Date: 10/24/2003 3:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 61811
just tell them, "IF you are going to come to my house uninvited, then don't assume you are getting lunch! MY mom's going shopping later and we dont have any food. deal with it. Also, don't expect ME to pay for YOUR drinks, expecially after you ignore the fact that i told you someone else would have to pick us up!" That's what i would do, except, honestly id do it more rudely. im a horrible person, but if they piss me off, then they did something really wrong because i dont get upset easily. IF ya need to talk to me, im here! I LOOOVE you! lol i dont even know you, but i love everyone that isnt rude to me or my friends. lol I say either they get their act together, or ditch them. THey are being out of control.  |
Date: 10/24/2003 3:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 60052
I think your friends are taking advantage of you. I would talk to them and set them straight right away before it gets any worse.  |
Date: 10/24/2003 4:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 15394
True friends have give and take... all friends have personal boundaries... stick to your boundaries and if they are true friends they will either accept you as you are or respond with thier needs or thoughts.... true friends will work it out with you...jmo  |
Date: 10/24/2003 7:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
These aren't real friends, they're parasites. Ditch them, in favor of quality people who can pay their own way, and like you for who you are.  |
Date: 10/24/2003 11:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 15070
you deserve better. These are not friends. They are leeches. And, you don't need that kind od disrespect.  |
Date: 10/27/2003 12:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 53054
these people are not friends, they do not deserve you as a good friend...go out and meet new people you are a wonderful person but these people are not treating you right! GET NEW FRIENDS! *hugz* good luck!  |
Date: 10/30/2003 11:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
Well something simular happened to me I had these friends who would come over to my house everyweekend i did not ind that because we were the best of friends they went though my perets closet made fun of what was in there. They would take stuff we would not want to be touched down and play with it and me and my perent would tell them not to but then they would go what we are only looking. And then they would tell me my perents are being mean uptight snoby posh and un-fair (as if) and then they would go home crying to mumy and dady because we yelled at them for it. And get this I would got their house be as nice as I could be but I would get into so much trobble for forgetting to say pleas or thankyou I mean common that is bad but nothing compared to what they did. And then they would expect me and my perents to spent on them right and if it was me it would be considered rude. So yeah i know how you feel i was taken advantage of only to be seen as the bad friend well with my friends i tryed to tell them not to be such hipacrets and they just went "none of this politics agine" well tell your friend how you are felling and if they don't listen or start being jerks to you then you might have to tell them off. Either way if you feel they are taking advantage of you do not let them.  |
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Date: 10/8/2007 5:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 63400
be upfront and straight forward with people especially if you do not want too.! |
32133 Category:(General Advice) Created:(10/24/2003 3:43:00 PM)