Date: 5/17/2004 8:19:00 AM
From Authorid: 18527
nuns do it  |
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Date: 5/17/2004 8:20:00 AM
From Authorid: 18527
the question is, however, why do you fear intimacy? Why don't you want to have a relationship? |
Date: 5/17/2004 8:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 15228
I just read an article I think on the Drudge report, about a German couple who went to a fertility clinic after 8 years of marriage..they were rather surprised when told they had to actually have sex in order to conceive a baby..so it is possible not to have sex..even when married!  |
Date: 5/17/2004 8:27:00 AM
From Authorid: 10915
Personally, I feel that there has to be a strong motive for why you choose to abstain from sex. For me it is faith in God and respect for his commandment. Otherwise, I doubt very serious if I could hold to such a commitment.  |
Date: 5/17/2004 8:27:00 AM
From Authorid: 50864
I have done it since I divorced my husband well even before the divorce.... I have never meet anyone and its been 25 years  |
Date: 5/17/2004 8:34:00 AM
From Authorid: 58611
It is possible, if done for the right reasons and not out of some kind of fear.  |
Date: 5/17/2004 10:12:00 AM
From Authorid: 53558
Well, I think nuns do.  |
Date: 5/17/2004 10:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 51635
Kethria posses a good question... but if thats really what you want or feel you need to do then why not? ...  |
Date: 5/17/2004 10:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 13119
Of course it is possible and it has nothing to do with a fear of intimacy. You can share your whole heart and being with another person but you don't have to have sex to do that. I am not sure why everyone is equating sex with intimacy, if you read in a thesaurus other words meaning the same thing are : closeness, familiarity, understanding and relationship. No where does it say you have to drop your drawers.  |
Date: 5/17/2004 12:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 55967
Absolutely it can be done, and you don't have to feel any loss over it, either.  |
Date: 5/17/2004 12:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 35720
Good for you. :)  |
Date: 5/17/2004 12:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 58334
If it's something you believe in, then why not? :)  |
Date: 5/17/2004 1:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
completely possible... but it's a very hard thing to do! things in your life change as you get older... but i ask why would a person want to do that?? do they not want to be loved?  |
Date: 5/17/2004 3:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 62367
I've managed it for 46 years so far.  |
Date: 5/17/2004 7:02:00 PM
From Authorid: 38119
I think it is possible. I'll be 25 in August and haven't had sex. I figure I have enough stress in my life without having to worry about my sex life.  |
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