Date: 9/20/2003 4:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 62273
He had no right to talk to you that way!! What a loser!!  |
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Date: 9/20/2003 4:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 62273
So childish!! |
Date: 9/20/2003 4:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 35160
im sorry that happened to u hun. some ppl just are afraid of what they dont understand. also maybe hes not very secure with himself in many ways and feels the need to lash out at ppl who r different from him. {{{{huggs}}} sweety, ;)  |
Date: 9/20/2003 4:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 25756
How mean can a person be?! Even though it probably wasn't the best idea to hit him, in my opinion, he deserved it!  |
Date: 9/20/2003 5:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 54968
That was really rude of him! I prolly would have done that same!  |
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Date: 9/20/2003 5:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 54968
*the* not that. lol |
Date: 9/20/2003 6:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 57074
omg im so sorry that happend to you! I really dont understand why so many people have so much hate in them these days! but dont let that bother you hun, everything will be ok :)  |
Date: 9/20/2003 6:15:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 1225
But I hit him. I HIT him. You guys don't understand what that means. I NEVER hit ANYBODY before outside of self defense. I've taken worse crap from bigger rear ends than him. I don;t understand how I lost my cool so badly.  |
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Date: 9/20/2003 6:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 57074
Maybe you had so much built inside you that when that guy said that it just made you go off, like this girl at my school, me and her are having problem and i usally ignore her and what she says and all then one day she said something to me and i just went off, and usally i dont say anything |
Date: 9/20/2003 6:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 15394
I'd be frightened too, and confused as well. You can't understand hate, yet felt that very emotion, and chose to act on it. I can understand anger, and rage even, but I cannot understand replying with physical violence. Apparently this is quite an emotional thing for you, and something you deserve for your own sake to work out. I'm sorry this happened to you.  |
Date: 9/20/2003 7:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
that kinda thing rarely happens around here... very accepting to single sex people... fairly active.. and fairly safe in general.... i have a gay friend... he hasen't had a single issue like this... but i'd think in sanfrancisco you wouldn't either... but i guess not... you gotta not let narrow minded people get to you... some people don't understand  |
Date: 9/23/2003 8:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 34476
That is assault. Maybe you should talk to a professional, who could help you figure out why acceptance is so important to you. And why this man's unacceptance of you upset you so badly. Yes, he was rude and poorly mannered, but he did not deserve to be physically attacked --even after he verbally accosted you. You seem to abhor violence (at least from the posts/replies I have seen from you) so I am curious as to why you would lash out in this manner. Think about it.  |
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Date: 9/24/2003 9:21:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 1225
I'm looking for acceptance. Merely respect. Simple human decency. Yes, I assaulted him, and by doing so I came down to his level. He was more than simply "rude and poorly mannered" he was verbally abusive. But I am, as you've notice, a passifist in most regards. But for seven years I've had to put up with people like him, and that wears on me. You try being degraded and insulted on a daily basis for that long, and then see if you might snap on someone yourself. |
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Date: 9/24/2003 9:22:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 1225
that should have read: "I'm NOT looking for acceptance" bloody keyboard... |
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Date: 9/24/2003 3:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 34476
I know that I would eventually snap if I were subjected to that type of continual, daily degradation. That is why I suggested seeking a professional. Maybe a support group could be helpful. |
Date: 11/12/2003 9:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 53054
People like this man, are not worth listening too...some people just have there views, they may be silly and stupid, but they are there opinions...even if they are wrong...i totally disagree with what this man said to you! He was so wrong in doing that...sometimes people just dont know when not to say anything...but i dont think that violence was the answer...i can understand how angry you must of been, but still hitting the man would not of helped at all! *hugz* i dont think anyone deserves to be treated the way you were by this man, and i am so sorry for what he said to you it was UNFAIR and UNJUST! *hugz*  |
