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Date: 2/10/2004 9:56:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
or am i just freaking out for nothing? is this nothing? i dont know, im so confused  |
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Date: 2/10/2004 9:59:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
I know, i'm stupid stupid stupid |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:02:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
oh and i dont know what to do about this whole drug thing. I have to have a high, I'm addicted to prescription pills...xanax, oxycontin, vicodin....i just dont know, i dont want to die |
Date: 2/10/2004 10:03:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
your not stupid and it's NOT your fault....whatever you do NEVER EVER EVER be alone with this man again!  |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:05:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
I'm not, but its hard not to see him around. I dont want to see him again. |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 60992
Hun it's NEVER your fault and it'l never be your fault.. I agree with Becky, enevr ever let him in ur hosue again and dun ever go see him again ro be alone with him. He sounds like he got problems of his own.. *Canuck Hugs* -des  |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 60992
You need to tell your parents about your addiction and you need to get helpm or in the end it'll end up takin your life, and it'll just cause pain to the ppl around you that you loved. And YOu are NEVER stupid. I don't want to hear you calling yourself that again.. Sorry if that's bossy but ur NOT stupid!. -des |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:24:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
my parents know about my addiction, I've had it since I was 17 or so. |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:24:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
I just want to know if its considered rape, its what im most confused about. |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 60992
Well if he did it without your will then I'd say yes.. -des |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:28:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
I mean it was just oral, he foreced me to do oral. and if I did it, then its not rape is it? But I did it unwillingly..but i still did it |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:30:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
its not fair, he was my best friend when we were little. who can i trust? no one |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 60992
Tell your parents about it you can trust them some what.. This is serious even if it's just oral.. -des |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:33:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
my mom knows about even asking and begging for it, i cant tell her about doing it..I just cant. |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 16845
My heart is really seriously breaking for ya...if you were drugged....and he made you do that while you were awake. like you said who knows while you were asleep?....you really HAVE to tell someone....if you can't please atleast get seen by a doctor to make sure you didn't get any nasty presents from this dude. he is NOT a friend... |
Date: 2/10/2004 10:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 14464
yeah i agree it's not your fault. I've been in those type of situations and I feel like i have to do it. I drank a little alcohol(for the first time) and this guy kind of forced himself on me. And I think if you didn't want to and you told him no and he still forsced it then yeah it is rape. And if you weren't sure of what he did while you were asleep and thought maybe something happened then you should have went to the emergency room and got a rape kit done so they could of had evidence if he did do anything. And I don't blame you for not liking men they can be jerks, but you can't let it get to you forever cuz there are some good guys out there. Maybe you should find somewhere you can go and talk to somebody who can help you!  |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:51:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
I know, my doctor said I should go to therapy because the antidepressants i take done work and i've tried them all. So I'm thinking about it..my friend knows a good one. I just don't want it to be a man. And as for while I was asleep..if he did anything I am on BC, and he said he was a virgin..but who knows. I don't. |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 14464
And just so you know Just because it was oral doesn't mean anything! It's still sex and was forced so it would be rape. If anything you really need to talk to your mom and if you can't then maybe talk to the police if you feel you can. |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:52:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
BTW, thanks for your concern. Whatever doesnt kill you makes you stronger right? Hopefully I'll work it out. |
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Date: 2/10/2004 10:57:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
I will talk to my mom. I cant get over the fact that I was raped. I never thought it would happen to me, ya know? |
Date: 2/10/2004 11:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 42519
