i think i actually love him yet i cant tell him.. I TOLD HIM GUYS!! [updated] Honey   Author:  61472  Category:(General Advice) Created:(8/6/2004 10:45:00 PM) This post has been Viewed (1018 times) I have this friend who we'll call Mike. Well mike and i are pretty close [in my opinion anyway]. We talk on the phone in the morning and wake each other up with our phone calls so we don't oversleep and then we talk for hours late at night and such and we share secrets and all that. [he tells me stuff his closesnt guy friends that he's known waaay longer than me dont even know about] Mike is a little over a year younger than me but he's a really nice guy. And soon i realized that i think i like the guy. A couple weeks later and i found that i think i actually love him too! i can't stop thinking about him..i'd wish we were together and all that..but i can't tell him. why? first i'm scared i might ruin the friendship if i tell him and second, one time he and i were telling us who we liked and like at the moment and he told me that he might actually love this girl named Joana...and she's his age too so go figure for that. I admit..before i thought he actually liked ME but got sorta sad after he said another girl. well i sorta made him say it cuz he sed he didnt like anyone and he asked me who i liked and i said it wasnt fair cuz i wasnt getting any benefit from it [jokingly] so after like 15x of asking he said he likes this girl Joanna just a little bit. Then three days later he says he might actually love her! so yah..i dont kno what to do..as a good friend i should just help him get that girl but i mean i cant help but still like him a lot! what should i do guys? My friends told me not to tell him cuz it might ruin the friendship and it might get wierd so yea..but he and his friends are really big on telling secrets to each other directly and such so i duno..got any advice guys? [Update] Alright so we were talking on the fone yesterday and he kept on asking me who i liked and i admit...i'm a bad liar so everytime he asked me who i liked i went like "i cant tell you..because my friends advised me not to!" and he said why and i said that 'because they said it might make it wierd for our friendship and i duno i kno he doesn't like me" and he said "why would he not like you?" and i said "cuz i have a gut feeling that's why and plus he likes another girl" so like after half an hour he was STILL asking who i liked and so finally i let him guess on who i liked and he guessed a couple of people and then he said 'wait a minute..i like a girl..and i just told u..and we're close friends..is it me?' and like i sorta dodged the answer and like afterwards towards the end of the phone call he asked me for real who i liked and finally i coudlnt hold it in any long so i told him that he was right all along..and he didnt get wat i was saying so i said 'think about it' and i told him i was going [i kno..such a wimp right? lol] alright well i went back online and wen he came back from away i asked him 'werent u going to sleep?' and he said "i was..until you told me that. you wanna kno something?" and i said "sure alright" and he said "i was kinda hoping you would say me cuz i kinda like u..hehe" and i was like =O OMG! and was screaming and he promised that he wasnt lying and i told him that he made me really happy today and yah. but now here's the problem..i dont kno what to do now! and like it's goin to be all wierd the next time we talk on the fone cuz i dunno whether to talk about it or like pretend it never happened..what should i do?! You can join Unsolved Mysteries and post your own mysteries or interesting stories for the world to read and respond to Click here Scroll all the way down to read replies. Show all stories by   Author:  61472 ( Click here ) Spring is coming