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Date: 9/20/2003 2:54:00 PM ( Chatmin-FA )
Tell them that they need to make time for their friends. |
Date: 9/20/2003 3:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 38601
talk to them, tell them how you feel, try to make more plans and if they don't stick to them this time, find some one to hang out with who will.  |
Date: 9/20/2003 5:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 52866
If this is the first time they have done this, just calmly bring it up to them. But if they have done this multiple times, really let them know that it hurts you. The thing people don't get is that a girl's boyfriend is really important to her...I have friends who just get mad when I TALK about my boyfriend, and them getting upset can be just as annoying to ME as me bringing him up or hanging out with him can be to THEM. It's a two-side deal here. You need to talk to them.  |
Date: 9/20/2003 5:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 34865
Hey erica! i hope i wasn't of these two friends, i dont think i was lol because i didn't do anything with souk tonight, anyways, i'm not sure if u are aware of it but nick's grandmother passed away yesterday so he prob just needs support by beth, if that is one of the people u are talking about. I'm sry this happened to u erica, thank u for responding to my post, i'm here if u need to talk too. love ya back! ur bestest bestest friend ~Christine
P.S. i agree that u should talk to them and tell them how u feel because most likely they dont think they did anything wrong.  |
Date: 9/20/2003 6:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
welp go on your own.... who says you need them.... don't let them stop you  |
Date: 9/20/2003 7:20:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 38256
yeah they've never done this before we've always made time for each other no matter what. I don't care that she wants to spend time with her boyfriend that's expected what i'm angry about is that they broke plans with me to do it! Christine, maybe nick did need her but she had no way of knowing that when she ditched me for him.  |
Date: 9/21/2003 7:27:00 AM
From Authorid: 39139
Erica!! I'm so sorry. You know that i never meant to hurt you or anything! Yes, nick's grandmother did die, and i was over at his house with him and his family nearly all day yesterday, but you're right, i decided not to go before that happened. I am so sorry and i never meant for you to feel like i was ditching you, ever! I think the reason i decided not to go was because i ony really get to see nick once a week and after having been with adam and seeing him every day (which, admittedly, was too much lol) i just miss him more. but you know what?? this weekend is josh hartnett movie night! i know we have band friday night and i'm working saturday, but what if saturday afternoon or something we get together and veg out in front of the tv with a josh hartnett movie marathon? and if you want to wait to do that like a sleepover with jamie too, how about we go to the mall and then to see a movie? under the tuscan sun came out i think. k, whatever we do let me just say this, if i ever do something like that again, just give me a good slap and say hey! wake up!! lol erica, you are one of my closest friends and i never ever meant to do anything to hurt you! wow, this is pretty long, huh? look, i've got to get back to my hw but i'll see you at the photo shoot, k? and this weekend is a no nick weekend, i promise! love always (but not in the gross way lol)  |
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Date: 9/21/2003 8:42:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 38256
Thanks Beth i should have told you right away that i was hurt but i know how much you miss nick after not seeing him all week. I just don't ever want a boy to come between us! Love always (but not in the gross way lol) |
Date: 9/21/2003 10:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 54987
When they get ditched they'll be back wanting to be friends again. It's part of life. Boys will always come first.. its natural instinct. They will for you too.  |
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Date: 9/21/2003 12:43:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 38256
Koolade you say that like i've never had a boyfriend. au contraire, and i always put my friends first. |
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Date: 9/21/2003 1:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 54987
Sorry e-cutie86 if I riled you just then. I thought you were much younger LOL. I didn't mean to cause any offence.. just speaking my mind. Just take the last sentence out, but it still stands. |
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Date: 9/21/2003 2:17:00 PM
From Authorid: 39139
Erica, trust me, a boy will never come between us! unless it was josh hartnett, or matt damon, or colin farell for that matter. j/k! lol you know i love you and value your friendship! |
