Date: 10/25/2003 8:07:00 AM
From Authorid: 59418
oh my, that is tough, i'm so sorry! i would let the answer machine get it yeh, but thats just me...some would probably say thats childish, but i duno. At the party...i guess you'll just have to engage in coversation and stuff, but if you really don't want to talk, just tell him...*big hugs* just message me if you want to talk hon!  |
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Date: 10/25/2003 8:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 62357
Well, I know that hurt you alot, hon, but its better coming from him and him being honest with you, than him telling you a bunch of fluff and leading you on. Life is too short to worry over one guy, especially one that has no intention of being just with you. Give it some time, and you'll understand. *hugs* darlene |
Date: 10/25/2003 8:12:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57579
thanks you guys *Hugs* I dont really wanna go to the party anymore. I dont really have a choice though because my mom is friends with his mom. And I dont really know anyone at the party cause they're all older than me but I think I can manage talking to other people  |
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Date: 10/25/2003 8:13:00 AM ( Chatmin-FA )
I agree with Darlene |
Date: 10/25/2003 8:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 44321
I also agree with Darlene..as for the party talk to your mom and tell her why you do not want to go,she might understand.  |
Date: 10/25/2003 8:26:00 AM
From Authorid: 62408
How close are you and your mother? Maybe if you explain the situation to her, she'll understand your not wanting to go to the party. I'm sorry that you're hurting... but he was honest with you, although he did have a bad way of going about it.... unless perhaps he was hoping you'd confess to some secret other crush first, then he could be let off 'scott free' so to speak.. (I don't know, just speculating, definitely not trying to take his side). As for when he calls this afternoon... leave that up to the moment. Do you have caller ID? If not, let the machine pick up... you can always claim you were in another room at the time and had to run for the phone at the last second should you choose to pick up. Lots of people 'screen' their calls, its certainly not a crime. And if you choose not to talk to him for a couple days, give this time to settle down a bit, both of you to digest this, and THEN try and talk, it might even work out better that way, than trying to talk while the hurt is still quite fresh in your mind. If you wait a little while, you might be less likely to say something you'll regret later. Again, I'm sorry you're hurting. If you need a friend, or just someone to vent to, feel free to e-mail me at raemilyn@yahoo.com Take care, hun... I'll be thinking about you.  |
Date: 10/25/2003 8:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 62401
***BIG HUGS*** Sorry that you are going through this. If you want to talk more you can message me or send me an e-mail at Katiebugsmom@knology.net. I have been with my husband for a total of about 3 years but i remember the heart ache of past relationships too well. Let me know if you want to talk!
Lindsay  |
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Date: 10/25/2003 8:45:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57579
Thanks you guys it's nice to hear from everyone. I try not to talk about things like this on USM but this was just an exception |
Date: 10/25/2003 9:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 35720
I'm sorry, Misty. *hugs* I know if my boyfriend told me he was interested in other girls, it'd really hurt. Let's just hope yours comes around and realizes what a great girl he'd be losing if he lost you.  |
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Date: 10/25/2003 10:00:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57579
thanks Rika you've got a great guy I dont think he'd do that to you. But mine on the other hand tried the whole "You're so beautiful I love you" crap then said "I dont like them anymore." Like you stopped liking them after 5 minutes...RIIIIIGHT |
Date: 10/26/2003 6:14:00 AM
From Authorid: 53054
lolz...he is one guy and if he likes other girls then he is not worth you! *hugz* you are a brave person and if ya feel its not right then it not....sorry if this is harsh! Boyfriends come and go, but guess what us people here at usm will always be here....*hugz*  |
