Date: 7/30/2004 11:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 53909
Aw I'm sorry that you're feeling this way. I'm sure that you're going through a real tough time right now. I'm not that good with giving out advice, but I think that you should have a long talk with your boyfriend and see if there's still anything between the both of you. You won't know the truth until you ask him. If things aren't working out, maybe it's best that you both go your seperate ways and maybe he's the reason why you're feeling this way. I hope that things turn out alright.  |
Date: 7/30/2004 11:31:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 18008
I've been talking to him about it since I got home and he says I should know that he loves me and that I'm driving him crazy worrying all the time. I don't know what's going on with me.. I just want to be the happy girl I once knew. It seems like every little thing bad that happens between us makes me feel very unspecial and hopeless.  |
Date: 7/30/2004 11:33:00 PM
From Authorid: 22308
this is what i believe, if you think something is wrong, there probably is, always trust your instincts cause 90% of the time, they are right. i probably made you feel a 100 times worse but in most cases, your instincts are right. but who knows, they may not be! good luck!!  |
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Date: 7/30/2004 11:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 53909
Whenever I get a bad feeling in me about my fiance, I always think something is wrong..but then again, it's usually my mind going crazy like always because I can be so parinoid all the time. And most of the time I am wrong. |
Date: 7/31/2004 1:26:00 AM
From Authorid: 62833
Sweetie dont take me the wrong way by any means, but it sounds to me like you may worry accesively, it is natural of course as I am the same way myself. I do think he loves you as he says he does as the enrgies that surround you two are of a magnificent love. Try not to worry so much he feels smothered by that worry at times and you will feel much better if perhaps you could just relax. Hope everything works out for you very soon.  |
Date: 7/31/2004 3:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
Don't let your worries fester inside of you. Make a list of all the things you want to talk to your boyfriend about, and include examples as to why you feel that way, such as him not being excited to see you after you came home. Then sit him down when you've both got a good chunk of time, and tell him how worried you are in a nonconfrontational manner. If you have problems expressing yourself verbally, write him a letter instead and ask him what he thinks of it. Good luck, and hugs to you  |
Date: 7/31/2004 10:12:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 18008
Thanks to everyone.. today I have found that the problem is within my body and mind. I have physical pain and I had been on anti-depressant medicine for months until I decided I could not be tranquilized and half asleep anymore. My doctor put me on seizure medicine which gave me horrible headaches.. and now I take nothing. I think my body is messed up and I am over reacting about many things.. I want any advice on how to be naturally happy with myself and also advice on creating some romance in my relationship.
Thank you for any advice. |