nobody ever thinks it can happen to them. this guy is a real jerk and there had better not be a next time. If there IS a next time, make sure it is the last time and you make him suffer like he has made you suffer. You should have figured that the first night wasn't going to be the last night, but you are still not stupid. You have been mentally abused for some reason. It is NEVER your fault. Not your fault for being there, not your fault the other guy wasn't concerned about your feelings, not your fault. Good luck erasing the memory, but dont erase it with the drugs. Your drug addiction is serious and someone ought to bring you into custody. Seriously, it is a huge problem, and I have heard of people who have called the authorities in on a perscripton drug problem. Like husbands calling wives into authorities because of their problem. what you experienced alone should make you want to start straightening up your life. You will be in my thoughts and if you ever need a friend, I will be here. Love ya tonz  |
Date: 2/10/2004 11:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 7830
sweetheart im SO sorry this has happened to you. Please go to the police before it's too late and tell them what happened.  |
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Date: 2/10/2004 11:27:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
Thanks buffy, I appreciate that. <33 I don't think it would help to go to the police, there is no evidence that he did it, I think. I don't know about that. But we used to be such good friends, i dont want to get him in trouble..i know thats stupid but somehow i still care about him |
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Date: 2/10/2004 11:31:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
now that i know it was rape, its much worse. I cant stop the tears this time. I wanted to be in control of what I do. It means im weak. I feel like a slut and so dirty. |
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Date: 2/10/2004 11:31:00 PM
From Authorid: 42519
your right, that is stupid that you dont want him to get into trouble. Creeps like your friend are the creeps that turn into murderous rapist. Its the power set in their mind, and if they have no power, then they need more ways to acheive it. |
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Date: 2/10/2004 11:32:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
I've known him all my life, my family and his family are close. I will be embarressed if peiople know about it as well |
Date: 2/11/2004 4:17:00 AM
From Authorid: 40979
It's not your fault , he forced you to do it . I WOULD tell my parents , because , you never knoe if he is out there doing it to someone else . Love always ,  |
Date: 2/11/2004 8:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 11723
Listen...mind you this coming from a guy...but you should've BIT him. He deserved it. But woulda/shoulda/coulda doesn't help in this situation. Nobody deserves this happening to them. NOBODY. Talk to your parents. This is a serious issue. Also you should definitly seek help about your addiction. Being a slave to anything is never a good thing, be it human or a drug. The clearer you can think in any situation, the better you will be in getting out of them.  |
Date: 2/11/2004 11:43:00 AM
From Authorid: 8555
It's definitly not your fault!! Stay away from this man! I was in a situation like this once. It took me a long time to get over, and I wish I had gone to someone so they could have helped me. I though my mom wouldn't understand, but I realize now she would have been there for me, and tried to help me any way she could!  |
Date: 2/11/2004 12:57:00 PM
From Authorid: 51070
You were definitely mistreated. You should turn him into the authorities, pronto. I've got a suggestion for a good book that you should read. It's called A Girls' Gotta Do What a Girl's Gotta Do. It's by Kathleen Baty. Look it up online or at your nearest bookstore.  |
Date: 2/11/2004 9:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 12103
If he knew you didnt want to do it...thats just plain wrong!! What a sicko...I want you to NEVER see this guy again..thats awful hun :(  |
Date: 2/12/2004 12:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
Yes, this was rape, and he knows it. No, you can't just forget about it. This experience, bad as it is, is part of your life and you have to deal with it. Call the Rape hotline in your area, and get advice on what to do. They will also give you advice on telling your parents. Yes, you have to! However bad it is, you'll feel better afterwards because you won't be holding anything back from them. Also, you're going to have to get tested for STDs (sexually transmitted diseases).  |
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Date: 2/12/2004 12:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
P.S., from the description of the drug, it sounds like either GBH, or Rohypnol. These are known as "date-rape" drugs, because they render the victims helpless, with very little memory of what happened. If this is the case, he may have more of the drug in his possession, which will help your case when your press charges! |
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Date: 2/12/2004 9:21:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 52563
Breezy and everyone else thanks for your support and concern. I told my mother, we talked awhile and she didn't handle it too well. |
Date: 2/13/2004 3:58:00 AM
From Authorid: 1799
oh man.. *big hugs* its not your fault in any way... tell your parents.. this isn't something that can be dealt with alone..*hugs*  |
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