Date: 9/29/2004 6:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 7952
You are way too young to be having sex. I hope your mother had a real good talk to you about being responsible because you are obviously not. I hope for the babies sake that you are not pregnant.  |
Date: 9/29/2004 6:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 37101
So much for the 'no lectures, please' bit. I know a girl who went through a very similar situation, where the condom broke immediately afterwards. She took a 72 hour pill and just so happened to run late that month, so she was very scared. Tests nowadays are more accurate then they once were. You're probably just running late which normally wouldn't bother you but, given the circumstances... If you feel the need to, get ahold of some birth control or something. You'll save yourself the scare, if anything. -  |
Date: 9/29/2004 6:05:00 PM
From Authorid: 28190
Yes, that is true Misty. I do have to agree with Dolphin Witch here too. About store bought pregnancy tests, The reason they arent 100% accurate is because they sometimes give false negatives. I havent heard anything about getting a false positive with them. I would suggest that if you dont have your menstration in the next few days to schedule an appointment with your gynocologist. Their urine test is 10x better, and their blood test is 100%... Either way with the dr. they can also tell you what may be going on with your menstration cycle, if you indeed arent pregnant. *hugs*  |
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Date: 9/29/2004 6:06:00 PM
From Authorid: 7952
When i wrote my reply, that last sentence "no lectures" wasn't there so deal with it. |
Date: 9/29/2004 6:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 62476
you can't really get advice without a lecture..as for the advice ^^^ all them's advice is probably good:)  |
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Date: 9/29/2004 6:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 37101
Boy, and I thought I was snappy... *cough* Anyway, hope things work out for you Misty. - |
Date: 9/29/2004 6:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 53052
i've heard of many false negitives and false positives... give it a bit of time, yes you can get pregnant from intercorse even if he doesnt "finish" id explain more in depth BUT this site isnt the right place to do such... i've met many parents who are parents even though the man didnt "finish" so it is common wait awhile you might just be late because of stress, you might actually be pregnant..  |
Date: 9/29/2004 6:09:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57579
I realize I wasnt responsible and let people down. Yes my mother had a talk with me infact my mom and my b/f's mom had a talk with both of us together.  |
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Date: 9/29/2004 6:10:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 57579
Actually the no lectures part was there the whole time. I havent had to update this post at all... |
Date: 9/29/2004 6:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 61977
Yes you can get pregnant even if your male partner pulls out its called pre ??? You can also take a pregnancy test and it come out negative, and you still be pregnant yes. I know because its happened to me during all of my pregnancies. I would wait another week and then take another test. I wish you all the luck no matter what the outcome is. (((((HUGS)))))  |
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Date: 9/29/2004 6:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 28190
About the lecture part, its very hard to give any advice without having something being said that could be taken as a lecture. Im glad your mother and his mother talked with you guys about it, though, you are going to get it from those who love you, a LOT. It's a part of life. I even got a small lecture from my mother when she found out I was pregnant and I am 21 soon to be 22.. If you feel responsible enough to have intercourse unprotected, you should also be ready to deal with any consequences that come from the action. If you aren't pregnant, then at least this was a huge and valueable learning experience for you And your boyfriend. I wish you luck with this, Misty. I truly do. *hugs* |
Date: 9/29/2004 6:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 28363
Jiminy Christmas, *coughs- then falls over post* I do believe I have heard it all now. Bless your heart hon I'm not gonna lecture. Ciao  |
Date: 9/29/2004 6:38:00 PM
From Authorid: 52489
Yes, you can get pregnant on the first time. The withdrawal method is notoriously unreliable! Sorry, I don't know about the tests. I'm afraid you'll just have to wait and see.  |
Date: 9/29/2004 6:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 33573
Well I don't know much about these types of situations but I do wish you luck!  |
Date: 9/29/2004 6:56:00 PM
From Authorid: 60685
I agree with others in that you should see a doctor and take a blood test, I'm sorry to say this but I read your previous post and you seemed to have all the symptoms.  |
Date: 9/29/2004 7:53:00 PM
From Authorid: 49091
If he does pull out before anything happens, you can get preg from that. My friend took 5 tests, all neg. She went to te doc n he said she was 2 months preg. I wouldnt trust those tests. Go to the doc.  |
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Date: 9/29/2004 7:54:00 PM
From Authorid: 49091
I dont wanan lecture here, but sweetie, please do use protection. Its one of the ways to go for safe sex. |
Date: 9/29/2004 8:10:00 PM
From Authorid: 12103
Yes you still could be and you should make a dr appt. Cant hurt  |
Date: 9/29/2004 8:23:00 PM
From Authorid: 58078
Yes you can still get prego from pulling out and yes the test could be wrong. It could also be stress why you haven't gotten your "friend" yet. I skipped a month a few months ago as well...went to the doc and all was well. Keep me posted hun.. *HUGS*  |
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Date: 9/29/2004 8:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 58078
Its called pre seman. |
Date: 9/29/2004 8:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 47218
you're gonna have to seek doctor now, anyway, since you've had relations (incomplete though they were). One of the many joys of doing adult things.  |
Date: 9/29/2004 9:14:00 PM
From Authorid: 22308
yes you can still get pregnant before that. if it said negative you should be ok. you probably are just stressing and sometimes sex can set your period back a little  |
Date: 9/30/2004 3:53:00 AM
From Authorid: 62146
yes it is possible. I would not panic about your mouthly visitor showing up though because it dose not always mean your poregnant but I think you should go to the doctorsto get tested there. good luck on what ever happens misty spirit.  |
Date: 9/30/2004 8:22:00 AM
From Authorid: 58611
Wait till you are actually late by a few days to take another test.  |
Date: 9/30/2004 9:33:00 AM
From Authorid: 4144
i'll just msg ya!  |
Date: 9/30/2004 9:39:00 AM
From Authorid: 62901
I'm not the one to tell you that you're too young to be having sex, because the first time I did I was your age, but we always used protection because I didn't want to take the chance. You should've learned in sex ed in school, that "pulling out" before hand, is NOT a method of safe sex. You need to make a dr. appt. right away, even if you're not, if you are having intercourse you need to anyway.  |
Date: 9/30/2004 10:28:00 AM
From Authorid: 16845
Everyones already pretty much covered it. I just wanted to wish you good luck..  |
Date: 10/1/2004 7:43:00 PM
From Authorid: 30786
Yes, you can get pregnant even if a guy doesn't "finish" I personally know girls that this has happened to. I know you don't want any more lectures, but when you behave that way, having unprotected sex when everyone in this world knows the consequences, you are asking for it. Yes, you may still be pregnant, because pregnancy tests often cannot show a positive result until you are at least 2 weeks late on your period, earlier if you get a blood test from your doctor. Be careful next time, and I hope that this is your last scare!  |
