Date: 11/19/2003 3:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 30229
"If you love something, set it free... if it was yours, it will return, if it wasnt yours it wont"... That is an old saying, but it is so true. Maybe you should let him go, and if you dont ever get back with him, then it is best for you in the long run. There are just too many guys out there to worry over one during the teen years.. Good luck to you sweety!!!  |
Date: 11/19/2003 3:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 48577
I would have to agree with Gail. Good luck.  |
Date: 11/19/2003 3:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 62221
I totally agree with Lady Luck. If it is meant to be, then it will be. Maybe you guys are just having a bad time, you never know. Good Luck. ~HUGS~ *Brown Eyed Angel*  |
Date: 11/19/2003 4:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
Gail gave you excellent advice here. i have stayed with people out of what i say was "habit". i was afraid to let them go because i didn't know how i would make it day to day without them. but it wasn't because of love...it was because i had gotten so use to spending my time with them. but it never works. maybe taking a break will make you realize if he is the right one for you. i wish you the best.  |
Date: 11/19/2003 4:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 24319
Listen to Gail, she's right. But I wanted to touch on the "I'm scared to be single, I'm hardly ever single." My friend is 21 and just 5 days ago her boyfriend of 4 years left her. Before him she was engaged, she has ALWAYS been with a male. She doesn't know how to be herself without a male around. It's always "Liz and so and so", never just "Liz." There WILL be a time in everyones life where you are going to be single. If this is one of the times you are too be single, then do it. Don't end up like Liz who can't even stay at her house because she is scared to be alone. Everything happends for a reason, I truely believe. When you look back on it, you'll understand why it happend.  |
Date: 11/19/2003 4:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 54987
Drop him like a hot brick! Listen to your gut feeling cos that's what is telling you the truth - always! Why are you so worried about being single? It's another chance to find a guy who will hopefully be the one. Don't throw away your life on a loser. Your inner voice is obviously telling you to let him go... so do it. He's a loser... no question. You're too good a catch to be wasted on him.  |
Date: 11/19/2003 4:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 53284
Maybe you should just ease off for a bit and see if he comes around  |
Date: 11/19/2003 4:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
perhaps you guys have just out grown each other? dont stay with him just because you are afraid of being single. my advice would be to maybe just back off and see what happens. if things dont improve, perhaps you should both move on. best of luck! :)  |
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Date: 11/19/2003 5:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 62410
Stand up tall - take a deep breath. It does sound like he is letting go but doesn't want to be the "baddy" in the relationship by breaking up with you. So, it sounds like he's doing what a lot of employers do -- they push your buttons until you break up with them. 1) there is absolutely nothing wrong with being "single" -- how else are you going to meet someone who does want to talk to you if you are with someone else? 2) Don't let him take up too much space in your head. I think you need to regain your strength and individuality and be the strong young lady you are and just not care what he's up to. Scall |
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