Date: 8/6/2004 8:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 37101
...because he's human and there's always potential that he could cheat on you. But I wouldn't say it's all that good that you can't bring yourself to full trust you boyfriend. But what do I know? My tag says Smooth Criminal, not Dr. Phil. -  |
Date: 8/6/2004 9:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 11097
Trust is a difficult thing to deal with because people can so easily betray it, but you must remember that you have to have faith in the people you care for and give them that chance. If you are feeling this way tell him, don't let it bother you and cause tension in your relationship. If he truly cares for you he will never cross that line. Let him know how you feel and see where it goes from there, good luck :)  |
Date: 8/6/2004 9:13:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 59241
How do I tell him without him getting mad cuz he might think that I'm saying that he will cheat on me  |
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Date: 8/6/2004 9:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 11097
Tell him that you wanted to talk to him about something important and explain to him how you feel and that you are not accusing him. I am sure he will listen and be more than happy to let you know he is faithful and you have nothing to worry about... :) |
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Date: 8/6/2004 9:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 37101
Truthfully, I wouldn't expect him to take it lightly if I were you. It's a hurtful thing to hear from someone you love. - |
Date: 8/6/2004 11:09:00 PM
From Authorid: 62503
its partially your insecurities and partially because it just seems like human nature to cheat now-a-days. Is there anything in your relationship to why you think he wouldnt be satified. It sounds to me like You 2 may want to work on having a completely trusting relationship. Having this constant worry isnt going to be goodfor your relationship. Sometimes people make mistakes even if they do love the person they are with, but i wouldnt worry about it too much worrying doesnt do anything but give you wrinkles!  |
Date: 8/7/2004 2:02:00 AM
From Authorid: 42945
unless he has given you reason in the past for you to feel this way, I would say you are the one with insecurities hunny...have a little trust in him...anyway, why is he out somewhere without you???hugs  |
Date: 8/7/2004 11:53:00 AM
From Authorid: 38406
I think that your afraid that he is going to cheat on you and you love him so much you don't want to get hurt. Has anyone ever told you that he cheated on someone else? The next time he goes out keep telling yourself that he loves you. Try not to worry so much. Keep yourself busy when he is out. It will keep your mind off of him.  |
Date: 8/8/2004 8:45:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
Have you been cheated on in the past or dumped for another girl? That could be the problem. I think that unless he has given you a reason not to trust him, then it is your own insecurities that are making you feel this way. Keep in mind that if he didn't want to be with you and didn't care about you, he wouldn't be with you right now. There is nothing you can do to stop a cheater besides dumping him. Hate to say it, and it will probably not come up with you guys, but if he ever did cheat, there's nothing you can do about it anyways so stop worrying about it! Easier said than done, I know. Confidence is the sexiest thing a girl's got. And quite honestly, if he's been faithful and honest with you up so far, I wouldn't even bring this up to him. He has the right to go out with his buddies and have nights out without you, and so do you. Next time, grab some girlfriends and distract yourself from your worries. Try to build up your self esteem and self confidence in the meantime, it will help you out :)  |
