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Date: 7/30/2004 6:59:00 PM
From Authorid: 33925
If it were ME his bags would be packed and on the doorstep waiting for him when he came back from one of his outings with his buddies..  |
Date: 7/30/2004 7:07:00 PM
From Authorid: 53909
I think that your friend should have a long and serious talk with the boyfriend and find out if there is still something between them. 4 years is a long time. That isn't fair that he goes out with his buddies on her only day off. I think that if he did really want to be with her, he would make the time for her and not hang out with his friends on her day off, knowing what little free time that she has. They need to work something out. I hope that everything turns out alright.  |
Date: 7/30/2004 7:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 53157
I agree with punk star chik.  |
Date: 7/30/2004 8:32:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
i went through this with my husband years back. and, as LL said, one day he came home and all his things were packed and on the front lawn. he stayed at his mothers that night and the next day, we sat down and had a LONG talk! I told him his priorities were all messed up and he needed to decide then and there if he wanted me and our family or the freedom to go with his friends whenever he wanted. don't get me wrong, i didnt mind him going out with his friends...but we needed us time too. without the us time, there was no us. i also suspected him of cheating and came right out and asked him when he least expected it. i figured that way, i could judge from his reaction. she needs to let him know that if he cant find time for her, then he really should let her go and find someone who will have the time. and if there is anything going on with the other woman, she deserves to know! i really wish her the best.  |
Date: 7/30/2004 11:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 22308
yes, i do believe if he really wanted to see her, he'd make sure he made the effort to. also when you're talking about how if he cheated on her he would have done it already. well for one, you don't know for sure if he's done it. he may not look like a cheater but the people that you least expect are. i was cheated on in a relationship the entire time i was with the guy and he DID NOT look like a cheater and told me he would never do that. if he tends to gravitate towards a certain girl, i'd keep my eye out on it and i was definitly ask why he's been doing that. guys think they are really sly but if we pay attention closely, we'll figure it out sooner or later. i hope everything goes ok for her! good luck!  |
Date: 7/31/2004 1:36:00 AM
From Authorid: 11348
It sounds like she's getting too much information from other people, and paying too much attention to the gossip. People talk to their friends about their problems, which might explain what he said to his friend about her. It might not mean anything. As far as him not being home when she is.... maybe he feels a little left out being second to her job. If she works that much, she's not exactly leaving a whole lot of time for him either. I know people have to work, but it still could leave him feeling secretly lonely sometimes. Him going out during this time might be his subtle way of hinting that she should squeeze a little more time into her day for him. Also, him gravitating towards one girl could only mean they are friends. I think sometimes people are a little too quick to jump to the worst conclusion possible. What your friend should really do, is tell her boyfriend next time she sees him that they need to talk. She needs to hear his reasoning behind all of this before assuming the worst because that can just cause a lot of unnecessary stress. I am in no way saying she shouldn't check this situation out... but she should try her hardest to come at it from a neutral angle.  |
Date: 8/5/2006 1:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 63302
i think she needs to move on...i seems to be over  |
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