Date: 2/10/2004 12:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 3688
Has he been to the doctor lately? That just seems kinda strange behavior. If he hasn't it might not be a bad idea.  |
Date: 2/10/2004 12:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 10754
As a man, I'm going to refrain from voicing my actual opinion.  |
Date: 2/10/2004 12:08:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 60052
Yep, he's been to the doctor, not about this specifically, though. He has hypertension, would that cause him to stare into space like that?  |
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Date: 2/10/2004 12:08:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 60052
I would really like to know, Jay, am I talking too much, nagging what is your opinion? |
Date: 2/10/2004 12:12:00 PM
From Authorid: 62344
sounds like he just has a problem expressing his emotions.  |
Date: 2/10/2004 12:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 47162
I can't really read his mind. But sometimes I do the same thing when family ticks me off. I just go and get alone and just tune everything out. I do this, because I don't want to vent my full wrath on those I love. It helps me process my feelings. It helps me to be angry, but sin not. Maybe that is his way of being angry, working through his emotions, yet at the same time not hurting someone he loves? Also you might have some ideocyncracy(sp) that you do all the time, and it just bugs him to death. His reflex is just to put up a wall and tune it out when you do whatever it is you do. I do the same thing around my mom when she does certain things. I just freeze up, and think, oh there she goes again, and I just tune her out. He could be doing the same thing. It could be his way of just enduring the little quirk you have that drives him insane! Don't feel too bad if you have some quirk that drives him insane. I'm sure he has many that do the same to you. On the other hand none of this may describe what is going through his head. I can't read his mind.  |
Date: 2/10/2004 12:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 51241
um, yea......no offence intended but i think ur husband needs to go see a head doctor or somthin  |
Date: 2/10/2004 12:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 27403
Umm......that sound scarey to me, but maybe I am easily frightened. If it is not a physical/mental problem, I would think it could be that he is holding back from saying something. And that he is really angry about something else that he has decided he either is not going to talk about, or that there is no use bringing it up, as nothing will change. Sounds like there is a real communication problem here! Love and Light  |
Date: 2/10/2004 4:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
it really wouldn't hurt to have him checked by the doctor. it could be a mental condition. (not saying he's psychotic. he may have depression or something of that sort) if not, he may just have trouble showing his emotions. i dated a guy like that once. if he got angry at me, he ignored me. it would drive me crazy! when his anger passed, he would act fine. i always asked him if i am suppose to just know what is going through his mind. ask you husband about this. tell him it really upsets you and maked you worry. maybe you two could talk it out and it will all be fine. best of luck to you.  |
