Date: 2/9/2004 9:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 59418
yep i do!  |
Date: 2/9/2004 10:01:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61893
Me 2 :)  |
Date: 2/9/2004 10:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 43807
yeah.  |
Date: 2/9/2004 10:06:00 AM
From Authorid: 36538
I believe in love, but I believe that not all are destined to find it.  |
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Date: 2/9/2004 10:06:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61893
I believe in it, because I have felt pain and down right misery from it..lol But my heart still beats on and strong with love :) |
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Date: 2/9/2004 10:07:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61893
That is a good point Kentucky Chick! |
Date: 2/9/2004 10:14:00 AM
From Authorid: 12103
Yes, i belive  |
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Date: 2/9/2004 10:16:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61893
When you can be with a person for YEARS, and still get butterflys in your stomach, can still make you blush, can still make you melt.. than that is wonderful.. |
Date: 2/9/2004 10:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 19772
Wow, thats pretty sad. Not only for the old guy that never felt love but for all his "girl friends" and especially his wife. I do believe in love. Like you said it's rare, but it is out there. ~Gabrielle~  |
Date: 2/9/2004 10:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 53155
yes i believe in love, I dont think it will ever happen for me cause nothing ever seems to make me happy, but i do believe that 2 people can find a deep love for one and other and be happy forever. and wow hes been married for 40 years and had a gf for 30 years how in the world does he pull that off with out gettin caught????  |
Date: 2/9/2004 11:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 53961
He has confused lust with love. Lust requires only his manhood, while love requires commitment and honesty, of which he seems to have neither.  |
Date: 2/9/2004 11:31:00 AM
From Authorid: 26049
I believe in it..  |
Date: 2/9/2004 11:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 13546
Yes. I do believe in love. :) Its one of those.. tricky things sometimes.. but when it happens.. you just know its right. Hmm.. and as for that man, well.. to each their own. It sounds like it makes him happy.  |
Date: 2/9/2004 12:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
yeah  |
Date: 2/9/2004 12:13:00 PM
From Authorid: 35160
yes i do :D  |
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Date: 2/9/2004 12:31:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61893
His wife knows about his girlfriend and his girlfriend knows about his wife.. It is a messed up deal. His girlfriend is also married and her husband has a girlfriend. His wife doesn't really care, because he pays the bills, she doesn't have to work, he takes care of everything. She is content with that. I guess it is just like what Rainbow Angel said, "To each their own." Still seems messed up to me. |
Date: 2/9/2004 12:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 25556
Thats a good question. I LOVE my boyfirend and as soon as were ready Im going to marry him but should we love everyone. God says we should and I do. I love everyone for the person God made them and the contributions they make to life but I dont really think their is any ONE person that people are meant to be with. Thats whats confusing to me. If you get married when your young and swear hes the one and then the next day he dies in a car wreck are you to wait it out alone and when you die you join him in heaven. What if you remarried and the person you married after that swore that YOU were the one. How they gonna work that out in heaven. i dont think I'll ever have the answers. I love everyone equally for the person God made them and yes I love my boyfriend too, BUT the part that really makes a difference is that I actually like the things he does and the way he acts as well.  |
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Date: 2/9/2004 12:38:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61893
That is a great point Cloud Nine! I have often wondered the samething you do. I know I would want my husband to find someone else if I die, I wouldn't want him to be lonely. That just doesn't seem fair at all. So, how exactly would that be worked out in heaven? So, you marry and 20 years down the road you get a grave plot together.. so he dies and you remarry.. who do you get buried by? I always heard that you first husband is the one you will be with in heaven, like "that was the only one that counts." Who knows! |
Date: 2/9/2004 1:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 58334
yep :-)  |
Date: 2/9/2004 1:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i believe in love... i also believe you can love two people at once, just a different type of love, i think many people could love many people if they allow themselves to act on this love(like this man above is acting on his love for other woman he's let it grow) but i do think when you are a married person you should only be INLOVE with the person you are married to and you should not allow other "inlove" options towards other people i think there is a different between love and attraction, unfortunately some people mix that up  |
Date: 2/9/2004 3:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 53836
I believe in Love and He who gave us a perfect example. I wonder if the contractor knows God?  |
Date: 2/9/2004 3:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
yes, i do. but i also completely agree with midnightly on this. she made an excellent point  |
Date: 2/9/2004 3:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 54987
Sounds like he's one that can love more than one women. Some of us are like that. It it's not done in a deceitful way it can work. Love is freedom. I believe in love... without it we would be nothing. Love has many faces. This is just one ...[grimaces].  |
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Date: 2/9/2004 4:03:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61893
SpaceCase, this man believes and worships God. He goes to church..etc So, I don't really understand his ways, but who am I to judge? I try my best not to judge others, but it makes me wonder how he can live the life that he does. I do hope he finds and feels love one day tho. |
Date: 2/9/2004 4:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
i most definatley do! sounds to me like this guy has never found true love and thats why he seeks out relationships with lots of women. i personally couldnt imagine even thinking about being with anyone else but my bf. before i met him i was worried that i would never find because, while i had bfs, i never needed to see them or missed them. but its true, when i my current bf i knew ~ within a month i knew i was in love with the guy ~ i'd had relationships 6 times longer and had never felt the connection, the longing and the 'fuzz' that i had (and still have) with him. love is a beautiful thing :)  |
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Date: 2/9/2004 4:29:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61893
It sure is a beautiful thing, but it can also be very painful at times. However, it is ALL worth it in the long run :) |
Date: 2/9/2004 6:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 17014
I sure do. And you can truly love more than one person in your life time. Outside of my family, I've found love twice. The second being with my boyfriend now. The first time being with an ex-boyfriend, about...6 or 7 years ago now. Just because you truly love someone doesn't always mean you're going to be compatible.  |
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Date: 2/9/2004 6:59:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61893
Kelsey77, you also made a good point! You can love someone even if you do not have anything in common at all, doesn't mean you're not compatible. It is much deeper than that.. it really is. I have loved two people at the sametime, but not in the sameway. I loved one and was in love with the other. Love can sometimes be a lil complicated. |
Date: 2/9/2004 8:18:00 PM
From Authorid: 51070
I don't know. I've never really been in love with someone. I had severe crushes, where I thought I was in love with that person, but it turned out to be just an infatuation. Heck, I've never even had a boyfriend and I'm 19. Isn't that pathetic?  |
Date: 2/10/2004 3:46:00 AM
From Authorid: 26363
Yes I believe in love. I found it 6 yrs ago. The attraction is so very strong between us that we have gone our seperate ways as we cannot have a relationship due to certain circumstances. I believe we were together before in past lives. We still get together from time to time to catch up but it is hard. Maybe one day....MorningGlory  |
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Date: 2/10/2004 5:53:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61893
MorningGlory, NEVER give up! Your "one day," will come.. just be patient. The time will be right someday :)True love never dies, and that is a fact! |
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Date: 2/10/2004 5:58:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 61893
CreepyFreak, no that is not pathetic at all! You are still young and have your whole life ahead of you. Love will happen to you, if you want it, and allow it to happen. Some people close off their hearts so that it won't happen and so that they won't get hurt. However, I would rather love and feel pain, than to not love and be numb. That right person is somewhere in this world waiting for you. :) |
Date: 2/10/2004 3:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 31765
Definitely. I'm newly married (again) and I'm sure this time I did it right :)  |
