Date: 11/19/2003 6:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 3688
i agree with your friends, get over him. this guy is totally playing you.  |
Date: 11/19/2003 6:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 60395
if he's doing this- how much can he really care? you're too good for him!!!!!!  |
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Date: 11/19/2003 8:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 62410
Do what I do with Martin, my "hang-up" same as yours, let him go. Martin lives in Monteal and I live in Seattle. We share mutal friends who get together often via Boston. We are definately attracted to each other as I can judge from our various meetings over the last 8 years (and I just spent 4 days w/ him [just us] in Montreal in August). We see each other as "unattainable" because of borders and certain basic philosophies but at the same time we are so attracted to each other -- but not enuf to change everything in our lives! So we stay in distant touch, sometimes still flirting with the idea that borders don't mean so much... but still [both of us] so loyal to home. Scall |
Date: 11/19/2003 9:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 51827
listen, I was in a current situation as you although I did not care for the guy too much but he did the same thing. Look, he shouldnt get the cake and eat it too. You know in your heart the right thing would be to leave him alone. Its fine to be friends with him as long as you can handle his gf but the fact of the matter is I think he is not worth your time if he isnt going to break up with her. That is wrong and misleading to you. Get you someone who treasures you as you may treasure him, youre worth it, good luck, love hurts  |
Date: 11/20/2003 1:56:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
Well tell this guy if he is going to stay with this girl then he has got to stop playing games with you. He can not be with both of you it also depends how long has he been with her. he has to make a choice you or her.  |
Date: 11/20/2003 10:09:00 AM
From Authorid: 53558
Your friends are right, Angel Face. There are plenty more fish in the sea. Great big hugs. Take care,  |
Date: 11/20/2003 2:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 29262
You cant act like a love sick puppy. Be like I am not gonna stand for you flirting with me when you already have a girlfriend. If you wanted to be with me that bad, you would have broken up with her to be with me. All I have to say is we can be friends while your dating her... if he doesnt take that well forget about him. hes not worth it  |
Date: 11/20/2003 7:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 57579
I want you to do something it may seem like going back to 1st grade but listen. I'd like you to put your self in the girlfriend's shoes. I'd like you to think of her for right now (there's a point dont worry) and how all this is affecting her feelings. If you were to go with him how do you know he wouldn't do the same thing to you that he'd doing to her. Well I think you should find another guy that's not like that. The way he treats his current g/f is a clue to how he'd treat you. Good luck *Hugs*  |
26070 Category:(General Advice) Created:(11/19/2003 6:14:00 PM)