Date: 4/4/2004 10:28:00 PM
From Authorid: 53909
That's awful! I've been cheated on with my past bf's and it hurts. I think that you should try to convince him to break up with her. A year and 6 months is a long time but there's no point on keeping the relationship if she keeps cheating on him and that there's no love between the both of them.  |
Date: 4/4/2004 10:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 14175
Well if he knows she's cheating and he chooses to stay with her then it's up to him and any pain or sorrow he goes through is the result of his own choosing. It is sad though  |
Date: 4/4/2004 10:48:00 PM
From Authorid: 36956
I agree with Matt, I was gonna say the same thing! If you are with a person and know that they are doing what they are doing that hurts you so bad yet decide to stay, it is really your own fault. She point blank tells him what she is doing and he is still with her. He lets her do these things by staying with her. I have been in the cheating situation many of times, yet I sure as heck wouldnt allow someone to come to me and tell me what he has done and stil be with him. I wish him the best of luck! *HUGS*  |
Date: 4/4/2004 10:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 12581
A few years ago I learned a very important lesson, in life, there are bad people that are going to hurt you..once you see the person for who they are & come to expect their negative behavior, then if they continue to hurt you, eventually you have to accept that your partially to blame for letting this person hurt you. This is what I would tell my friend. I walked away from the majority of my family, because they were negative & I didn't have the backbone to withstand their cruelty. I may be lonely, but I'm alot happier for not enduring their negativity. Thanks for sharing & Take Care!  |
Date: 4/5/2004 12:04:00 AM
From Authorid: 20956
while i feel sorry for the poor guy, if he knows she is cheating on him and lying to him and still takes her back, then there isnt alot you can do. this guy has gotta open his eyes and realise he deserves better!  |
Date: 4/5/2004 6:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 1432
Guess love is blind :(..  |
Date: 4/5/2004 12:19:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 49091
Thanx for the replies guys. Now that I've gotten some replies I want to add that the guy and I are in love, but he refuses to leave her. He says he wants to be with me so bad, but he can't because of her. Like she is getting in the way. Like there is something stopping him from breaking up with her. He has said multiple times that as soon as they break up that we'd be together, but she always comes crawling back saying she misses him and she says the break up never happened. That they were "just fighting". I was with a guy for 2 years and he cheated on me 15 times. So yeah, its hard to let go of someone you THINK you love. And yeah, I am so jealous of her!! The fact that she has him as her bf just makes me so jealous!! She treats him so bad and he tells me this and it really hurts me to see him so sad and upset over this girl that continues to hurt him. I just dont know what to do anymore.  |
