Date: 2/17/2001 10:16:00 PM
From Authorid: 20296
AWWW!!!! some girls like the good guys:) just wait, you will find them around from time to time, especially when all those girls grow up and see that the big jock can not support them playing football (unless they are in the NFL) LOL  |
Date: 2/17/2001 10:22:00 PM
From Authorid: 9288
Hiya rowxwox that is an interesting name. Nice post too. Peace,  |
Date: 2/17/2001 10:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 9288
:-)  |
Date: 2/17/2001 10:25:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
aawwww what a cool post!!! yhea I guess girls go for bad boys!!!! don'''t know why but you know what after a few cheating or beatings or lies maybe they might get a clue!!! it does take awhile but hang in there you will meet the right one someday!!! LOL Moon Girl  |
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Date: 2/17/2001 10:25:00 PM
i feel your pain, man. don't worry about it. things always have a way of working themselves out. i've learned that is the one indisputable truth. just let things run their course. |
Date: 2/17/2001 10:26:00 PM
From Authorid: 10442
well for one thing, I think there's an atraction betwen u two, go for it! ;-) I dont know why some football players can be such jerkes, I guess its the code of the jocks lol. I know cuz my last boyfriend was a jock and he cheated on me broke up with me and said nasty rumors about me. I guess its the way they are...lol.  |
Date: 2/17/2001 10:41:00 PM
From Authorid: 21931
well thank you then, heheh....but one thing to point out!! i think girls learn to be a real women. and a women find the right guys!! hope so!!!! :) God Bless, ID  |
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Date: 2/17/2001 11:00:00 PM
From Authorid: 1749
Hi: I rarely comment about stories like this but I am because you sound like me. Throughout high school AND college I think I dated a total of 3 women (no, ladies, I'm not a nerd!). But you sound like me in that you are honest with your feelings & yet scared to tell women how you feel. I was that way with several women. Am I a jock type? Heck no! I'm 46 years old & have been working for 16 years with mentally ill/chemically dependent adults in a group home and an In-Pt Psych Unit. One thing I've learned throughout my years of living: many (NOT all) but many women who DO marry athletes tend to be insecure themselves. Up until about 5-6 years ago, I would have classified MYSELF as an insecure person. But yet I was able to physically pack 3 bags, leave a city I disliked (the NYC area), & move to a city I found to be more peaceful (Minneapolis). This is where I met my wife. I've been living in Minneapolis for the past 17 years and feel it is "home" (in other words, psychologically I'm at peace with myself). You will find a patient & lucky woman. Take care. Cheers, Eric |
Date: 2/17/2001 11:15:00 PM
From Authorid: 11348
You know, I've never understood why some of us girls will always go after the wrong guys, the inconsiderate guys after only one thing like you said. I just don't understand it. I personally prefer the nice, sweet guys. Don't worry, there are lots of girls who will, if they haven't already, realize that they're really missing out not to get with a nice guy like you say you are and seem to be. Good luck to you, and I think you should talk to that girl...It's nice to know there are nice guys out there... but of course I already knew that :)  |
Date: 2/18/2001 12:16:00 AM
From Authorid: 17156
This saddens me so much I feel for your situation. I know personally that the jocks at my school were total jerks. Sad thing is every girl wanted them, maybe just to claim a title who knows. Like the whole my b/f is on the foot ball team thing..I mean please does you b/f ever tell you that he cares when he's not trying to get some! I don't see why ppl don't look at whats on the inside rather than the outside. Look at the heart not the body or the placement in society. I wish you could tell this girl just how you feel and if you do I wish you the best of luck with it maybe she will be wise and realize that love is in the heart not in the looks. Love,  |
Date: 2/18/2001 10:38:00 AM
From Authorid: 10315
Not ALL girls fall for jocks i personally despise most of the ones i know, i think they are immauture and self absorbed and i've seen them treat their girlfriends horribly. Me and all my friends always go for the good guys :-)  |
Date: 2/18/2001 10:41:00 AM
From Authorid: 11749
I have no idea why girls like the football player type guys! I mean a lot of them are really sweet, but they just... I don't know. Coming from my point of view, I don't think that I'd ever go out with a jock. And I think that you should tell this girl how you feel. Otherwise, you might regret it. Keep me posted, k? ~CaitieAnjel  |
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Date: 2/18/2001 11:48:00 AM
From Authorid: 26463
Great post ~*~ |
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Date: 2/18/2001 12:19:00 PM
From Authorid: 9770
marry me... |
Date: 2/18/2001 12:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 9130
Well, let me explain. I always liked the jocks in high school... when i got to college I fell for the frat guys... I have always had more guy who were my friends than girls, and i always got to hear all the dirt on everything. What you say is true. I know from my friends that are guys that MOSt guys like that are "players" who just want one thing. I think it is a phase or something... But now i am 21 and engaged to a wonderful guy who wasn't some jock or in a fraternity... he is just a normal sweet guy who is as crazy as me :)  |
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Date: 2/18/2001 2:31:00 PM
there will always be a puppy love and there will always be a what might have been and i think that she is a puppy love and still yet to have that what might have been that you will think about every now and then when you do find the right one!!dont settle down yet you sound to young for that and besides the best advice i can give you is DONT LOOK |
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Date: 2/18/2001 2:32:00 PM
CONT. DONT LOOK she will find you when you look you tend to find the wrong ones i hope that i have help. V |
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Date: 2/18/2001 7:35:00 PM
From Authorid: 27365
Thank you so much for that. I believe you. I have to say that alot of girls, like myself, are simply suckers for punishment. |
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Date: 2/18/2001 7:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 27920
believe me-there are some girls who go for the wrong guy,but some girla like myself know what they want.you will find the right person and maybe you should go for it with this girl.talk to her and see if there is a chance of you two hooking up.tell her your feelings PLEASE!!!!!!!!!but the right girl is out there and it may be her.GOOD LUCK!!!!!!!!11 |
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Date: 2/21/2001 6:14:00 AM
It's kinda true what you are saying...lots of girls<
fall for the athletic kind of guy. I go for the
"hockey guys". (or even soccer) and you are right,
they don't always treat us girls right! We might
not realize it yet, but trust me, we soon find out!
Trust me, I've learnd my lesson! But then again,
since I am in a small school, the "sporty" guys
are real sweethearts and DO know how to treat girls.
But I also agree that there are more to a guy than
just sports! See yah around! :-) Chrissy (Wild Child) |
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Date: 2/21/2001 6:24:00 PM
From Authorid: 28179
im an athletic guy but i now what you mean ladies there are guys who love you for who you are not if you put out.oh and you should tell her you like her :) |
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Date: 2/24/2001 7:04:00 PM
From Authorid: 14591
You sound very sweet!...Dont worrie...when ur gone she'll realize what she missed out on. Maybe just maybe shell come running to you. |
Date: 2/25/2001 8:01:00 AM
From Authorid: 9605
I think that you have your head on your shoulders and you have just grown up faster than the guys in your class, but don't worry, after highschool, you will realize that there are women out there looking for a man just like you:)  |