Date: 3/22/2004 9:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
sometimes no matter how much we love people we grow apart from them, i think we all feel a little lonely inside occasionally, even with a boyfriend/lover/partner/spouse we all still feel a little lonely every once and awhile  |
Date: 3/22/2004 9:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 21912
ya being lonely is a common thing for everyone. It just one of those things that happen sometimes, i went through my stage and eventually found something to do. And for ur friend maybe talk to her, or maybe it's time to find new friends but not ditch the other one, just so u can have other friends as well, and meet new people. Some friends just aren't good at everything, like say one's a good listener, but another isnt but needs ur advice things like that...i hope that made sense  |
Date: 3/22/2004 9:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 22188
Oh my goodness, listening to you is like hearing MYSELF talk!! I get like this sometimes too...no matter how close you are with your friends, spending TOO much time with them is never good. Just spend time by yourself for a day or two..or better yet do something with another friend. And as far as this guy goes..have you talked to him? Do you just like him from afar, or do you REALLY know him and consider him a friend? The best advice I can give you is to NEVER look for a boyfriend..just look for a friend. Because essentially you're looking for the same qualities, and it takes away all the pressure. And when you find the RIGHT friend, you'll know it, and everything will fall into place. If you ever need someone to vent to, give me a holler ;)  |
Date: 3/22/2004 9:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 19685
FIRST of all... the feeling of something missing CAN NOT be filled by a guy. That part that is missing is obviously your love for yourself. You have to be happy with yourself before you can be happy with someone else... I know, so cliche. But TRUE nonetheless. Instead of focusing on things you don't like about you, focus on the things you do and shine through those things! The things you don't like, you can always change if you want, but just work on ONE thing at a time. The more you accomplish, the more you will like yourself. The more you shine through the things you already like, the more positive reactions you'll get from others, and in turn liking yourself more. Once you start to do this, guys notice (yes, even the stupid ones :P). You won't have to worry about relationships because guys will already be interested in you. Confidence is what attracts a guy. And liking yourself should reduce the lonely feeling. You start to develop a real relationship with yourself and start to like spending time with yourself. I don't mind it at all these days.  |
Date: 3/22/2004 10:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 20956
honey, no guy is going to fix this problem. i know it probably sounds so cliche but you really have to love yourself and enjoy being single before you can have a successful relationship :)  |
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Date: 3/22/2004 10:11:00 PM
From Authorid: 62617
Just to let you know, you have to be confident in yourself. I am a guy and i feel lonely sometimes too. Especially goin through a big break up with my girlfriend of 3 years and tryin to get her back. You have to find something that makes you happy. And one thing that will cause you to feel lonely is maturing faster than all of your friends. You are becomming older and more mature and your friends want you to be the same. Thats not goin to happen. I lost many friends because I matured before all of them. I know exactly how you feel. You just have to find that inner peace and inner happiness with yourself. Once you do that then you will find out whats missing. HAHA No guy will fill that space trust me. We arent that great of human beings. Im not gay or anything but a relationship causes more stress than not being in one. So find that inner happiness yourself first. Then try something new. Fat and ugly? I wouldnt know but we are our own worse critics! Dont be so down on yourself! Everyone of us are beautiful in our own way. Find something you love about yourself and focus on that. If you cant find anything, ask your close friends and see what they say! I hope i could have been of an assistance. Only 18 and a guy so i think im doing pretty good. HAHA Peace.. *Prince Kendrick* |
Date: 3/23/2004 4:50:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 48689
whoa, so long of comments! Well, thanks you guys, for everything. I appreciate it. Much love.  |
Date: 3/23/2004 6:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 62590
My old best friend and I grew apart so we justed moved on and we dont get along very good any more and i so get u with the acting immature thing we just geew apate and now i have a new best friend and shes someong really special so im glad were not best friends now. And i know haw u feel like no one could ever like u and your fat hang in there im fat 2 ang i hace no seldf comtrole what so ever so u couldent be very worse trhat me.
(hugs) you'll make it
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Date: 3/24/2004 9:47:00 AM
From Authorid: 30786
You need to think more positively. Things could be a lot worse! You get what you project. If you are telling yourself and putting it out there that you are fat and ugly and can't get a boyfriend, do you think that guys are going to want to ask you out? Um, no. Beating yourself up is not attractive. Confidence is. Build up your self esteem, love yourself first, and then when you are meant to meet your guy, you will. With your friend situation, hang out with some other people for a while. If you hang out with her all the time when she is driving you crazy, you might end up hating her for real  |
Date: 3/24/2004 6:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 61472
OMG i was just going to write a post about the same thing becuz i'm feeling the same way right now =/ All i can say is talk to your friend and try to work it out and you are NOT fat and you are probably beautiful. YOu just have to show it from the inside out.  |
Date: 3/24/2004 6:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 5252
okay sweetie, first off, you have to be happy with yourself, that includes appearance before ANYONE will be happy with you. change your attitude, i am sure that you are not fat or ugly. boost your self confidence. i can understand with your friend situation, mine was like this, and the friendship ended. i hope that somehow you can work your differences out, if the relationship is meant to last..it WILL! keep your chin up hun, i have been there, and done it...find something that makes you happy, or someone. i can tell you one thing though, putting yourself down in front of a guy is the number one thing not to do. if a girl doesnt think she looks good, then a guy wont either, and guys dont want girls with poor attitudes!  |
Date: 4/2/2004 6:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 50678
I felt the same way, I though I would never find true love and I did, never give up on love, it is comeing, don't push it. Sit back and relax!  |
