Relationship Blues

I haven't written anything on this site for a while, and I've been trying to avoid posting things asking for relationship advice, but even if I can't get any advice, I really need to get some things out!

I haven't really been dating this guy because he isn't allowed to date. We started "seeing" eachother about a year and four months ago. I don't get to see him very often and can't really rely on anything in our relationship because of that. Over the summer he told me that he honestly really liked me. I told him that I didn't want to have to ask him everytime I saw him if he still liked me. He told me that I didn't have to.

Things were going great! I went to a few of his football games, and he said that he still liked me.

Then, of course, something just HAD to go wrong. I saw his sister and she was glaring at me and being mean. I asked her why she didn't like me. She said that she DID like me. Then I asked her if she knew that I liked her brother. She told me "Yeah, it's like obvious." Still not getting the answer I wanted, I asked her if it bothered her that I liked him. "NO! It's not like your the only one!" and she preceded to list off names of about 10 girls. THEN, I, having to put my foot in my mouth, asked her if he liked any of them. She says MAYBE and sweetly smiles, and walks out the door.

Even if she was just trying to make me upset, which is a possibility, I realized that I have been so naive! He is really handsome, a football player...I mean, what girls WOULDn't LIKE HIM? I never really thought of it before! And since I don't see him, what would stop him from liking other girls?

I know that he said he liked me, but I really really really like him! What if he doesn't feel as strongly about me as I him?

The simple solution would be to talk to him, but I can't. In fact, I might not even see him for a few months. Do you have any advice for me?

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