Date: 9/20/2003 6:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 15677
No no it doesnt everyone deaals with grief in a different way...she was really to young to have processeed it then anyhow. So sad tho that she has lost them both my thoughts are with her)  |
Date: 9/20/2003 6:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 1225
There's times when pain and grief are so overwhelming that the brain/mind trips an emotional "circuit breaker" to prevent an overload/breakdown.  |
Date: 9/20/2003 6:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
Of course it doesnt! She was too young to fully comprehend what had taken place, and young enough to not remember her parents fully. Not bad at all.  |
Date: 9/20/2003 6:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 15394
awww its sad that she would think that it makes her a "bad" person... (She probably has deep emotion on the subject and simply behaves as she does out of her own self preservation) I wish that she wouldn't feel guilty for how she feels.  |
Date: 9/20/2003 6:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 52866
Not at all! She was probably too young to even realize what happened. I agree with Lady Luck.  |
Date: 9/20/2003 7:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 29532
Nope.  |
Date: 9/20/2003 8:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 22080
not really cause although they are your parents at that young of age it probably dont set in what happens and she probably grew to feel that way  |
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Date: 9/20/2003 8:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 22080
also, i did the same with my uncles funeral 2 years ago, i loved him dearly but i was to busy trying to keep my other family members sane |
Date: 9/20/2003 8:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 56293
No, at that age, you can barely remember anything. .I know I don't remember much from when I was 4, let alone 1.  |
Date: 9/21/2003 1:48:00 AM
From Authorid: 59418
no because she doesnt remember what they were like.  |
Date: 9/21/2003 3:36:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
Well she was too young to rember the so that could be it if she did rember them I think she would have felt sad about it. Besides she knows the way she is feeling about her perents dyeing is in a way evil so no she is not a bad person.
*Cosmic Freak*  |
Date: 9/21/2003 10:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 54987
No.. it makes her interesting.  |
Date: 9/21/2003 12:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 51463
everyone reacts to losses differently, I was at my uncles house when he died (First day of summer too, it was a very unfortunate year for me) and while everyone cried I didn't have any effect. I was sad yes but there's no point in crying when nothing can be done. That was just how I felt, then at my aunts funeral this summer I was too petrified to cry because she had just moved out of her house and we bought it from her (she needed to be in assissted living due to alzheimers) and I was afraid of the house. Everyone reacts differently though so no she isn't a bad person =-bootz-=  |
Date: 9/21/2003 5:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 17204
Nope. It doesn't, simple as that! She was too young.  |
Date: 9/21/2003 7:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 29262
no... It doesnt make her a bad person... My friend lost her mom I think @ 5 years old. When someone says something about a mom they notice her and say OMG I am so sorry. I didnt mean to... She will cut her off and thats okay. We have talked about her mom and her death before and didnt mind anything. She doesnt get sad. She told me she doesnt know what its like having a mom and thats why she doesnt get sad. My other friend just lost her mom almost 5 months ago. I was hysterical when her mother died cuz I knew her since I was little. At the funeral she didnt cry. She just sat and talked. Everyone takes things different.  |
Date: 9/21/2003 8:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 34487
No, she's not a bad person. She was too young to really connect or remember her parents so not being extremely attached to them isn't unusual.  |
Date: 9/21/2003 8:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 62100
No, it doesn't make her a bad person..she just never really got a chance to know them being that she was so young at the times of their deaths. How COULD someone feel a real sense of loss over someone they barely knew..even if it was a parent or parents?? I'm sure that she feels a sense of sadness over never knowing them though..  |
Date: 9/28/2003 11:21:00 AM
From Authorid: 40979
I don't think so . I meen , she was young when they died so she really does not know what it was like to be a part of that family or how to love them . I think she DOES love them but she was just to young to really cling to them .  |
Date: 9/28/2003 2:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 4144
no it doesn't make her bad. she was just a little kid when this happened and didn't even understand what was happening.  |
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