Date: 12/14/2003 2:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 5252
i have no idea, personally i would not had gotten into a relationship with his cousin to begin with, but if you are happy, then that is wonderful. if he asks if you have his number, just say yes, but tell him how you feel, if you do not want him to fight or whatever. i understand how he would be mad, and you as well, but just talk it out, and maybe you should put assult charges against your ex?  |
Date: 12/14/2003 2:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
you should let the police deal with it...file assault charges on your ex...  |
Date: 12/14/2003 3:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
i agree with Becky. i wouldn't say a word to your B/F right now about the number. just call the police and let them deal with it. it may be a tough thing to do, but it is best. honestly, i was there once. my husband and i had a fight that resulted in me almost having a car accident. (we were in the car together when the fight happened) long story short, i ended up calling the police and he ended up doing 15 months in jail for it. believe it or not, we worked everything out in the end of it. he said me doing that was the best thing that could have happened to him. it made him realize how dangerous he was with a hot temper. he is much more calm now and not so quick to get angry. before your ex attempts something again, call the police and let him see that he can't do things like that too you.  |
Date: 12/14/2003 3:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 62486
That is tough. Well, for one thing, STAY AWAY FROM YOUR EX. I don't know the details,all I know is that this guy could be even more dangerous, if he did it once i'm sure he would do it again,STAY AWAY FROM HIM. As for your b/f now, yeah, the cousin thing kinda stinks, um, I think you should tell the police, yup, it will be very hard, and i'm sure you would much rather just tell your b/f give him the number and let those two guys fight it out, or just let it go, but something like this you don't just let go. You need to tell someone other than your b/f, it feels nice to have a macho b/f :-), but you need to tell and adult, if you get your b/f involved it might just make things even worse. Don't worry, everything will be ok. I hope I helped alittle, but yeah, they're all right, call the police, or tell and ADULT, you shouldn't just let it go. Hope everything goes well.
LUV YA,
ROSEY |
Date: 12/14/2003 4:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 10754
If he assaulted you, you need to press charges and stay away from the guy altogether. As for the new boyfriend, well.....I would think that he would have his own ways of finding his cousin, but you shouldn't lie to him though.  |
Date: 12/14/2003 4:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
get the police involved. what he did to you is against the law and he should be punished. while your current bf would be meaning to do the right thing, he could end up getting himself into trouble. best of luck  |
Date: 12/14/2003 5:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i think it's your fight not your new BF's fight, i also think you shouldn't be dating within the same family, that is like asking for trouble(aka the trouble your having!) you should call the police(or go in) and file assult charges, and if it happens again file them again then get a restraining order  |
Date: 12/15/2003 12:44:00 AM
From Authorid: 51827
If he assualted you, you should go to the police. He should not get away with that, and if you do this then you may stop him from doing it to other people.  |
Date: 12/15/2003 5:33:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 30786
I don't think it is that wrong of me to date his cousin. They have been estranged for a few years now, on account of my ex being a jerk to him as well (long story) I feel like my EX is the one that asked for trouble when he was cheating on me and then beat on me. I shouldn't feel guilty for being with a guy that I truly care about that I have a better future with. We both knew the consequences of what might happen if we got involved, and were willing to accept that if it meant we would go through it together. If my ex cared so much then he shouldn't have been doing the things he was doing  |
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Date: 12/20/2003 6:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 62212
How about calling the police?? I mean he assaulted you so get him locked up. If you get your new boyfriend into this and they get into a fight your pulling him into getting in big trouble also. I mean if your ex is low enough to assault a women who knows how far he would go if he was attacked by a guy. Just my opinion. Call the cops. |
