O.k. I've wrote before, about my husband's bad habit of smoking. I've begged him to stop and he would tell me that he was going to, but then he would go behind my back to do it anyway. It has been one of our main fights. The problem is that he does not smoke cigerattes. Well his older brother also smokes it, and they are always doing it in front of our children, and the brother's children. I've warned both of them about everything. But they think they know everything. Well the brother's daughter was in school, and the DARE officer was there talking about drugs. He told the class that if they knew of anyone doing drugs and wanted to tell, just to write it down on a letter, and the child would not get into any trouble, by that person. So she took one of those papers and wrote about her dad and her uncle. I am personally proud of the girl, for standing up and saying that she is tired of it, becouse her dad can get really mean, when he is without his smoke, and she is tired of all the bull. But now my husband is riding me to make sure my house is spotless, becouse the welfare is coming out next door, to his mom's house, where his brother and family live. So he thinks they are going to make a small trip over to our place, next door, since it is where they are always doing there smoking at. Without my permission. Though whenever I would speak up about it, we would all get into a big fight and then I would be told to shut up, that my husbnad pays all the bills, and he can do what he pleases in his house. Now he wants me to work my butt off, to get the trailer in order, incase the welfare shows up, keep going to my job, going to school, and everything else that is required of me. He tells me this morning, that he is quiting smoking for three months, but if I can not keep my end up, of doing everything that he expects of me, then he is just going to go back to it. So I told him, that it was rediculous that he was just quiting untill the welfare was off his back, then going right back to it, it had nothing to do with what he wants me to do. So now I told him, that if he cannot promise to stay off it forever then I'll pay for a divorce in a couple weeks, when I get my check. So he tells me to pay for it, and go live with my family, though then there is the custody battle over my children. So now everything is coming down and I do not know how to handle what is about to come down. Will you please read this is see what, you see happening, and tell me how you believe I should handle this. I am beginning to get very stressed from the whole situation, and I do not want to have a breakdown. Thank you in advance for reading this long story and for helping me, with my problem.
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