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I don't want to mess up again....please help...

  Author: 50490  Category:(General Advice) Created:(5/16/2004 11:07:00 AM)
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Well things with me and my guy are really good. I almost messed things up by pushing things, pressuring him for something more stable. I wasn't ready then either, so it was an almost fatal error on my part. We kinda just didn't talk about things and they got better (but not solved).

Fast forward to the present, he's confusing me. He has dropped hints about moving in with me and now he says he would like something more solid. He's talking about how eventually one day he wants to get married,etc. He's dropping hints about so many things. I don't know how to respond. I am afraid that if I say ok,me too and find out that I totally misunderstood those "hints" I would be so embarrassed and things would be strained again. I am afraid that I could be misreading, but I really don't think that I am. He has never came out and asked me, just keeps making comments. Also, I think if I keep brushing those remarks off and never answer to them, he might think I have lost interest or something. I just don't know what the right answer to this is.

He's shy so sharing feelings are hard for him. Do you think this could be his way of saying "I'm ready to move forward".

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Date: 5/16/2004 11:10:00 AM  From Authorid: 43186    Gosh it is wayy to hard to second guess some one you don't even know. Only you know him well enough and have to make your own judgments, but I understand, I go thru this all the time too. Hugs.  
Date: 5/16/2004 11:25:00 AM  From Authorid: 57232    Same here, I don't know you both so I can't say, hope it gets easy I wish there was relatioinship decoder rings  
Date: 5/16/2004 12:15:00 PM  From Authorid: 49101    Ugh, MEN, you can't live with'em and ya' can't shoot'em! I say, just go with the flow, lets things follow whatever course they are going to lead you on. Take it easy, don't push (I have made the same mistakes many times) and when you both know it is time, and you are both ready, it will come naturally to want to live together.  
Date: 5/16/2004 4:04:00 PM  From Authorid: 52489    Sounds like you're having trouble reading him, or understanding his emotions. Since it's hard for him to emote, then you have to talk heart-to-heart. Brew up a pot of tea in the kitchen, and then ask him to sit down opposite you. Move into it slowly, and then say something like, "It seems like you've been hinting about wanting to get serious, but I'm not sure what you mean. Can you please explain?" Assure him you won't judge him, and that your relationship is important; so important that you want to be sure before doing something which could affect you both. Men appreciate directness, so his response should be okay. Good luck!  

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