The scary L-word....   Author: 50490  Category:(General Advice) Created:(5/16/2004 7:16:00 PM) This post has been Viewed (655 times) Hi you all.... I was hoping to get some advice on this matter of mine.I am in love with a very wonderful man. We have been seeing eachother for about 7 months...but we have known eachother since teen years prior. He and both have come from some rocky relationships. so getting hurt again is something that we both aren't eager to do again. So we have always taken things slow, just having fun with eachother, just enjoying it all. I'm not entirely sure but I think he has been hinting around to me about wanting something more solid, although he has never come out and asked me. I have known about my feelings being deeper for a few weeks now, but I am afraid to tell him. I have been in a similar situation before where I misread signals, I told the guy how i felt and let's just say it didn't end up quite like I thought it would. I just don't want to make the same mistake. I really want to tell him that I do love him, but once it's out there, there's no taking it back. Guys, I really think that he does have love for me too, but going down that road is scary, for the both of us for sure. I've never met anyone like him, we have wonderful talks, we have fun, and the chemistry is there the"physical" dept. I love him for who he is, I don't want him to be anything else. I feel if he and I ended up together poor as little church mice, it wouldn't matter, I'd be happy anyway. I want to tell him so much, but I am scared. I know there is love there, but what if it's not to the same degree as mine...things will only get awkward from that point on....not good at all. I just want to take caution with this because I do care for him so much. I don't know if his "hints" are just conversation, or if he's trying to tell me in his own way he wants more from this relationship too.... We are both shy when it comes to emotions, and the last thing I want to do is freak him out, if I happen to be wrong some how. What do you guys think? You can join Unsolved Mysteries and post your own mysteries or interesting stories for the world to read and respond to Click here Scroll all the way down to read replies. Show all stories by   Author: 50490 ( Click here ) Spring is coming