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It Starts 'again'.....I hate this.........................LPF

  Author:  49546  Category:(Discussion) Created:(11/21/2003 6:17:00 PM)
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In the past, maybe about half a year before my dad had 'drinking problems'! Things were bad both financially and emotionally for him. Sure, it wasn't his fault he got fired and got sued (long story short), but after that he just 'stoped' didn't work, didn't do ANYTHING. He'd just sit around while my mom had a job, which definitely was NOT sufficient enough for our monthly bills/needs.

WEll things started to pick up, having some random jobs here and there, but i guess it's starting again, but this time worse.

WHen my dad would get 'drunk' he wouldn't be in the like critical stage of drunk, where he can't walk and stuff...i mean he would say all this 'bad stuff' (without knowing it) ANyhow, this morning (last night my dad went out to a freidns house to help her with some computer stuff) HE comes home in a taxi...completely drunk! AT 2 am ... the taxi driver calls our home (he got the wallet of my dad and got the phone number there) and my mom went down to pick him up, HE could not walk...all he did was like slur and not walk straight.

THen at 4 am (still drunk) he gets up and starts getting ready to go out, my mom's like where are you going? and he said "i'm going to my meeting" (the meeting is a t 10 am), he obviosuly didn't realize time...

SO now my dad is completely sober now, but i hate the fact that he's turning to drinks again, furthermore, i hate the fact that my dad's FRIEND let him get to that State! I know EACH time he goes to her house, he comes home drunk, there's NEVER a time where he would come back home from her house sober.

The whole story with her and him (long story short..i'm getting suspicious, he spends more time with her then with my mom, but then maybe i'm overeacting) i don't know...right now (my mom just told me this 20 minutes ago) i'm upset, worried, angry...well lots of things..

My mom said she's gonna talk with my dad, i know my dad will flip and just tell her off (believe me, this is not the first time)

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Date: 11/21/2003 6:26:00 PM  From Authorid: 53054    WOW i am so sorry that you have to live in a situation like this...i know what it is like, and it doesnt get any better...your dad needs help.....He needs to reliese that he has a problem and that he can get help...maybe if you talk to your mum about AA (alcoholics Anonomous) Its a really good organisation which can help alcoholics....Sorry that your dad is like htis! *hugz* take care  
Date: 11/21/2003 10:02:00 PM  From Authorid: 16705    first and foremost that so-called woman is not his friend. your mom needs to put her foot down and stop being an enabler. she needs to tell him your family or your friend, if he chooses the friend then you guys need to move on with your life. as long as you put up with his crap then you and your mom will not have a future. your dad knows the difference between right and wronmg and it seems to me he only wants to do wrong. you and your mom stand your ground or you will continue to put up with all that crap. i wish you all the best. Hamb918  
Date: 11/21/2003 11:22:00 PM  From Authorid: 34487    I'm sorry to hear this. It's sad when parents start acting more like kids than their children do. It's also sad that he's spending so much time with another woman that negatively influences him. He's killing and numbing his pain and reality with alcohol. It's sad and will get him no where fast. Have you ever confronted him with how you feel when he's sober? I'd be nice about it but I'd also be honest. I'd tell him that it's easy to respect your father when they lose their job or have money issues but it's impossible to respect them when they get drunk and act irresponsibly. He's not setting a good example for you and he's not doing anything but making the situation worse. You're mother needs to do more than talk to him, she needs to get him some help. He probably suffers from depression or some anxiety disorder and is "self-medicating" with alcohol. This is very common. I'd suggest that to your mother and ask why he's not getting some professional help. If money is an issue, there are non-profit organizations out there and with a bit of research someone would most likely be able to assist. Good luck and God bless. :o)  
Date: 5/10/2005 3:40:00 PM  From Authorid: 12118    Oh man...I feel guilty. As I read this post, I'm drinking. Ouch.  
Date: 5/10/2005 3:41:00 PM  From Authorid: 12118    My father is an alcoholic, but a funny one. He's never gotten violent with us while he was drinking or otherwise. I hope everything worked out for you.  

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