Date: 10/27/2003 6:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 29262
Hmm.... Its better going to him in person and telling him your sorry for how everything went but if you are too afraid to, like I was with my ex, you could write a letter and ask to be friends :)  |
Date: 10/27/2003 6:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 58334
Been there! I think all of us have. We wished we would've done more or not have down something. Don't you wish you could travel back in time? All I can say is don;'t stress! It doesn't do good to dwell on past events. I learned that the hard way. Keep your head up and things will work out the way they are supposed to  |
Date: 10/27/2003 7:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 58078
When he said that nothing happened are you sure he's thinking the same things as you?  |
Date: 10/27/2003 7:29:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25756
I do wish Icould travel back in time! Andrea-Well, I don't know, but there were definitely a bunch of things I could have improved on. I really don't think he'd be expecting to have sex on the 1st date or anything in the middle of the day...lol...plus we had our moms pick us up and drop us off. Lol...but really, I think I know what I could have done to improve it.  |
Date: 10/27/2003 11:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 52746
I think you should cut yourself a bit of slack; this was your first date after all so you can't be expected to know the full complexities of dating. There'd be nothing wrong in acknowledging this guy's disappointment (IP made a good point here), just say to him it was your first date.  |
Date: 10/28/2003 4:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 30747
Oh I'm sooo glad I'm not your age anymore. I can remember feeling like this many times. It took me a long time to learn this but really the best you can do for yourself is to just go up to him and say "when you get some time, I would like to talk to you about something that has been bothering me" Then tell him how you feel about everything. I have a feeling he's going to understand. I'm thinking he has a few questions of his own. He wouldn't have asked you out if he weren't interersted in the first place. Maybe he's blaming himself that the date didn't go fantastically well and has regrets of his own. Start over with him and see where it goes.  |
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Date: 10/28/2003 1:14:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25756
Thanks Sam Spade and Soul Drifter! (And Julie who I forgot to acknowledge before-sorry about that!) Souldrifter, I'm hoping so. I get this kind of "vibe" (lol I don't know how else to say it) from him kind of like....I don't know, that he still maybe likes me, but since we don't have any actual classes together...I don't know. Thanks again! I'll hopefully figure something out! |
Date: 11/6/2003 7:42:00 PM
From Authorid: 13283
You never had a chance to develope . If it was your first date ever maybe you should mention that to him . Your true self comes out after several dates once you get a chance to relax . If there is no second date with him , dont sweat it ! I am sure there will be other nice guys asking you out . :) Razzy aka  |
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Date: 11/6/2003 7:57:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 25756
Awww...thanks. :) I really should try and mention the fact that it was my first date casually sometime in the future. :) |
