Date: 2/18/2001 10:44:00 PM
From Authorid: 14175
Author 491 hi!!!! I'm matt. I'm so very sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. I'm sure he was a great man. I'm truly sorry you weren't able to say goodbye the way you wanted to but I am sure that he knew you loved him! I know you will miss him terribly and there is nothing that will fill that space he left behind but, I as you, am glad he is no longer in pain and is with his God. I hope you will find the strength to go on because you are his child and are therefore an extention of him. You must carry on and try to imulate those good qualities you saw in him. So that the things he taught you will not be in fane. Take care friend...matt....  |
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Date: 2/18/2001 10:46:00 PM
From Authorid: 14175
in vain (sorry) |
Date: 2/18/2001 10:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 26303
I'm so glad you are still here. Yes I believe you are right when you say God answered your prayers. And he was probably the one who sent your fiance back to you. Cherish life. Life can throw us many curve balls, but on the whole it can be great. ~Aussie Girl  |
Date: 2/18/2001 10:51:00 PM
From Authorid: 19446
cmon you're not the only one depressed right now. i suffer like
you do and made it a point to always talk to friends so that i
keep myself busy tryin to forget and solve it. i pray to God to
give me the strength i need. and ask Him what plans he really has for
me. i too am confused like you but it'll be alright.
--corsair²--  |
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Date: 2/18/2001 10:58:00 PM
From Authorid: 4263
THANKS |
Date: 2/18/2001 11:01:00 PM
From Authorid: 18111
I am my father's son. I am his representative in his abscence. He was; therefore I am. Placing the religious aspect aside, society has placed little value in fathers in recent years resulting in the unruly youth you see middle-aged folks constantly complaining about. Our fathers' would not be pleased at our spiralling behavior as a result of the void left within us from their departure. This "truth" should be remembered anytime we contemplate the taking of our own lives.  |
Date: 2/18/2001 11:37:00 PM
From Authorid: 20750
WOWSER I am so sorry for your pain!!!! my father has been ill this week he had 2 heart attacks this week and i have been praying alot but he is gettin better I did not want to loose my dad!!! I would to anything to take away your pain but remember your dad isn'''''t suffering anymore he is very much at peace now and I hope you get stronger everyday and find peace yourself my prayers go to you LOL  |
Date: 2/19/2001 12:18:00 AM
From Authorid: 26203
i am so sorry i feel the pain you are going though please believe me that in time it get easier but you never forget the love i lost my mother through a stroke my last words to her was i sorry i am too busy to vist it had nearly drove me insane that i too had consider killing my self but i sensed that my mother would have been more hurt by that please remember he is always with you and you and your family and father are in my prays please forgive me if my words are not enough or that they dont make sense to you just remember we all care about you and i am so glad that you are in the living love always
Anne (koala)  |
Date: 2/19/2001 6:35:00 AM
From Authorid: 20016
i'm glad your ok. it is painfull losing a parent, or anyone that you love. i lost my dad in 1996, he was a diabetic also, and literally went through so much pain and suffering. i miss him with all my heart but i know i will see him again someday. the memories keep me hanging in there.
Midnightsky  |
Date: 2/19/2001 7:55:00 AM
From Authorid: 3538
glad u are okay now.  |
Date: 2/19/2001 3:47:00 PM
From Authorid: 11097
Oh, please know you must be strong, i know terrible things can happen, it is then that you must never quit. Life can be funny sometimes, one day you wake up with the world at ur feet the next day you wake up feeling buried by the world. Killing yourself will not end the pain, but living a happy life will. You must see some good out of everything, and be able to grow from that. You have a fiancee, who i am sure loves you very much and you must not only be strong for them and yourself, but i know your father would have wanted to see you happy. I lost my mother at 10, and i know what it feels like, it hurts, but i know one day you will see him again, and you must be strong. *hugs you* Love-  |
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Date: 2/21/2001 1:07:00 AM ( Admin )
Thanks for shareing this with us, I think that God answers our prayers, his way, and in his time. I am glad you posted this because maybe others will look deeper for the answers they may have received but didn't see. |
