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Love and being in love.. How can you tell?

  Author:  61893  Category:(Discussion) Created:(10/26/2003 8:33:00 AM)
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I have heard it said MANY times.. "I love them, but not in love with them." I understand what they mean, but how can you tell if a person loves you or are in love with you?

When I think of one of my ex boyfriends, I know that I still love him, but I am by far NOT in love with him. How I know this is, I care about what happens to him, he was a BIG part of my life, if he ever needs anything I would be there for him, but I would not or could not be in a relationship with him again, I can't imagine kissing him or anything like that. I just don't think of him like that anymore, I think of him kinda as a friend.

I know how I feel, but how can you tell how someone else feels? People are good at trying to cover/hide the truth. So, how do you know which kind of love it is, if they won't tell ya?

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Date: 10/26/2003 8:39:00 AM  ( Chatmin-FA )   I define love in a few different ways.. I have a strong love for Allen (Vampyre Gerbil here on USM), he and I have been togethr for two years and we are both in love with each other. I know my feeling for him is I get kinda like butterflies still when I see him, and we both know if there is something wrong with eachother, its some weird connection. Then I have a different kind of love, a strong friendship love. An example of last night.. I was talking to my friend Tony online and I say that "I <3 him", and he knows what I mean, that I just love him as a close friend and nothing more.. You can love more than one person, and it can be the opposite sex. I don't know if I answered this right.. Er.
Date: 10/26/2003 8:43:00 AM  From Authorid: 35720    Love is versatile.. you can love many people.. friends, your mom, your dad, your siblings. But being IN LOVE with someone is totally different. It's a feeling that you could never have for anyone else. I know that feeling well.  
Date: 10/26/2003 8:45:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 61893    Thanks for replying all :)  
Date: 10/26/2003 8:56:00 AM  ( Chatmin-FA )   Rika said it better than me, LOL
Date: 10/26/2003 9:25:00 AM  From Authorid: 54155    Does he tell you he loves you when its sexual?? IT depends on WHY you guys are apart..and what you feel like when ur apart. Like my boyfriend and I...we don't really say "I Love YOU" but I KNOW we love eachother and we're in love...how would your life be if he had never entered it? and how do you feel after he leaves?  
Date: 10/26/2003 9:44:00 AM  From Authorid: 62357    He dont have a clue what he wants. Ive heard these things before...."I think i'm in love with you, but I'm not sure"....What that means is...."I still want to be open to experience other 'things' but I want to keep you on the hook, too." People who are in love dont wrestle with the question of loving someone, but worry "do they feel the same about me?" The guy that said that to me ended up cheating on me, because 'the opportunity was there, and men are dogs', ...his quote. Now, how much do you think he really loved me? They want to have their cake and eat it too. The only way they can acheive that is by telling you what they think you wanna hear, even when they KNOW their deceiving you. If you're in love with this guy, you may need to back-up and assess this thing one more time.... Men make love to women all the time that they do not love, and that is a hard truth, but a truth, none-the -less. They are not like women in their thought process, so dont compare your morality to his and think they are very similiar. Major mistake on a woman's behalf. Be careful. Darlene
Date: 10/26/2003 12:55:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 61893    I think people confuse love with lust also..  
Date: 10/26/2003 6:11:00 PM  From Authorid: 50678    Well I'm in love with my wonderful Fiancé. And you kind of just know, I mean when my fiance' and I first met here on USM, every time we talked deep inside we liked each other but we where both in different relationships we that like turned into love. You get a deep gut feeling.  

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