Date: 8/8/2004 10:13:00 AM
From Authorid: 3263
Sounds like he wants to have his cake and eat it too. I've found that in situations like this, it's sorta hard to go from lovers to friends, but given time it can work. I personally would rather have them as a friend than not at all...  |
Date: 8/8/2004 11:37:00 AM
From Authorid: 30747
Maybe love shouldn't be such a priority now. I don't understand why having some guy love you at the age of 17 is so important. You don't need any guy right now. Certainly not one like that. Why not take this time and find out who YOU are before you go trying to figure out anyone else. If you want to protect yourself from this kind of pain in the future then stay away from the jerks and be happy with yourself. THEN the RIGHT guy will find YOU. Don't even give the liers and cheaters a second chance. Have more self respect than that and the heck with the losers. Remember, you are better than any stupid mind game anybody else wants to play.  |
Date: 8/8/2004 2:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 31765
I agree with SoulDrifter.  |
Date: 8/8/2004 3:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 62752
well said SD!! KK  |
Date: 8/8/2004 3:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
It sounds to me like he wanted to have both of you...but got caught. honestly, he isn't worth your time anyway! I do agree with soul drifter, you are still young and you don't need to have a man in your life. it's when you stop looking that "Mr. right" will find you.  |
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Date: 8/8/2004 3:40:00 PM
From Authorid: 8278
also, there is no need to feel stupid. HE should be the one feeling stupid. we have all been there. I got married young and one day (when I was home alone with our baby) my husbands friends came to the door looking for him. when i said he wasnt home, they gave me the name of a girl and her phone number and said "try calling her". i called there and they tried to play me as a fool. she said "he's not here" and i called her on it and said "his friends TOLD me he is there!! his son is sick and I want you to put him on NOW or i WILL come over and get him!" needless to say, he got on the phone. but I felt like an idiot. I thought he was making me look stupid in front of everyone. I was worried that everyone thought "oh, poor little Kerry doesn't have a clue" but then I realized that they thought less of HIM! there is NO reason for you to feel stupid. just realize that HE is the one people are thinking of in a bad way and don't even give him the time of day! |
Date: 8/8/2004 6:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 37101
SD is right. And, he was your ex-boyfriend at the time. There was a reason he was your EX-boyfriend and not your current boyfriend. Did you forget? -  |
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