Date: 10/14/1999 11:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 277
I really hope you find out who this person was. I am also a mother and I'm sorry for the loss of your son. Hawk  |
Date: 10/14/1999 11:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 830
this story cought my attention because jan.27 is my deceased brothers birthday.and i too have a little boy and feel for ya'll.hope you find peace. dallas  |
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Date: 10/14/1999 11:54:00 AM
From Authorid: 1036
I'm so sorry, good luck |
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Date: 10/14/1999 12:08:00 PM
From Authorid: 227
I am very sorry for your lose, I could not emagine loosing one of my children. I wish you luck in finding this person and hopefully that will ease your mind just a little. |
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Date: 10/14/1999 12:21:00 PM
Good luck with your search, I hope you find the closure you are seeking. |
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Date: 10/14/1999 1:22:00 PM
I am a mother also, first child, will be 2 in November, so it kind of hit home. I am very sorry for your loss, couldn't imagine it. Keep strong for each other and I hope you find the person who left the scene. |
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Date: 10/14/1999 2:49:00 PM
From Authorid: 364
you should an eye on children evry second alot of people say the only left for a second or a for 1 or 3 miniuts in your case ar for a qulck phone call alot of things can happen in a couple on minutes iam sorry for you and realy hope you find the as*hole person who hurt your son and i dont know what i do if i lose my nepwew sure hes a brat omtimes but i love so i realy realy hope you find that baster*! ~NICOLE NR.~ |
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Date: 10/14/1999 2:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 364
i wrote the story above and i wanted to say that iam 12. |
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Date: 10/14/1999 3:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 830
we could tell. |
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Date: 10/14/1999 3:29:00 PM
From Authorid: 277
To the 12 year old. Until you're older and have your own children, you will not understand that young children tend to wander off and that you can't keep your eye on them every second/minute. This woman really doesn't need a lecture from you or anyone else. Hawk |
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Date: 10/14/1999 3:30:00 PM
From Authorid: 830
hawk go to our story dallas. |
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Date: 10/14/1999 5:01:00 PM
Oh my god!!! My heart soooo goes out for you. That has got to be one of the worst if not the worst experience to have to ever go through. I am so sorry and pray that you and your family may someday find peace again. The lord works in mysterious ways and someday soon you may have the justice you've so been looking for. God Bless!!!! |
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Date: 10/15/1999 10:57:00 AM
From Authorid: 408
What a terrible tragedy to go through. I am also very sorry about the loss of your baby. I am also a mother and I can't imagine the heartbreak you are going through. I hope you find the person who did this. I wish you the best and stay strong.-K. |
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Date: 10/15/1999 4:39:00 PM
From Authorid: 751
HAWK........a mother??? |
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Date: 10/20/1999 6:18:00 AM
Very SAd wish we could help |
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Date: 10/20/1999 8:51:00 AM
From Authorid: 1206
I certainly hope that you are able to find this person, and bring some sort of closure to this horrific loss. I think all the parents will be holding their kids a little bit closer after reading your story....T.
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Date: 10/21/1999 1:37:00 PM
I am so sorry for your loss. I will remember you and your family in my prayers. May God bless and give each of you peace...DEB |
Date: 10/26/1999 12:21:00 PM
From Authorid: 1038
Losing a child has to be the most devastating experience a person could go through. If I read the story right, the truck hit your son first and DID stop. You probably have the person who fatally injured your son. The other person who didn't stop may NOT have known he hit someone or someTHING (he might have thought it was a dog or cat) and when it came out on the news that it was a child, he might have been too afraid of the consequences if he came forward later. In any event, whether you ever find that driver or not, you will always have your memories of your precious son and you can be consoled by the fact that he is now in a much better place surrounded by a love we can't begin to understand. Since neither driver was really at fault, can you try to forget about the driver who didn't stop to help, forgive him, and MAKE your own closure? Having lost a loved one to a long illness, I can tell you that time does help heal. I have forgotten most of the "bad" memories of his illness and suffering, and now only remember the "good" memories. I pray that God gives you peace.  |
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Date: 11/2/1999 3:45:00 PM
I feel sory for you
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Date: 11/2/1999 8:36:00 PM
From Authorid: 595
I also feel sorry for you. |
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Date: 11/10/1999 4:44:00 AM
From Authorid: 1811
It's terrible that you lost a child this way. My
17-year-old brother was killed in a car wreck
the day he graduated from high school -- ironic
huh? -- and the driver of the car my brother was
riding in was at fault, but the driver never
served any time and later ran over and killed an
old woman, never served time for that either.
Brian was the third child of my mother's to die,
we all miss him dearly. So I can sort of
understand how you feel about your son, I hope
the driver of the car comes forward someday. |
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Date: 11/11/1999 4:22:00 PM
i fell soooooo bad for you ... well whoever comitted this hit and run act is definety going to hellll hahaahahhahahahaha |
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Date: 11/20/1999 8:06:00 PM
I'm so sorry about your son i have kids of my own and i can only imagne what your family is going through but put it all in god's hands and he will handle that hit and run driver be strong and please don't give up....Lillie |
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Date: 11/23/1999 5:11:00 AM
From Authorid: 2061
I am so very sorry for your loss. But don't despair or give up hope. Go on for your other child's sake. I agree with Lillie and author 1038. That person may or may not ever be found and what he/she did will be something that they will have to live with for the rest of their lives. Leave it all to God, and when you feel in despair pray to Him. If you believe in Jesus, just say His name over and over and you will find peace. About closure, I think that is just a word that has been overused by the media. There is no such thng as closure when losing a loved one is concerned. My mother lost her father 45 years ago to a heart attack. He was 59. To this day she cries when she talks about him. And no she's not senile or anything like that. The point is you will never forget your son and although the pain will lessen with time it will still always stay with you. Please forgive that person but most of all forgive yourself. With God's help I pray that you will find peace. God bless you and your famuly. |
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Date: 11/23/1999 5:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 2069
On January 27,1999 I was celebrating my son's 10th birthday. That day I said thank you lord for another year. To you I say god bless...I believe in cases like this God needed him as young as he was to help out else where. I believe that he dwells here...just in another form and shape.. He is your families GUARDIAN ANGEL....Once again keep the faith and god bless..... |
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Date: 11/24/1999 8:14:00 PM
Would you all just look at it from a different perspective. Maybe from the diceased?
