Date: 10/14/2008 10:20:00 PM
From Authorid: 7830
sheesh, it sounds awful! I defenitly wouldnt let my kids over there.  |
Date: 10/14/2008 11:52:00 PM
From Authorid: 52746
That mother sounds very immature!  |
Date: 10/15/2008 12:18:00 AM
From Authorid: 63961
You should have called the authorities. Underage drinking is illegal (obviously) and I don't know what state you live in, but here it's illegal for parents (or other kids parents) to give minors alcohols. I would still try and call the cops.  |
Date: 10/15/2008 1:40:00 AM
From Authorid: 10657
Yeah, I agree the mother sounds like she is trying to be more of a best friend than she is a mother. She needs to grow up and realize that we are what shape's our children's future. Sorry, for your son's embarrassment and your daughter's loss of a friend due to a mother's immaturity.  |
Date: 10/15/2008 1:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 10657
Actually, Takamba it depends on what state you do live in. In the state of Texas and a few others underage drinking is permitted as long as it is done in front of the parents/guardians or husband if, you are married. There are a few states that are like that. Furthermore, it is actually just hearsay through a third party and that's kinda hard to prove unless, there were going to be more than one person that said yeah it happened.  |
Date: 10/15/2008 2:27:00 AM
From Authorid: 64566
AngelBelle , keep up the good work. :)  |
Date: 10/15/2008 4:52:00 AM
From Authorid: 62579
Her daughter is not allowed to kiss a boy but she is allowed to drink? Drinking is a lot worse than kissing a boy! I would have called the cops on her for giving my daughter beer.  |
Date: 10/15/2008 5:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 63241
This mother sounds like trouble with a Capital T. She seems to be trying to live her youth through the children and that's dangerous. Remember the mother who got on MySpace just to pretend to be a boyfriend and the poor girl ended up committing suicide? I'm totally with you on this.  |
Date: 10/15/2008 5:55:00 AM
From Authorid: 15228
I totally agree, I would never let my daughter stay there again either. That mother is trouble and taking her kids to do such immature things is ridiculous (not to mention the drinking)...it's one thing for kids to do it on there own, another thing for an adult to participate. I'm not surprised she denied the drinking, she could get into so much trouble over that. Sounds like she is trying to be one of the kids and that can only lead to trouble.  |
Date: 10/15/2008 7:08:00 AM
From Authorid: 61847
Wow, parents. *shakes head* this is just awful, immature behavior. I'm sorry you have to deal with this. It looks like you can only trust what is best for your children. Hope it gets better, can you block her number from calling your son? He can block the girl and the mom on myspace as well. *hugs*  |
Date: 10/15/2008 8:36:00 AM
From Authorid: 51106
I agree with everyone else. This woman is irresponsible and very immature. You are doing the right thing my not letting your daughter go over there anymore.  |
Date: 10/15/2008 8:42:00 AM
From Authorid: 64365
I don't think I would be letting my children hang out down there, anymore. Plus, I would have already called someone to put this woman in her place, especially when she gave them beer, and made that sexual comment to my son.  |
Date: 10/15/2008 8:48:00 AM
From Authorid: 64365
In the state of Texas, giving a minor beer without parental consent is contributing, and making sexual comments like she did to the boy, is sexual harassment. Call CPS and make a complaint. They will investigate that family, and they will talk to your children and you. Not only will your children see the seriousness of what she has done and allowed, the woman herself just might get a quick impromptu lesson in motherhood.  |
Date: 10/15/2008 12:42:00 PM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36352
Thanks everyone for your comments. While I am not at all happy with the mother, I am not going to call the cops. If my daughter had gotten drunk I would re think that, but right now I think it is just best to not let my daughter stay there again. I think the lady is just trying to be the cool mom and went overboard.
Love and Smiles :o)  |
Date: 10/15/2008 6:27:00 PM
From Authorid: 64123
The fact that she was on myspace arguing with children shows her maturity level right there. Invite the daughter to your house if your kids are friends, but no chance I'd be letting my kids go there ever again.  |
Date: 10/15/2008 10:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 63961
That's what I meant TADA by "I don't know what state you live in"...in Missouri, it's the same way. I didn't know if she could prove it or not, just suggesting something :)  |
Date: 10/16/2008 12:07:00 AM ( From Author )
From Authorid: 36352
The mom called me tonight to tell me again that it was all a lie and then went in to telling me how my daughter was a bad influence on her daughter and she had proof.  |