Date: 11/20/2003 5:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 28336
be yourself..if you don't want to dance than don't..he'll deal with it or you'll move on and find someone better for you...  |
Date: 11/20/2003 5:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
i agree with blue moon. don't do something you don't want to do because he wants you too. be yourself. if that isn't good enough for him, then you don't need him! you deserve better than that.  |
Date: 11/20/2003 6:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 53054
If he cant accept that sometimes you get nervous and DONT want to do something, then i dont think that you should be together....this may sound harsh but if he cant accept you for who you are then....there is nothin there! *hugz*  |
Date: 11/20/2003 6:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 50864
Stay true to you. He is the one not worthy of you.  |
Date: 11/20/2003 6:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 25481
thats just stupid. He sure as heck aint worth it if he wants you to be something you're not.  |
Date: 11/20/2003 6:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 38601
*gasp* what a jerk!! you have every right to do what you want to do when you want to do it!! Don't let him tell you anything!! If he can't accept you the way you are then...HE'S not good enough for YOU! *hugs*  |
Date: 11/20/2003 6:37:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57579
Thank's you guys. I'm still hoping it just came out wrong the way he said it but I'll talk to him about it tomorrow.  |
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Date: 11/20/2003 7:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 62410
Yes, I have some advice hon, first, quit "trying" to be how he wants you to be. Next, love yourself for the way you are. You are more introverted than extroverted -- I am currently awaiting arrival of a book called "The Introvert Advantage". Personally, I am an introvert with extrovert tendencies. I can be gregarious and extroverted when the situation calls for it - but by nature, I'm introverted. It's OK. Be who you are and to heck with people who want to mold you in their image of perfection. Be strong. Scall |
Date: 11/20/2003 7:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 62433
I say if you ever feel like you have to change the way you are to make someone like you better, then you should just forget about them. Who is he to tell you that, ya know? You know yourself better than anyone. Don't worry about it hun. Tasha  |
Date: 11/20/2003 8:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 51587
dont try to change ya self jus becuase of him..if he dont like ya how you are...he aint good enought for ya *huggs*  |
Date: 11/21/2003 12:12:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
The only guy that is worth your tears is the one that never makes you cry. And the guy that is worth changing for is the guy that never wants you to change. Don't change for your bf tell him if he ant happy for what you are then he has to just put up with it. And besides just because he ant happy dose not mean you can't be happy with yourself. *big hugs* so cheer up your a great person.  |
Date: 11/21/2003 12:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 51049
Just be you, and if that is not good enough for him, than you don't need someone like that.  |
Date: 11/21/2003 7:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 54987
For goodness sake drop the s.o.b! And work on your self esteem.  |
Date: 11/21/2003 11:07:00 AM
From Authorid: 53909
Don't change yourself just for him. Be yourself! :) He should respect you. Don't let him tell you to do something that you don't want to do, even when you're not comfortable about it.  |
