Looking for - Virginia Denbo   Author: 229  Category:(Lost) Created:(9/13/1999 7:16:00 PM) This post has been Viewed (1390 times) We were servers together at Sambo's in Oxnard in the late 1970's. She was the 3rd real friend I made in my adulthood. When my ex-husband was knocking me down mentally and emotionally to keep me totally dependant on him she kept picking me back up. He'd convince me I was bad in a negative way and that no one in my family thought much of me, he wanted me to believe that he was the only one I could rely on and that he was the only one who really loved me. I'd wake up everyday thinking only of doom and that I was going to die. I didn't realize the affects my ex-husband was causing me until she came into my life. She would convince me that there was nothing wrong with me and that he was the one that needed help. I was a mess from this marriage but she helped me build up my self confidence again. I became a new person thanks to her. I miss her dearly. She was one of a kind. Last time I saw her she lived in San Diego, CA. I saw her last in 1984. UPDATE: I left this man in 1984. I am re-married and happily content within myself and with eveyone around me. But I would love to find Virginia so we can re-kindle our friendship. Why we are looking for them: She was very important in my life at a time someone was trying to tear me down and take away my identity. I need her in my life now that I have found myself so that we can enjoy eachother on an equal level. At that time I was a mess. You can join Unsolved Mysteries and post your own mysteries or interesting stories for the world to read and respond to Click here Scroll all the way down to read replies. Show all stories by   Author: 229 ( Click here ) Spring is coming