Hey everyone, I made a post yesterday about how this girl is treating my "friend" really really bad. http://www.unsolvedmysteries.com/usm377777.html and I just need help now.
THE CALM FORM OF LAST NIGHT'S POST: My "friend" has this GF that treats him AWFUL!!! I am talking the worst you can treat your bf, Cheats on him, then goes and tells him, picks fights with him on purpose, uses him for "love", is only nice when she wants to be, ignores him on purpose, spends the night with other guys when they are still together, messes with a LOT of other guys, breaks up with him over simple things (like having shout outs to his friends in his profile) treats him really really bad, tells him that he's being inconsiderate and all that STUFF she feeds to him. Lies to him when he asks if she's been creepin with other guys. Makes up excuses on why she couldnt talk to him-even though he knows that she was out with another guy. But for some unbelieveable reason he wont break up with her. I've asked him many times why he's still with her and he said I dont know. Last time they broke up, they both made a decision that they were not happy together and she said she did not love him anymore. But 5 min later, she says "ohh _____ I miss you so much! I love you baby." Now, I am lost here. She using him for something that she can't find with another guy? What's going on here? After getting some replies, I thought I'd add:
"The guy and I are in love, but he refuses to leave her. He says he wants to be with me so bad, but he can't because of her. Like she is getting in the way. Like there is something stopping him from breaking up with her. He has said multiple times that as soon as they break up, we'd be together, but she always comes crawling back saying she misses him and she says the break up never happened. That they were "just fighting". I was with a guy for 2 years and he cheated on me 15 times. So yeah, its hard to let go of someone you THINK you love. And yeah, I am so jealous of her!! The fact that she has him as her bf just makes me so jealous!! She treats him so bad and he tells me this and it really hurts me to see him so sad and upset over this girl that continues to hurt him. I just dont know what to do anymore."
Now that I have that cleared up, yes I can understand that he has to take the charge and say I know what shes doing to me, why do I let her? But you gotta know him to know that he is WAY to kind hearted to break anyone's heart. He gets so mad at himself when he says brb in 5 min and comes back 10 min later. He has absolutly no intention on hurting ANYONE. And I'm starting to think that this is why he won't break up with her. He afraid to break her heart or hurt her? But she doensn't now how bad she's hurting him. He comes to me when they are fighting. Cause he knows that I'll listen and help as much as I can. Him and I dont fight just for this reason. When we do fight, it's over that night and we are ALWAYS saying sorry. I mean we fight once in a blue moon. As for him and his gf, they are ALWAYS fighting. He said that he is just a waste of her extra time. But guys, why would you stay with a girl who treated you so bad? I woulda kicked the guy to the curb as soon as I found out he was cheating!! ESPECIALLY since I already went through that STUFF twice!! I just dont understand...
What is your guys best opinion on all of this?
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**UPDATED** I am talking to him right now and he said awww mannn :--/ and I said what? and he was like _______ is on :--/ Like he didnt care about her. Weird...dont u think?
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