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I have a love question

  Author:  24319  Category:(Discussion) Created:(1/21/2001 12:52:00 AM)
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hey there ! okay, I have a question.. The other say I realized I was in love, for the first time, and he isn't my boyfriend or anything, but we have known each other for over a year now, and he would always tell me that he wanted to be with me, and even though I had the same feelings I would fight them off, because in my heart I knew that we weren't the right ones for each other, but all the changed over the last couple of months and more so in the past week, he goes to college a few states away, and I wrote him a E MAIL telling him that I was in love with him, because he told me the night before I wrote this letter that he "thinks he is in love with me a little bit" well I poured my heart into this letter, and he didn't write me back, or didn't IM me, so Last night I IMed him and told him, that I needed to know how he felt, no matter good or bad, i need closer, i need to know, so that I wouldn't waste my time if the answer was no. and he told me he "wasn't ready to tell me yet" my qouestion is.. what exactly does that mean "I'm not ready too". I don't know what that means, and it's driving me insane, because I want to know before i go insane... please, i want to know what everyone that reads this thinks, because I am at a lose.. thanks a bunch..Oh and another thing, I asked him, if all the things he said to me, all the nice things, if they were all lies, and he said "I don't lie" Peace and Love ~~Carrie~~

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Date: 1/21/2001 1:25:00 AM  From Authorid: 21867    Yo Carrie,
Yeah...that 'love' word. Sometimes ya just wanna suck it back into your mouth when you say it...coz once you do..wow, thats the big time play. Maybe the guy with his 'I'm not ready to tell you yet' means exactly that. I mean, with love you HAVE to be sure about it before you say it. If anything, I think the guy probably did the right thing - in that he probably needs a bit of time to figure out if he does in fact love you. I mean, would you really have liked to hear him say 'I love you' if he wasn't really sure about it? If he had said it, yet wasn't sure, how would that make you feel? Look at it this way, if he does take time to think about it THEN comes back to you with an answer...you would know its probably a genuine one. I hope the answer you receive is the answer you're looking for. Peace, AGENT SMITH
  
Date: 1/21/2001 1:58:00 AM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 24319    yeah, your right, but it's like, when he says things to me like " I want you to be my girl" and all that stuff, and he was the first one to say the Love word. it's okay, no matter if I feel weird when he says, then I say something, and it's like a big deal, i don't understand men !!!!!!!!!!! lol, well some of them I do... but it's so hard.. i'm starting not to like "Love" all that much.. but thats for your advise, it really made me think... Peace and Love ~~Carrie~~  
Date: 1/21/2001 3:47:00 AM  From Authorid: 7654    He's in college another world..If a person truly loves someone they don't hesitate in telling them.~~  
Date: 1/21/2001 11:38:00 AM  From Authorid: 19623    Love itself is often hard to define for someone. I think he just didn't expect your answer, or at least not so soon. Give him a little time, he loves you, but he hasn't noticed yet. ~~PlanesKeeper~~
Date: 1/21/2001 11:49:00 AM  From Authorid: 22991    CARRIE,
IF HE REALLY LOVED YOU, THERE WOULD BE NO WAITING ABOUT IT.
NOBODY PUTS THEIR FEELINGS ON HOLD UNLESS THEY ARE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING ALITTLE BETTER. AND COMING FROM A MAN. THAN THAT IS WHAT IT MUST BE. ESPEACILLY IF HE IS IN COLLAGE, THERE ARE SO MANY CHICS OUT THERE. YA KNOW? BE CARE YOU DONT GET HURT.
BOOHEAD
Date: 1/21/2001 11:59:00 AM  From Authorid: 18781    Well you said it took yu awhile to figure out that you felt this way, maybe he is sorting through his feelings. He may not want to tell you yes he feels strongly about you and realize he doesn't or say no and realize that he does. Telling someone you love them is a big step and I think he just wants to be sure of his feelings. Give him a few days and see what happens.
Aester
  
Date: 1/21/2001 12:14:00 PM  From Authorid: 21835    Hi Carrie. I can't say that I know exactly what your friend was up to but I have a friend I've known for nearly 8 years. We never did hook up when we met. Like you, while I liked him enough for him to be one of my best friends, I didn't feel he was, "the one" so I never got involved with him, but he told me later that he liked me since the beginning and when I rejected him he got kind of bent out of shape but still wanted to be friends. Over the years, we've each had a couple different girl friends or boy friends but we stay friends and every couple of years or so he puts me though this big trip about him being in love with me. One time he wanted me to write him a letter and tell him exactly how I felt about him and he was going to do the same. I did it - then kicked myself because he never wrote his letter. When I tried to get a straight answer out of him all he would say was "I love my girl" and "now is not the time, but our bond is strong". We've talked about getting together, tried to plan it once, but some unexpected thing always happen to keep us from coming together. So to me, that's Gods way of saying "maybe it isn't meant to be". He has had the same girlfriend for the last 4 years and even still, he would continue to call me and say, "I wish you were my girl" and I'd have to remind him about his girlfriend. It was very confusing for me to continue being friends with him because of it. In some strange way, I think my friend had some deep need to be loved by me because I had rejected him as a lover in the beginning. It was an ego thing. He talks like we will be friends forever and "one day" 20 years from now, he'll finally win me over. Last year he finally stopped and proposed to his girlfriend so I'm still friends with him. AnnaMontana
Date: 1/21/2001 12:40:00 PM    I know what you mean,be patience and expect everything.Whatever the answer will be believe him.Don't let him down if the answer should be negative for you.But try too go on then.
Fightertje
Date: 1/22/2001 2:44:00 AM    in between boys or girls who like or need more sex............
Date: 1/22/2001 7:56:00 PM  ( From Author ) From Authorid: 24319    hey guys ! thanks for the advise, it really made me think, and I was talking to my step sister and she thinks that I might have caught him off guard, and I was the first girl to say that to him, but what ever the case, I am going to give him to thursday to say something, and if he doesn't I'm going to tell him to forever hold his peace, because I am moving on... I'll tell you guys what happens thursday ! thanks a again, i read and took everything in that everyone said, excpet that sex thing, i wasn't understanding that. lol... take care. Peace and Love ~~Carrie~~  

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