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PLEASE HELP with some advice concerning Dr. Phil & ? groovyalien

  Author:  28890  Category:(Human Interest) Created:(10/25/2003 7:34:00 PM)
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I have an adult friend who I have known for over 3 years. Recently, he has been ignoring me on the internet and by phone. I don't know if he is depressed because his daughter got married in July, but he should really get over it! Also, not to foget, he has ignored his neighbor who he known for years. She had a problem where her son hurt him knee or leg. Well, he can hardly walk now because if it, so she thought she could ask her neighbor for a wheelchair. She called and went to his house, and no one seemed to answer. Talk about a terrible form of the silent treatment! Why does a person do this? It doesn't solve anything! He doesn't work at all and all he seems to do is ignore me and his neighbor. Good thing I live in a different state! So, the lady left a message explaining why she needed to borrow a wheelchair. And then a while later, a wheelchair appeared mysteriously on her front porch. Now, wouldn't you be concerned in any way why she needed it? So, I am not the only one who is being ignored! I even spent a month with him and his family and wow did I get yelled at for the silliest things! By accident, going threw a light and being told that I enjoy talking bad about myself and others. Isn't that sick to think and be told that! I sure do! I was never told that before! And he thinks he is always right from the show Dr. Phil that he seems to be obsessed with. So, a while ago today, he was online and I said hello..why are you mad at me? are you ok? and after a while I got so mad..I said.."Go Seek Dr. Phil Some More!" Do you think that was bad for me to say? Would you get mad if someone said that to you? I am sorry, but I just wish I was emailed or told what I "supposenly" did wrong because I am not like a ordinary teenager! I care about others, try my best, and want to make friends since I have not had a good life and am very lonely for being the only child who isn't allowed to go many places. PLEASE, what can I say or do to break the silence! I even sent an apology card, and still no response and that was back in September.

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Date: 10/25/2003 7:42:00 PM  From Authorid: 60945    aww I think you did the right thing, I mean, it isn't fun being ignored.. I would be a lil ticked off too.  
Date: 10/25/2003 7:46:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 28890    From going through a light..he was teaching me how to drive and sworn at me when I did something wrong. It seems like I got more negative than positive comments. At the end of it..he asked me.."Would you like to drive again next year?" I said.."I don't know at this moment?" Well that wasn't a good response because he said something like..How could you be like this? You should have said.."I'd be glad to come back next year and drive". But how you treated me..do you deserve to even come back next year? How I treated him was by saying I don't know a lot. Isn't that sad? Or being sarcastic and sometimes negative. I was hardly negative and almost everyday he yelled at me for something. Saying that this wasn't vacation that this was Boot Camp. NOW from all of this..I am scared to drive with anyone. I DON'T WANT TO GET MY LICENSE and I am 17. How depressing! He even wanted me to bring my psychology report that was done on me in April about my problems that are not bad enough for actual help like depression and anxiety and also a Cloning report I typed myself, and he won't send them back to me..No matter how many emails..calls..letters I write! How depressing because my parents could be very mad at me if I don't have the psych report because its quite personal and I tried to make him and his wife happy by bringing it this past Summer for them to read but I guess I didn't. And with my Cloning report, my history teacher is very mad at me for not having it in my portfolio. What should I do? Should my teacher call them or write to them? But what should she say? I am so worried..I don't know what to do!  
Date: 10/26/2003 3:41:00 AM  From Authorid: 42945    the adult friend might just need some space and obviously has a problem hun.....you've done your best to keep friends with him, you cant do any more than that...let him come to you...hugs  
Date: 10/26/2003 8:16:00 AM  From Authorid: 62410    First, if you really like this person and "really care," you would leave him alone. You have no idea what he may be going through. You tell him "get over it" with regard to depression. Who are you to say when he should "get over" emotion things? You judge him pretty ruthlessly if you ask me. Depression is a clinical illness. If he is going through depression, maybe he just doesn't want to talk,or see anyone, not even to find out why a wheelchair is needed. Realize that not everyone handles things like you do -- we all handle things the way we feel most comfortable. I think you just proved him right when you said he said you "enjoy talking bad about yourself and others." I mean really - isn't that what this post is all about -- so you can bash a friend just because his isn't responding to you. If you really care about this person. Leave him alone and don't throw tantrums when he doesn't respond. Perhaps that's why he's not responding. Scall
Date: 10/31/2003 5:48:00 PM  From Authorid: 53054    well i think he is an adult and he is acting pretty imature for an adult really...he should send those things back to you becuase they are not his, they are yours....i would be doing the same thing as you! really get someone else to contact him and talk to him about what is going on, maybe it is best if you dont! *hugz* good luck!  

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