Date: 11/20/2003 7:03:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59608
Why did I have to fall for him? Out of all the guys out there why him? I would never think about cheatingon him. Why is someone in a reletionship if your not going to be faithful It just does not make sense.  |
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Date: 11/20/2003 7:05:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59608
I dont want to go to school tommorow |
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Date: 11/20/2003 7:07:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59608
Thanks for the advice and Eugene can never look at me in the eye. He is a very bad lier but My stupid butt still stays with him. |
Date: 11/20/2003 7:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
Ok...if he's given you NO reason to doubt him in the past....TAKE HIS WORD FOR IT that nothing happened. Otherwise you have to sit and evaluate the situation. If you cannot believe him when he tells you nothing happened....then maybe you shouldn't be seeing him...  |
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Date: 11/20/2003 7:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
but given that comment about him being a bad liar....then if you stay with him....it's just going to be a repeatitive cycle....he lies, you stay with him...he thinks he can get away with it and is just using you... |
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Date: 11/20/2003 7:12:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59608
But why wouldnt he do something with amy? He did it before why wouldnt he do it agin? Amy dislikes me and what better way to do something to me than mess with my boyfriend? |
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Date: 11/20/2003 7:14:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59608
I know I should leave him if there is no trust and if he did cheat on me but I cant stand being away from him. |
Date: 11/20/2003 7:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 57579
That part where he says he's not going to lie to you so he's not gonna say anything is making me suspicious. If he didn't do anything why would he be acting like that. Whether he did or not he needs to be honest with you. I think you should have a serious talk with him let him know that you trust him and care about him and if he says something you'll believe him. If he is lying hopefully that'll make him feel guilty enough and come clean. But as for the psychic part I'm still working on my abilities so I'm not doing a reading yet. Good luck. *Hugs*  |
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Date: 11/20/2003 7:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 57579
Not being able to stand being away from someone is not a good reason to stay with someone. If you love , care, and mostly trust a person that's a good reason. But fear of being alone is not. I know it seems hard having to be without him but trust me from experience it'll be okay. You'll more than likely ok you WILL find someone who will treat you better and wont go behind your back. I'm not saying break up with him but he's really not worth your time anyway. I learned ALL this (I've been through this before) this the hard way. |
Date: 11/21/2003 1:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 51827
Look, you know in your heart what is right, If you really feel like this i really think not seeing him is the answer and the reason i say that is you can get hurt in the long run. I had the same situation and was like depressed for like 6 months cause of a guy. It cant be healthy for you to sit around and worry. Although if u really beleive him then give it a chance. I just dont want you to hurt anymore than you have to. if he had done this in the past then you no you shouldnt be with him. hey, you should ask Amy if they did anything. Look, just dont dwell over it. I know it is hard advice to take but you gotta do it. do it for yourself. I could go on for hours about this but you know in your heart what is right and what you beleive. the pain you feel after breaking it off will be less intense than the pain you will feel in the future, wandering, and wandering. It will stress you out, look, keep us updated here. I want you to work things out and be happy, you shouldnt be hurt, and i dont want you to be hurt.  |
Date: 11/21/2003 7:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 58611
Whether he did or didnt he still betrayed your trust, and that is wrong, he knew better but did it anyways, no excuse for that. Dump him on his lying behind, and keep in mind that all the others who were with him betrayed your friendship as well.  |
Date: 11/23/2003 5:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 62408
The fact that he said he didn't want to lie to you, so he wasn't going to say anything is still a lie. Just a lie by omission. And if he knew you were going to figure it out anyway, why not tell you in the first place? Also, he doesn't seem overly concerned that you're upset over this. If he were upset about your anger, he would do more to try and assure you that he was innocent...such as invite you along on the skipped day, or at least let you know she would have been there ahead of time...that would have been courteous. In my opinion, if he were so innocent, he would have said 'oh, by the way, I didn't realize it, but Jess invited Amy to come along today...she was there with us, but I really didn't spend that much time with her' or something like that. He have found a way to still tell you that girl was there, even if it was after the fact...WITHOUT your having to question him. No one likes being lied to. Maybe cool things down a little for awhile...you are still reeling from what you've learned. Don't be paranoid...but don't get caught in any of his traps either. If he really loves you, he'll prove it, and not make the same mistake again. There is always the chance of oversight. But if you've got that gut feeling that something is wrong...I would say trust your instincts before you get hurt even more. --Christine  |
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Date: 12/7/2003 1:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 16000
u already know the answer
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