Date: 11/19/2003 1:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Distance gets REALLY hard, trust me..  |
Date: 11/19/2003 1:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 58611
Distance can be tough, and at least he was honest instead of leading you on or anything, which would be much worse. But it still hurts no matter what spin you put on it. I am sorry sweetie, its part of life though, but remember that it leaves the door open for better opportunities.  |
Date: 11/19/2003 1:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 17014
Well obviously he didn't want to make things work, so he wouldn't be worth your time. Don't be down on yourself when this is only ONE guy out of the many that you will come across in your future.  |
Date: 11/19/2003 1:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 17014
Aquarose has a good point.  |
Date: 11/19/2003 1:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 58078
I would rather be told because of distance then my looks or personality.  |
Date: 11/19/2003 1:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 59371
You'll find the right guy for yourself, don't worry. He has a point and I'm sure he didn't say it for an excuse. It is hard to have long distance relationships, I know it is. ~Zenn  |
Date: 11/19/2003 1:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 25756
Just because you're rejected ONCE doesn't mean you should give up! Of course it's discouraging, but at least you know. This give you more of a chance to find someone else who you might like. Didn;t you say before (I might be wrong though) that other guys have liked you? Don't obsess over him not liking you too much. It was ONE guy! :) *hugs* Hope you feel better soon! :-D  |
Date: 11/19/2003 3:11:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 51827
Thanks everyone, I still am feeling a little down but time heals all wounds... or at least i hope they do Yall are making me smile though  |
Date: 11/19/2003 3:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 62146
*big hugs* cheer up your going to find someone 10 times better for you some days and they wont smash your feeling cus the only guy that is worth your tears is the one that wont make you cry. and hey the reason he did not want to be with you was because of the distance so don't feel like a retart cus your not a retart and long distance gets really hard your feelings could have been more smashed if it was like that. So cheer up you would find a guy that likes you back *big hugs*  |
Date: 11/19/2003 4:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
it is always hard to put your feelings out in the open. i give you alot of credit for being able to do that. but distance can be a real issue. i have been there before and, as much as i loved the guy and he loved me, it didn't work out. i do agree that it is a good thing that he was honest with you. there is nothing worse than being led on. i know it hurts either way...but he really could have been telling the truth about the distance being a problem. you will find somebody in time that you like just as much, if not more. just hold your head high and remember that at least you tried.  |
Date: 11/19/2003 6:34:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 51827
WOW your comments are really helping me feel better about everything that happened, thanks  |
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Date: 11/19/2003 8:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 46585
Only one fool in a world full of idiots. Distance is a big factor though. Just next time find someone a bit more near you. And trust me, anyone with a half of heart will be noticed. You'll be just fine. - Faded Fiction |
Date: 11/20/2003 2:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 29262
Distance relationships suck. More time to cheat on you. you dont need him. You sound like nice enough person :)  |
Date: 12/27/2003 1:36:00 AM
From Authorid: 52612
yeah sometimes life sucks lyke that, i've had 2 of those cases this year, life's been really rough on me, but who's there 2 blame ??? and my 1st experience this year was a long distance one also, and yeah she said it was the distance thing and i was hoping that she can over look that, and yeah its just an excuse, ignore what u feel, listen 2 some music that inspires u and think about the positive sides.., its working 4 me, and yeah these times r so fReaking hard!! and u know what ? its getting even harder!!!  |