If I were to die I would hate for anyone to feel sorrow and pain. I would just hope that
they would lead a happy and fulfilling life without me. I get sick when I see people weeping
and screaming for their lost one. I mean I can sort of feel the love in the air
but they are a individual and it is THEIR life. Their lives are not part of the parents assets.
I think parents should treat the lives and death of their children just like any other.
I think the child would be wrapped in sadness not just because there are guilt marked people walking freely
or because of death but because of his mother's pain. I don't think he's happy up in heaven or wherever
looking down to see his mother leading a life where she does not take any day for granted. ~lunacy~
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Date: 12/3/1999 4:26:00 AM
From Authorid: 2326
Sorry about your kid, but tormenting
yourself over who the driver was won't bring
back your kid. What difference does it
make? It sounds accidental and I'm sure
whoever it was probably isn't feeling all
that great about it, anyway. Let karma take
its course. Revenge and hatred aren't
generally worth the price you pay.
Be thankful for the child you have
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the cost to your karma |
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Date: 12/17/1999 8:19:00 PM
HI
My name is Mealonie my story is the murder of my 13 yr old duaghter.
I am so sorry for what you have been through,my oldest brother's little
boy was also hit and killed by a car 3 yr's ago,I know how hard it was on my
family.T.J. was only 6 yr's old and he looked just like my brother,
we couldn't wait for him to grow up.We knew he was going to be just like Terry.
Terry killed his self just 3 yr's before that happpened, he could have never handled
the pain he would have went through over losing a child,I guess it is good that he went first
Terry and I were very close in age and in our hearts.We had all of the same friends
and we hung out together all of the time; even after we were grown.
I hate the thought that your kid's will nver be able to be that way
and my children wont either.It makes you wonder sometimes why God gives them to you
just to take them away;but then you sit down and you think how much they changed your life ;
and the person you are becouse of them!!I would give any thing to have my dauhgter back
I know she is in good hands.But I still want her back!!!I wished
Christmas would just go on by this year,but I have a sonthat I have
to keep going for.Good luck I hope you find that person in that car.
You probbably feel the way I do if they catch the monster's that did this to
are children what does it solve they are gone forever and we can never have
them back.Thank you for reading my story I am here for you.
email me larz@blomand.net maybe we can help each other.
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Date: 12/20/1999 12:34:00 PM
From Authorid: 2124
I too lost a child at a year old and although she died under sanitary conditions, the pain was intolerable. We live near St. Pete but I don't remember reading this story in the news. I am so sorry for your terrible loss. Be assured that time does heal all wounds and it may not feel like it now but you'll eventually be fine. It took me the longest time. I could be driving down the street and somrthing could trigger a memory, I would pull over and just sob. Heart wrenching pain. Let it flow. It's all part of the healing process. People mean well and they try to console you, but sometimes they say dumb things. Just know that they mean well. Bad things happen to good people, there are just no guarantees to this life. Sorry hope this helps a little. God bless... |
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Date: 12/28/1999 7:32:00 AM
From Authorid: 2840
I hope the person who did this to your baby sees these postings. Take care and best wishes to you and your family.
p.s. Hawk, I am a mother. |
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Date: 2/5/2000 1:50:00 PM
From Authorid: 3543
Can i ask you this was this a accident i mean you are the one that took your eye off him not that i am saying it is easy to keep your eyes on a two yr old(i have a one and two yr old myself) and know that it is hard to watch them every second of the day but i do not think that you should plame anyone for his death the person probley did not know he hit him and if you are just trying to find this guy for closure why go to the trouble your son need to be in peace and if you ack like this i do not think he will be why don't you just put closure on it your self in your heart that what your son would want |
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Date: 5/14/2000 4:55:00 PM
From Authorid: 7812
you will never find this person that did this to your son.......unless thay turn themselves in. you need to find a priest to help you through this. not therapy. they want your money and tears and thats all. find the priest for closure. or you'll die of a broken heart. peace and time to you and your son. |
Date: 4/30/2001 3:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 33424
I am so sorry for your lost. I have never lost a child but the lose must certainly be a great one.
malcolm_conrad  |
Date: 7/10/2002 4:29:00 AM
From Authorid: 35160
omg , im so sorry 4 ur loss hun. 8^) huggs shay  |
Date: 7/1/2007 10:36:00 AM
From Authorid: 51292
omg Im so sorry..i hope you were able to find who it was.  |
Date: 7/1/2007 1:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 59876
to those of you that are tormenting the author with blame issues, i really think you need to shut up. author, i am so sorry for your loss. i cannot imagine the pain of losing a child. my heart hurts for you. i don't begin to imagine that your pain will ever be completely gone, but i hope that your heart begins to heal and that you and your family can begin to live again. i pray that every day your pain lessens a little. big squishy hugs sweetie, hang in there okay? there are so many people here that will support you and be with you should you need it..i'm so very sorry  |
