time you'd have to worry about what weirdos/drugs/alchol and such she'd be bringing into your home. Then not only would she be putting herself in possible danger, but she'd be putting all of you in danger right along with her. You can still be there for someone without them being under your wing so to speak.  |
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